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guy I like a guy that is nice, funny, but he flirts with everyone!!!! We aren't really dating yet, but we like each other. How should/ or should i talk to him about being more of a boyfriend? And if i do than how should i ask him?
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you should deffinitly tell him if u want to be more then just friends... and u could ask him by maybe being lik ... "" so what is it ur looking for now a days... u wanting a gf... or u lik... jus bob n around... "" ~ that way u can see where he stands n what he wants... a kno?... and most likly he will state the same question back to u... so u can spill how u are looking for a relationship ~ ~ ~ thats what im gonna do with this one guy im like n ... hope it all works for u *goodluck* - mare ]
just talk to him about it cus surely if he likes you he will wanna talk about it... however if he flirts now with everyone its gonna be hard for him to stop when you guys get together...
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I Know its hard to tell some one u like them i had the same problem just call him one day and tell him how u feel and dont give up if he says thats not how he feels about u tell him that its ok and jus go on it will be ok i promis ]
every guy flirts uncontrolably its a fact but if hes not paying atention to u because of this it sounds like theres better people out there but if u need to talk to him simply wait till ur alone and say "i need to talk to u about somthing" and bring up that hes flirting with other girls too much and u can do the rest ]
Well, that's great that you ike someone and have found someone that likes you back. If you aren't dating yet you really can't control him or tell him what to do and how to act. That isn't your place to say. Even though y'all may like each other, the fact that he flirts with other should tell you a little something about his character. Your best bet in this case would be to nicely talk to him about where you two stand relationship wise. Ask him is he's even looking or interested in having a g/f right now. If he isn't well then this guy isn't the committed kind and just like to flirt, but if he is then go from there. Then take the initiative and ask if he wants to go to the movies this weekend or something. Give him about a week or so and if he's still flirty with others, bring it up, and tell him how it makes you feel. Don't yell or anything. Calmly explain it to him. Then give him about naother week or so to change, if he doesn't then I would begin to move on because he obviously isn't a guy that's going to be all about YOU and that's what you deserve! :) ]
Be like I'll only go out with you if you stop flirting with everyone because If I see you flirt with other girls.. that would really hurt me..just be honest and tell him how you feel ]
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