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Hey well as you probably see I am 19 and I'm Christian (JesusFreak) and go ahead ask me something hopefully i can give you an answer thats right and ok with you. Have a good day

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There is this guy in my class and everyday he like stares at me for the whole period...but when i look over at him he looks right away...what do u think that means!thankx
alexa

hes likes you...hes just shy and afraid to ask you out...i gaurentee it cus thats what i would do when i use to like a girl

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I like a guy that is nice, funny, but he flirts with everyone!!!! We aren't really dating yet, but we like each other. How should/ or should i talk to him about being more of a boyfriend? And if i do than how should i ask him?

just talk to him about it cus surely if he likes you he will wanna talk about it... however if he flirts now with everyone its gonna be hard for him to stop when you guys get together...

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I'm 13. I have 5 pairs of shorts, 2 pairs of pants, 5 shirts and 2 sets of pJ's.

I keep asking and asking my mom to take me out shopping, but she always keeps saying no. I get in trouble at school a lot because my shorts are to short and my pants are too tight, but I can't help it if my mom never takes me shopping!
How do I get her to take me out shopping?

if you need to ask the school to get involved and tell them to complain to your pants about your clothing

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i cant stand not having a boyfriend, i havnt had one in soo long and i feel like im so ugly i mean when i get one i wont obsess over him or kill myself when we break up, but like i feel like im ugly i mean i have blue eyes brown hair and im tan i dont sound pretty but why cant i get a boyfriend??? what are some ways i can??HELPP

i like a girl with confidence who is comfortable with herself the way she is...you havta be confident with what you have to work with...just have faith in your self that you can get any guy you want and you can make it happen as long as you keep in mind that any guy would be lucky to have you...

JesusFreak

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OK. i just bought this really cute mid-thigh length white denim skirt and i have no idea wut to wear with it. i know this is probably the stupidest question on here, but if you could help me, that'd be great.

o yea and i rate.

definately go for a pink top even tho its so clinque for a girl to wear pink, it would make you look super cute with a pink top and white skirt

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my best friend n i met eachother in 6th grade but we werent friends until 7th n for a year we had a lot of fun!! we did everything together and then she got into a fight w. another friend of mine towards the middle of 7th grade n we didnt talk to that friend for about 4 months n then i started talkin to her just hi n bye n then 8th grade started n me n that girl became more friends we went to her brothers football game together like once though n my best friend stopped talkin to me because of that yeah pretty stupid huh but now she wont talk to me its been like 1 week n 2 days n i just cant take it ne more cuz she wont talk.. wut should i do plz help me !! tnxs

your supposed best friend is being really immature..what kind of friend does that...just ask her why is she doing this your guys are supposed to be best friends and that you really miss her

JesusFreak

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im having a party . . wat should i have to eat and to do...don't be all perverted and say those nasty things...besides spin the bottle wat good games r there to play...the party is for grls n boys the age of 13.....help

i personally love pizza rolls or you can cook a whole bunch of those forzen pizza's and also truth or dare is a great game for 13 year old parties

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i dated this one guy for almost a year and a half...but he broke up w/ me this summer before he entered highschool and im still a year younger..but we go to the same school and have a class together somehow. he hasnt gone out with ne1 since we've broken up but he did like this one girl a lil...we had a really good relationship and it became really natural for me..now im having trouble like going out with other guys cus im too experienced about wat they do to get girls and how to get them and allll that stuff i never had to worry about..i have a hard time getting over the guy i dated forever sometimes...sometimes all these feelings come back but i kno he doesnt want to do nething cus hes enjoying being single and he wants ass...but why isnt he going for ne1? alot of people like him..hes mr. popular..mr. quarterback of the football team...and me n him never went farther than making out? does he want ass from other girls? and he flirts with me soo much all the time...but thats kinda his personiality...i really dont understand him..im enjoying being single but i miss him sometimes...what should i do? my friends always tell me he def. still likes me...but i d k? should i get over him completely or try to go back out with him even after that long time

he probably dumped you for that reason because he wanted ass and you wouldnt give it to him (that awesome too that you didnt either)but the odds are he cant get over you either, he probably misses you just as you miss him which stops him from going with anyone..what your going through is perfectly normal...id say give it sometime

JesusFreak

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ok me and my friend like the same guy and he is hotttt i mean burning hott and im afraid to tell him because i think he might over react and i really want to tell him because i think he might like me and if he doesnt i think he might like freak out or something and im like freaking out and scared to see how he will take it and when we go sit on the floor he trys to sit between me and my friend so im starting to think he likes both of us sorry its so long so please help me

.:*CoNfUsEd*:.

most guys wont freak out if you tell them you like them...we think its flattering...id say just do it find out how he feels...although if he likes you both your gonna be in some serious deep water some where along the lines though...

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i think this guy likes me and all but i like him and this kid james who is on of my best friends
but this other kid always jokefully kicks me like my butt sometimes and everything ya kno flirts ims me and all this stuff, but i think my friend who went out with him b4 likes him still but i kinda like him and i dotn wanna ruin me n my friends friendship
how do i know if he def. wants to ask me out
and i have another question
do u guys thing it is okay to ask a guy out?

thank u so much!!!!

ok...first let get over that whole guys need to ask a girl out cus i definately hate that (me being a guy)its not like guys are immune to rejection...we get rejected just as much as girls do...so yes i would indeed welcome a girl who has the guts to ask a guy out...ask one of his friends if he likes you they should know...if your worried abvout losing your frineendship with that one girl talk to the girl about it...

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ok so this guy is always messing with my head it seems...
1st time- he told me he did and completely acted like it and held hands with me and all that stuff then he goes off and likes this other really pretty girl & he said he didnt like me nemore

2nd time- after he learns he has no chance with Kim (really pretty girl) he says he likes me again and we hugged for like ever and acted like it once more

hes always calling me whipped but its kinda his way of flirting...joking like that.. before he started liking Kim he told this guy he wasnt gonna ask me out....im so confused about what hes doing here...
someone help?
and hes older than me and i dont get to do all the stuff that the school does for his grade and the girls that also like him get to go so i feel kinda left out and not knowing what hes doing with them
:-/

Your definately his back up girl...he knows you wont leave him and that why he says your whipped he can be a total jerk to you and you still like him...he can like some other girl and yet your still gonna like him...being a back up girl isnt a good thing...move on from this guy he doesnt wanna get serious with you so dont give him anymore thought...

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okay hey! does this guy like me :
He comes over my house ( we are neighbors ) and plays pool w/ me. He always says " you know you think im hot " and he when i go outside and play bball he comes outside to and plays w/ me.
DOES HE LIKE ME??

yeah he likes you...hes just waiting for you to flirt back...

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okay, yesterday nyte i went skating with a hole gruop of friends , and this kidd adam started to talk to me abotu basketball and stuff.. .then i sat down and he asked if he could sit next to me so i said yes . . then i started sakting with my friends and he would foloew me . .then i would sit down and then my friend kerri would sit down next to me and he would tell her to get up and stuff. . so she got up . . then there were 5 cuople skates and i was like i will be sittin herr and stuff and adam said will u skate with me nicole and i was like umm why ? and he was like cuz and i said u have a gurlfriend and he was like cum on and i wa slike okay fine so we skated together holding hands. and while we were sitting he kept putting his arm around me and stuff and everyone tells me he really relaly likes me a lot and stuff then we went dancin and i was dancin and he kept cumin up behind me and dtrying to grind with me and stuff and he kept touching my ass and stuff. . . does he like me or is he jsut playing aroudn with me or just using me ?? help please dont dealte !!!!!!!

yeah he definately likes you...but i would stay clear of him though...he has a girlfriend and he still tries hitting on you and what not and even does it openly in front of a large group of people who know hes taken....he wouldnt be a very loyal bf to you if he cant be honest to the one hes with now...

JesusFreak

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i lik this one kid but i dont think i have major feelings for him i just wanna like kick it wit im if anyone can give me any moves i can make to give him some hints please tel me and no making out or anthing i just wanna hint him in thnx for reading write back as soon as possible

just mention like a perticular movie you wanna see and then ask him if there is any like movie hed wanna see and when tells you, you be like ohhhh that sounds really good maybe we should go see it together...

JesusFreak

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ok i met this one girl like in jan and she went out wit this kid and she still likes him but he told me he doesnt like her anymore and i kinda otld her he doesnt and shes like oh its ok and he wants to go to homeocming wit me but shes my frind and if she finds out she mite be mad since i help her wit her problems and me and her arent the bestest of friends we dont really hang out but i see her in school and we talk and outside of school she ngs out wit some of my old friends so i ssay hi but if she sees me wit that kid at homecoming she mite get mad wat do i do i kinda like him too

the best thing you can do is ask the girl permission to go with him, even if she says no its ok go somewhere else with him on a date see if it really worth jeopardizing you and the other girls friendship....

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ok, don't say my friend is a fag or anything just because he cut.. i don't wanna hear it... but i've been really mad because, i was talking to him, and he quit cuttin for about 3months, but then while i was talkin to him, i told him something, and he said "brb" then when he got back, he told me that he had cut himself because of me.He said he was just looking for a reason to do it, but now i feel really guilty. IDK what to do, hes not online a lot so i haven't talked to him, so my guilty concious grows each day. I'm mad at myself because 3 months ago, i was the reason he stopped cutting, now im the reason he started. Can anyone give me advice on what to do right now? i don't like the feeling of being guilty, but i can't talk to him...i need a way to clear most of my concious about this, cuz its really disturbing my sleep and life in general..

dont blame your self at all...he said it himself he needed an excuse...he wanted to cut himself...and most cutters cut themselves for the attnetion and realise this its all that is on your mind right now and hes getting what he wants...this guy is a real jerk for blaming his problem on you when it is actually his fault that he cant control his self dont you dare take anymore of the blame...you didnt put the razor to his skin he did...not your fault end of story

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ok well a while back my "best friend" went behind my back and we weren't friends nemore well now we r again but we arent best buds again but we're still rlly good friends and we even made a pact to never fight over guys!! and now i like a guy that she likes and she said if i triy to git w/ne guy that she doesnt even know but thinks is hot or likes that she wont be my friend nemore and i told her 2 remember the pact n shes like w/e and so now i liek this guy that she likes and i dont know what to do? she is makin me soo mad and all over dudes 2! what do u think?

shes no friend if she makes demands like that..you need to find a new friend that is worth your time and wont boss you around...

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This guy and I have been talkin for awhile now. We like each other. The only thing is that he is a sophmore and im a freshman. He doesnt like to hang around me when im with my freshman friends, and vis versa. Well today, we had a game (we do the same sport) and he didnt even come say hi to me. Then later i found out that he felt up another girl. I still like him, but i'm kinda pissed. Where not dating so maybe i shouldnt be, I just dont know what to do or what to say to him at this point. I'll rate well

hes not worth you time...especcially when he wont even talk to you around your friends...your boyfreind wont always b there for you but your friend will id take a pass on this guy....but if you really want to get to know him i guess try talkin to him when no one else is around...

JesusFreak

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Hey..okay well my problem is that i really really like this guy...he is really hot,got a good personailty hes really fun to be around...but I heard that he only goes out with punk girls which im not..and im not just about to change who i am for a guy but i really like this one!!..i mean i talk to him and hang around with him...but i dont kno what to do!!!

So my question(s) is: 1.what is your idea of being punk?
2.if he just goes for punk girls....how do i try to get him to notice me without trying to be too punk?
3.do you think there will ever be a chance if i keep trying?

Thanxs girls...luvs you lots

i think a punk is anyone who goes agasint the majority

most guys do have a certain kind of girl they wanna date but if there a girl they really like it wont matter who they are or what there classified as...

i think you have a chance just flirt with him a little bit see if he responds or something like that i wouldnt give up on him just yet...

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I want to get my bellybutton pierced but i dont think my mom will let me ill be 17 in less than a month any1 have any ideas on how to convince her ? and also i was wondering how bad it hurts and how they do it

i dunno if this helps but when i was with my friend when she getting hers peirced she passed out...

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