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Jazzy**

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ok so i broke up w/ my boyfriend a couple months ago and lately ive really been missing him and thinking ive made te biggest mistake of my life. were friends and i know he still loves me and would jump at the chance to be with me again because he tells me all the time. but for some reason im scared to tell him i still love him and want to get back together. it shouldnt scare me i know we would be happy and back together but something is restraining me from telling him how i feel. whats wrong w/ me? please help!! i really miss the way things were. thanks!!

I think your scared to tell him that you want him back b/c your not sure if that what you really want (i know you say you do) but if you did you would be back together and not needing help


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Ok so I have this friend, let's call her Sammy ok? So Sammy recently has started like leaving me and kinda ignoring me. Today she even started hanging out with my enemy! Like 2 weeks ago we started hanging out with a girl named Natasha and ever since she has been doing all these things. Oh and I already talked to her a billion times. It's like she doesn't want to be my friend anymore. Should I just start hanging out with different people?

Never stay some where you not wanted. i would have told you to talk to her but since you tried that. just hang out with different people she'll realize she miss being your friend and shell come back

Jazzy**

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Ok, so there is this guy that I really like and he knows that I like him and about 5 or 6 months ago I asked him out and he said that he would think about it and he never gave me an answer. Recently he told his friends that i was ugly and he would never go out with me. So now I want to get over him. How can I do that?

Dont talk to him at all and i know theri has to be another guy out their that you have some type of feelings for go for him and i bet you wont even think about him.

Jazzy**

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ok well there's like this guy. and i liked him ever since we met like bcz at first he liked this one girl but then he liked me and like we've been in lOVE for 2 years? i dont rle know but ok he started moving on after i broke up with him. and i NEVER got over him and i have been trying so harrd but i dont know what to do bcz some of my other friends like him too. and i dont wanna tell people i like him bcz im trying to get over him. so any advice?

If oyu cant get over him maybe you need to try to win him back because im 100% sure thats he's not totally over you either boys just know how to hide it better than gurls. so maybe you and him should sit down and have a long serious honest talk

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At the moment i just dont get on withh my parents at all, my mum in particuallar.
I used to think i didnt care, if we had an argument i would either lock myself in my room and play loud music or ignore them and not talk, as a sort of revenge type thing.
I thought i just wanted to get away from them. But now ive realised that i dont, that i want to be close to them, i want it to be like it used to be, when we got on well and had fun.
I cry sometimes because of this and its really getting me down.
Im 13/f.
How can i be closer to my parents and have a better relationship with them?

hey try siiting down telling them how you feel and ask them can you guys pick one day out the week to go out just the three of yall or sit in and watch a movie NO INTERRUPTIONS just you and your parents in may work

Jazzy**

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At school I have liked many girls and everyone shoots me down. Mostof them tell me that I could be cool enough to go out with them if I didn't hang around with the nerds. I am not a nerd but I hang out with them because they're nicer than the popular people I could hang out with. Every time I tell A girl that they still shoot me down. What should I do?

if they shoot down because who you hang out with than you dont need them. just be patient that right girl will come and except you and who you hang out with.



Jazzy**

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hey, when you put in a tampon can it get stuck in you? cait♥

yes it can get stuck be careful

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well at my school there's going to be a dance. i have a dress already but not shoes. but anywayz i'm not sure if i should go. i mean like, i'm afraid it's going to be wack. and i KNOW no one is going to ask me, but should i go?


note- a semiformal i'm 13yrs.old and in eight grade

go your only in the eigth grade once

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Ok here is the thing, my friend and her boyfriend started having sex about 6 maybe 7 mounths ago, and i do not have any problems with that. But since then she has thought she might be pregant 4 times! Im scared that she might not be careful untill she becomes pregant. Her boyfriend told her that if she ever did become pregant then he would leave her. I don't vare if she has sex, i just don't want her to another 15 year old girl who becomes pregant. Do you think i should but in because, everytime she calls saying she needs me to come over so she I can read the pregancy results, i tell her that she lucky that she's not, and she should start useing protection. she says she doesn't need it cuz she is on the pill. should I but in, or should i just be the friend that warns her,then reads the results, tell her she lucky and that she should protection?

you and your friend sit down and talk about this. tell her you just telling her this because you dont want anything to happen to her (pregnant @ 15). Just listen to what she has to say also dont just talk.


Jazzy**

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i'm going to try and make this brief
by just stating facts first off.

-i am a sixteen year old girl
-i had this boyfriend for 6 months.
-we broke up because he said he was confused,
and was starting to have a change of feelings
for me.

it's been three months since the breakup.
we're still friends, we never really stopped.

lately i've been doing horrible in school,
so he offered to tutor me.
he came over last night and we went over homework,
but he would occasionally get unfocussed.
so i asked him what was wrong and he said
he just had alot of things on his mind.
so of course, i asked him what they were,
and he wouldnt tell me at first,
but eventually he said
"im starting to have feelings for you again,
and it's just so weird how this is the first
time we've hung out since the break up"

and from there we kindof locked eyes, and he
said he really missed kissing me, and he started
to cry. saying how much he misses me but he doesnt
want to give me the wrong idea if he kissed me
because he doesnt know what he wants. which is
why he wont even ask out this other girl. cause
he's confused.

[now mind you right now he's KINDOF with that other girl, theyre not dating, but supposadly
they like eachother and they kiss once in a
while and that kind of stuff, but theyve
been going downhill the past 2 weeks]

wo we kissed. but not just making out. he
would kiss my forhead and my nose and say
how im beautiful and all that. and i was
so happy because i thought maybe he wanted
to be with me again.

his mom called and we went to wait outside
while his mom drove to pick him up. and it was
pouring outside and it was dark. me and him
just stood there and he said "maybe we shouldnt
have done what we did, i dont want you to
expect me to ask you out right away becayse
i honestly dont know what i want."

and he started crying again, saying how he couldnt
bare to hurt me again. and all this stuff.

his mom came to get him, and he hugged me goodbye.

and later that night he called me and told me
that what we did was a mistake. and how he couldnt
see uss together again. but how he still has
feelings for me he's just afraid if we date
he'll lose feelings again.

so i dont know what to do. i love him so much.
i always have and i probabbly will for a long
time. im happy we got to hang out after so long.
and im happy i got to kiss him but i dont
know what to expect out of this.



please help me. im sorry this is long.
ill rate hi for sure.


thanks




hey i know how you feel but all you can do is sit back and let this play out because right now it's on him. he dont know what he want and you have to respect his decesion. let fin his self. he will realize that he love you and come running back just be patient



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well ok theres a guy in my vocal class and we have become somewhat of a couple just not going out and what not, because i am moving in 3 months but i asked him out anyway i just figured i would just ask just to see...and he's thinking about it...was it a smart idea or should i have not of bothered at all?

it's ok but dont become to involved because thats makes the move much more harder

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There is this end of the year graudation dance on June 9th. A lot of people have dates, and I really want one. Can you think of anyway that I could get a date? I talk to guys and stuff. But how do I put myself out there and show them that I wanna go with someone?

I will rate all 5s!
Thanks In Advance.

hey just find that one real guy you wanna go with and take a chance and ask him to the dance


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This might sound a little conceited but I'm really not.


I've always gotten complements from guys, girls, family, and friends about my looks and them telling me that I'm pretty/hot/gorgeous/cute/etc.


And well, it seems like most guys just want to go out with me because of my looks. I'm going on a date with this guy I like this Friday and today I was talking to him when he said "I'm really excited about this weekend you're so hot and I finally have a chance with you"


That just kind of got me upset because what if my past dates/boyfriends only dated me because of looks?


Is it weird that sometimes I wish that I didn't look the way I do?

(this really do sound concieted) but anyway you cant think about the past you can think about the future. so dont worry about it just worry about looking damn good on your date (lol)

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Okay. So I have this friend, well we're not really friends anymore, but I guess you could still say we are civil. We used to be best friends until we got in this big fight. Her birthday is coming up...Do I get her a present or no?

yeah get her a present be the bigger a person remember god dosent like a ugly get a gift you'll feel better about yourself

Jazzy**

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i am 20 years old an di have been with my boyfriend for a year and six months. we were together for only three months when he proposed to me and i accepted. i love him a lot but theres soomething in my mind thats saying hes not the one for me. i have no friends because he says their no good for me. i called my ex-boyfriend in november because i had no one to talk to because my fiance was on vacation. i slit my wrists and everything. now i can't even go to work because he accuses me of cheating on him. please give me advice on what i should do?

im younger than you but i think if you dont think hes the one dont het yourselfer deeper into the situation and cant get out tell him how you feel before it's too late. dont slit your wrist it's an eaiser way to handle any situation

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See, I'm falling for my best guy friend. And I don't know what to do. Seriously. I know it's so cliche but stfu. If you don't like it, don't read it. I've known him since the 5th grade, we've gone to school together ever since then and we're still at the same school. Things have always been great between him and I, but lately I've been having these feelings towards him that I shouldn't be feeling. Usually among my friends I'm always the one to give advice, but now it's the other way around. Let's say his name is Bret, okay? okay. Brett and I have even been compared to as an old married couple. Because we argue and argue for about an hour, and then five minutes later everything is back to the way it was before. I just don't know what to think, a couple of my friends think he cares about me more than I know. I sort of agree but he cares about me in the way a best friend should, not something more. My friends say maybe he does like you but he's too scared because it might ruin our friendship. But the thing is I can never be mad at him, it's not possible. I try my hardest but it never works. He always wins me back with his stupid boy charms. But I'm just the friend right? And is that all I'll ever be?

Sincerely,
A Girl With A Confused Heart.

hey a girl with a confused heart first you never know what you'll be if you dont give it a try. It may work out for the best sonce you known each other for so long so talk to him private and tell him that if dont feel the same way nothing going to change but you need to let him know how you feel about him

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Okay, My sister Amanda gets really mean....and won't let me shop at "Abercombie" "Hollister" "Pac Sun" or "Zummies",and the only reson is because she shops at hot topic!!
also she won't let me listen to what music i like,
WHAT SHOULD I DO????????????


love,
sophie skilling

talk to your sister and tell her that you want to be your own person let you do that

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15/m
At school I've liked this girl for a while, and some of my friends have found out that she might like me too. I was going to ask her out, but then I found out that she is getting married soon. It's not a lie because, I'm guessing that is what her family believes in. Although she might not be getting married for maybe a couple of years, should I still ask her out?

married at 15 whoa anyway give it a chance ask her out and maybe you'll be the one she marry
good luck

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I just got out of a two year relationship and I have been really devastated about it. Well lately I've been hanging around my friend whose friends with a lot of guys. So I flirted with a lot of guys and I felt like one of the guys was the next guy I'd like to date. I really feel like I'm moving too fast. I keep flirting with all of these guys convincing myself that I love them at then I go home at night crying over my ex-boyfriend. I know for sure that I am not over him and that's what scares me.

I was wondering if I should be trying to hook up and date other guys in your opinions. I mean, I think in a way I do have feelings for this friend of mine, but I think another part of me is trying to escape the misery of the past boyfriend. Can anyone tell me if what I'm doing is taking things too far or give me some advice?

I'm a 15 year old female.

thank you

hey im 17 and just broke up with my ex from a 2 1/2 year relationship and i did the samme thing yournjust using other guys to get over him but even if you get with another guy your stillgonna be hurtin so just give your self sometime to heal you dont have to rush your young you got time

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Okay, so this guy that i`ve been wit` since we met jus` recently broke up. We were together for 15 1/2 months. He took me back everytime I cheated or anythin` like that. But, this time, he broke up wit` me. He said he loves me still, && that we`ll get back together "soon". But, right now he has "too much drama" && "not enough time" for a girlfriend. I love him so much && I want him back. This all happend 4/21. Everytime I talk to him..I cry on the phone..off the phone, or whenever I think about him. I want him back. I feel like no other guy is worth my time, but him. He`s my everythin`. I jus want to know how I would be able to start the "soon" process.

oh by the way..he`s livin` wit` lesbians && he gets mad when I talk to ANY of my guy friends. But i`m perfectly fine wit` that. I`ll stop talkin` to EVERY guy, jus` to have him back.

HELLPPp!!

i rate..GOOD! (:

I think you should fall backand let him deal with what hes going through i know your not going to want to do that but you dont want to be with him why hes going through somethings let him get the drama out his life and i promise hell come back

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