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I just got out of a two year relationship and I have been really devastated about it. Well lately I've been hanging around my friend whose friends with a lot of guys. So I flirted with a lot of guys and I felt like one of the guys was the next guy I'd like to date. I really feel like I'm moving too fast. I keep flirting with all of these guys convincing myself that I love them at then I go home at night crying over my ex-boyfriend. I know for sure that I am not over him and that's what scares me.
I was wondering if I should be trying to hook up and date other guys in your opinions. I mean, I think in a way I do have feelings for this friend of mine, but I think another part of me is trying to escape the misery of the past boyfriend. Can anyone tell me if what I'm doing is taking things too far or give me some advice?
I'm a 15 year old female.
thank you
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hey im 17 and just broke up with my ex from a 2 1/2 year relationship and i did the samme thing yournjust using other guys to get over him but even if you get with another guy your stillgonna be hurtin so just give your self sometime to heal you dont have to rush your young you got time
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It'd be a good idea to wait. You don't want your old guy coming back and then have to dump the new one. Plus, it sounds like it's just too soon for any more drama.
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That is a very long relationship and I bet you shared a lot of feelings with him and you probably love him. Yes it is going to get over someone you love especially in a fast period of time. I really think you should take some time and sort out your feelings so you know for sure you want to date this guy because you like him. You don't want to go out with him and take the chance of getting all wraped up in you and then you find out you really don't want to be with him. Because then you would be putting him through what you are going through now and you really don't want to put someone else through that. So really you need to figure out if you are really ready within yourself for another relationship so soon.
Well hope I helped,
Good Luck
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It's going to be hard to get over a two year relationship. For one, there was the comfort of always having someong there. But don't worry, what your feeling is totally natural. Getting out of a relationship and moving on is tough and is going to take time. But trust me on this one, you will eventually be able to move on. First though, you have to really want to move on. If you want it so badly, you will be able to. As for hooking up with these guys, go for it if you think it will help you get over your ex. However, if you are having a lot of second thoughts about it, maybe your just not ready. It's up to you. If you need anymore advice you know where to find me. I hope this helps and good luck.
-cindy <3
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