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pimpette....
I tend to flirt with alot of guys. I think its because Im very un-confident && it makes me feel better about my self but also it opens more opertunities relationship wise. The problem is that If one of them asks me out then it feels weird to me being in a relationship and also the guys get mad at me.
I haven`t been asked out but the guy that I fell deeply for is starting to talk to me again && its making me think that what if I do end up throwing all these other relationship possibilities away plus the friendships i have gaind for him && he ends up just using me or something.
I guess my problem is how do I choose one guy to like. But by choosing one guy what if he doesnt like me && i have no chance with him!
what should I do? I cant stop flirting because I do "like" all of these guys a little bit. I just kno ill get screwd over when one of them becomes serious && end up having a relationship
HELP!
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hey younever know what guy is right if we did well never get our hearts broke so you just choose the guy you like the most and then see how it turns out live and learn
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I used to have the same problem and then I found the perfect guy for me and now we have been dating 2 years and 3 months and it has been amazing and believe me it is hard to stop at first. Before you decide to stick to one guy and start to change your ways you really need to make sure this is the guy that you could possibly have a long term relationship with and make sure he likes you in the same way also. Really because you don't want to be cheated on. And really you need to stop flirting so much because soon these guys are going to get the wrong ideas and you may end up hurting them and you really don't want any of that.
Well I hope I helped,
Good Luck
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Ok mz.pimpette u sound just like i was (a couple of yrs ago) i feel you when you say you like the attention from all these guys. you first gotta ask your self are you ready for a relationship? if your having so much fun with all these guys why settle for just one? if what you want is a "real" relationship than your gone have to chose just one of them (i kno it sucks huh?) get to know each of them better than make your decision. Don't hang around with the other guys once your in the realtionship (it's hard at first but you'll get use to it.. eventually!) And make sure to let all these other guys know that you do have a boyfriend (once you chose one of them) and ask them to respect that. Remember if things dont work out between you and the guy you choose there are many more guys out there you can hook up with. hope this helps!
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