Hey My name's gen. :] My goal in life is not to have an average of a 5 rating all the time.
I'm an overrall nice person, but when it comes to advice, I will be blunt if necessary. I will be harsh if necessary. Just because I can't stand being mean to someone but the fact that I don't know who you are, I can be mean with the answer if I want to. :)
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I went to a park to have fun. So I brought my boyfriend and my little sister. This little girl asked my sister if I was her mother. She also asked me and my boyfriend if we were married. Then she completely judged us.. and said that we were going to hell. We are bad people and that she feels sorry for my little sister. She said we are going to burn in a lake full of fire. We just smiled at each other and ignored it.. because we know we aren't bad people. We haven't done anything considered evil. She made us sound so bad and she was trying to convert my little sister. Is this how churches are nowadays? Because in my neighborhood it's a constance "you're going to rot in hell" "you're evil, you like satan" and I don't know.. even the parents are the same.. judging us.
I'm not trying to make people with religion sound bad.. I was just raised a different way and I wouldn't tell someone their religion is completely stupid or try to convert them. Believe what you want.. i just don't want to be converted and say that I'm a satan follower.. :[
Well, she kept going on about how I was BAD and so was my OTHER sister [who was not with me]
So i tried taking my little sister home.. i don't want her to get bad ideas [like I'm an evil person.. you know? She can believe in God if she wants..] But she backed away from me with scared eyes.
It hurt me.. and it made me angry.
I don't know what to do ?
She keeps looking at me strangely. (link)
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Oh my god. o_o
What the hell.
How old was that little girl?
I dunno about that religion stuff, but what that little girl needs is fucking manners. O_o; I'm sorry, but who the hell goes up to people and tells them, "YOURE BAD, YOURE GOING TO HELL" Nonetheless, a LITTLE GIRL?
Was your sister listening on the whole you and your boyfriend being parents thing? Like if she was, wouldn't she know that you aren't "bad" or whatever because she isn't even your kid? I dunno, if I were you, I'd sit her down and try to explain what happened.. Then again it really depends how old she is too, because this topic can go deeper into what she believes in and stuff, and she would still need to explore what she believes in no?
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im getting soooo sick of the top friends thing. people are always begging to be on my top friends, or asking to be moved higher, or whining cuz they arent high enough. its so stupid. has anyone found a solution to this? besides taking off the top friends altogether? (i'd really like to do that, but my bf is my top friend and its really important to him that i have it like that, which is silly, but i love him and want to keep him happy). is there some code that will make your top friends rotate around or something? or is there a nice way to tell people to quit bugging me about it? thanks for any ideas! =] (link)
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OHMYGOD.
I hate how people think MySpace is their life and they'll die if they're not on anyone's top8.
If I were you, I'd just tell them all to shut the fuck up and get a life. Lol.
But thats just me. o_o
All I can think of is to hide it
I know there are some codes somewhere that you can use to just put 1 person on your top. I forgot the link though. >_< Ack. Sorry.
But a lot of my friends defently do what the people below suggested, hiding the top8 and adding pictures instead. =)
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so my best friend got arrested for shoplifting from jcpennys and theyre suing her for $800 and she cant come up with the money so theyre like gunna put her in juvie (shes 16), and every month is only $100, and theres NO way her parents can come up with the money.. is there anyway to keep her outta jail? cuz i love her so dearly and her court date is july 2nd. im really scared for her cuz shes one of those gorgeous girls and i dont want her to be hurt in jdc or anything.. (link)
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I guess that's why you don't steal, eh? lol.
Sorry. >.<
Anyways, you should DEFENTLY raise the money your own. Garage sale, raffle, and the ever-classic carwash. Even have a party and charge people to get in. Look for spare change, ANY amount of money can help you. I mean if her parents can't come up with the money, you should defently try! Try to get your other friends involved as well so you can speed up the process!! Hope everything goes well
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So a few weeks ago i get a pic cmmnt from my ex bf ( i thought i loved this kid) and we broke up over a year and a half ago, and him and his gf just broke up (they were dating right after we originally broke up, so they were dating for the year and a half) and weve been iming and he came over one night (but i had snuck out so i had to send him home) and stuff and so i tell him ill always have feelings for him and he told me he thinks about me too, but he wants to see what his options are (ass) and that our parents would prolly disown us (cuz they kinda hated us dating) and stuff and i was all idc what they say, and then he said whatever happens happens, but today he was talking about some lame freshman girl..
ugh. what do i do to make him see things my way?
i never even noticed how much ive missed him until now.oh yeah and by the way, he like reads all my bulletins on myspace and stuff. so does he like me or not? and what do i do?
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Okay, first of all, forget about the MySpace shit. Yeah, maybe he's looking at your bullitens and commenting your pictures, but maybe he's doing that with other girls too. MySpace is a WEBSITE. o_O Don't get overexcited.
And I understand that you're just now realizing that you really do miss him.. That sucks potatos =/ But maybe you should consider his side too. If he REALLY liked you, he wouldn't care about his parents either and would've been with you by now. I think you should keep talking to the fellow and see where things go. Because he's also JUST out of a year-and-a-half relationship as well. He could be looking just to get some booty with an ex. >.< I'm just saying.
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i dont really pay attention to ratings because i just started but i gave someone a detailed answer and he gave me a 3. its not so much his rating its his comment:
Thank you for your answer. I would give you a 4 but you didn't capitalize. Otherwise it was a good answer.
what does capitalizing have to do with anything? (link)
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Meh. I've learned theres 2 sides to everything.
His side: He cares about the site's rules for rating. I guess that's reasonable..
But forreal, this site is called ADVICE[nators]. If you gave good advice, you should get a 5.
"hoo the fuck kares if u type lyk diss??"
Actually. That does look kind of annoying. O_o;
But you type well enough, in my opinion.
Guy just needs to get a life.
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I'm having a party in a few days, and I need music to play. I'm not really into popular music though. I like indie bands and everything- not good party music. If anyone could tell me some songs that I could play, that would be great! (link)
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I dont know if you would personally like any of these songs, but here are some songs that are dance-able, what I would hear at parties, and few very popular at the moment. :) Hope I can help with these.
Yeah- Usher, ft Lil Jon and Ludacris
This Is Why Im Hott- Mims
2 Step- DJ Unk
Walk It Out- DJ Unk
Cupid Shuffle- Cupid
Me & U- Cassie
Long Way To Go-Cassie
Ay Chico- Pitbull
Pop Lock and Drop It- Huey
Umbrella- Rihanna
Run It- Chris Brown
Fresh Azimiz- Bow Wow
Collide- Howie Day
Everytime We Touch- Cascada
Make It Rain- Fat Joe
Lean Wit It Rock Wit It-
We Takin Over-Dj Khaled ft Akon
Ay BayBay-Hurricane Chris
Girlfriend- Avril Lavigne
Rock Yo Hips- Crime Mob
Glamorous- Fergie
Like This- Kelly Rowland
Baby Got Back- Sir Mix A Lot
I Wanna Love You- Akon, Snoop Dog
Drop It Like Its Hoot- Snoop Dog
We Fly High- Jim Jones
Give It To Me- Timbaland ft. Nelly Furtardo
SexyBack- Justin Timberlake
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my friend knows i like this guy but she keeps talking to him. she even told me many times that he's all mine. how should i approach her and let her know that i really like him and that i want to her stop sort of like leading him on to her. please help because this has been bothering me for a really long time and i cant get it off of back. thanks! (link)
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Yeah. How about YOU stop sounding controlling?
Uhh, yeah, but that's bullshit if you think it's bad that your friend is just TALKING to the guy you like.. Take a chill pill, child x.x
If she says he's all yours, she means it.
You just need to calm down and stop being paranoid about her "getting your guy."
If it bothers you that much, just tell her, it's really not that complicated. Really.
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My friend wants to get into modeling, but she's not sure how to start. What's a good idea to start off a modeling career? (fyi, we live in South Carolina so we can't just drive over to LA or to NYC) (link)
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Well, since you can't go to NYC or LA [lol], you can jus look up some local modeling angencies that are near by you. And try to get a contract with them
Also, get involved with some modeling classes. Honestly, the more experience you have, the more likely you'll get a contract, and the more likely you'll ACTUALLY get a call to do something =)
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So i kinda comepletely forgave a friend?
And ive said this before but im 98.234% sure that im ready to forgive and become bestsesstsetest friends againn. Because dam the good times totaly override this suckass 4month of stupiedness which is mostly from this thing that ated . YES ATED. my life =]]
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Lmao
Is this certain person talking about a certain person which happens to be meeeee? :)
If so, WHOO!
If not, thats awkward. o.O
And ated your life.
That's also odd. =]
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whenever my boyfriend touches me like on my boobs or something my facfeels really hot why is this? jw (link)
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You're just embarrased, hun!
I mean he IS feeling all ova your chichas!
But if you're nervous, are you REALLY old enough to let him feel you?
Just a thought. >.<
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i was wondering what time of the month you can most likly get pregnant and when its least likly, like is it more likley right b4 your period or right after, or what, thanks (link)
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I heard it was most likely right before your period. But you can get pregnant any time of the month, hun.
soo..
condom everytime! :)
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I'm completely fed up- I made it clear to this one guy that I'd been dating that I was really busy and was going to move out soon, etc., etc. I did not ever tell him that I wanted to stop dating, but it should be clear due to these signs:
-He called 3x in one day, I didn't return his calls.
-He calls and leaves a message sometimes, asking me to go hang out with him somewhere..and again, I DON'T call back.
Today, he left a message saying something like this:
..it's a nice day, let's go to the beach after class. I'm a little worried, you haven't called me in a week.
Yes, I haven't called him in a week. When I did, it was only to say i was too busy. POINT BLANK>
HE does NOT get the point! He seems to be so desperate that he'll continuously call me, even when I never call him back. It's been this way for a while now, and I'm really getting fed up.
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LMAO
I'm sorry o_O;
Desperate-ness is jus kinda lammmmeeee.
And hun, it defently sounds like this guys never gunna get outta yo skin.
Just tell him straight-up, you don't want a relationship with him, you don't want to talk to him on the phone, or go to the beach and play volleyball.
NOSHIT, he's not taking the hints well. If, at all. He's stoopid and oblivious if he doesnt get it by now. Just end it all and tell him face to face,in no joking manner, so he understands that you're drop dead serious about it.
be harsh if necessary.
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im 14, neerly 15 nad a girl and was jst wanting to ask if i am a slut. coz a few gurls in my school keep callin my that, and a few boys. well a few months ago i had my first experiance with sex. i was at a boys house with two of his mates and we started messing around, and i gave my first blowjobs to them. and cuple of weeks later i had sex with one of them and now were going out as a cuple, but still hanging out with his mates. some of d gurls in ma school hav had sex too but they r callin me a slut, n ma bf ses it sumtyms when im going down on him. i dont get it coz ppl dont call those girls sluts. am i really a slut? (link)
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o_o;..
Well, a "slut" is usually referred to a girl who's "easy." And I'm not saying you are one, but you gave 3 boys blowjobs in one night? And had sex with one of them couple weeks after? THEN you became a couple?
I'm not gunna lie whatsoever, you're freaking 14 years old, and already did that shit with boys who you weren't even with. I understand having a "good time" but goddamn. >_> I'm not one of those girls whose into the whole "You're a sinner if you have sex before marriage" but it's just really the fact that you had sex with boys you evidently didn't feel you "loved" or anything?
Maybe that's why the girls are calling you a "slut," just because it seemed like the guys you were with were just kind of random and there. o_O' And your boyfriend sounds like a suckass one too. A boyfriend doesn't refer to his own girlfriend as a "slut" I say get a new one but whatever floats yo boat.
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First let me start off by saying i have been with my boyfriend since October 23rd 2005. I'm 15 yrs old , and he just turned 18. My parents let him move in the 3rd month we were together, so we have been living with each other for awhile. I cheated on him a couple of times when we first got together and everytime we get in arguments he brings it up. I'm really in love with him , when im not around him for one second i have this feeling of lonelyness. We fight all the time , he always says i start them but sometimes i dont. Ive been trying really hard not to start an argument but it doesnt seem like hes putting in any effort. He always calls me names even if we just get into a disagreement. And theres been a couple times hes hurt me physically. He's choked me a couple of times and pushed me down. I know deep down hes not really a bad guy but im scared hes going to really hurt me. He always leaves me when he gets mad and im the one that always has to call him to come back. Hes hurt me mentally to where sometimes i think im not all there. Im young and my mom and dad are really concerned , i shouldnt be going through this. I was wondering if anyone could give some advice on mabe to make this relationship better , because i really dont want to have to leave him. Theres alot more to my story but im not going to write anymore.
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Damn. It sounds like you have yourself a sticky situation, for sure. And that reallyreally sucks.
I understand how much you love this boy especially since ya'll have been in a relationship for quite a while, but honestly.
It sounds like you're in an abusive relationship [[noshit]]. And at 15, you defently SHOULDN'T be experiencing that shit. And trust me, once the relationship gets abusive, it's never the same. Knowing this from a close person's of mine's experience, hun.
Also, if he really loves you, he should respect your opinion and try to change his tactics so the same fights dont happen over and over again.
Like I understand that sometimes he wont be able to help how he thinks or feels[[about you cheating on him]] but tell him to get a GRIP. the pasts in the fucken past, grow up and stop being a wuss about it.
I would break it off with the guy, just to explore what else is out there, and get him involved in some sort of therapy, because I'm sorry, but your boy needs HELP.
And it's not right for him to not admit that he's wrong sometimes. It seems like he's a little TOO much of the dominant figure, and you have to do something to show him that you're sick of the stupid fights. But honestly..
DO SOMETHING.
Taking him back with a "Yeah.. I understand. It's okay now." type mood doesn't tell him shit.
Tell him you'll leave his ass if he doesnt get help too.
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Is it true that most girls like sex and thinking about it as much as guys do, like they love doing sexual things as much as guys do so if you just ask them they will most likely say yes?? (link)
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Uhmm. o_O
Honestly, it just depends on what girl you ask.
Yeah, it's true that some[emphasis on the SOME]girls do think about sex just as much as guys do, but they aren't so out there about it like guys are.
But just like there are bound to be some guys who aren't all "omg sex sex SEX SEX!!!!!", there are bound to be some girls who only think about sex as well. -_-
Jus remember there are a ++++a million people out there in the world. And a +++++girls. Some are thinking about sex this moment -.-
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I cut myself (for personal reasons) but i do it below the wrist. And I try to hide it. But I can't. It's not cold here, so wearing long-sleeves doesn't make sense. When people see it, they get really freaked out. What are some reasons, that make sense, which I can tell people, so they won't think I'm cutting myself? (link)
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Cuttings stoopid =D
in my opinion.
I have too many friends that do it so I wanna rip their arm off so they cant do it anymore =]
anyways.
but you can say that your cat scratched you..
Unfortunatly, thats what one of my friend says.
aksdhfaskdjf. Or that you cut yourself with glass on accident
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Hey! I was wondering, would you all rather get an ipod nano or a coach tote for you 15th bday? thanks! (link)
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Go for the iPod!
You'll get sick of a purse if you use it too much anyways o_O; And will it match with your clothes? :O
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um me and my boyfriend both want to make out.. it's both of our first time and do you have any good places where we should do it? and if u say movie theater can u put a good movie??? (link)
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Ok, NO.
Don't go to a freaking movie theatre:
1.) Wasting 8 dollars to see a movie and end up making out instead? Yeah, pretty stupid.
2.) If people see you, they will complain which can lead you into getting kicked out.
How about the park? Or your room, maybe something can lead into another;D naw, that was a joke, don't do that. o_O;
Or the whole-at-the-front-door would be so totally adorable too^-^
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You are stuck in a room with no windows or doors. a solid room. Only things in this room is a mirror and a table. how do you escape?
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You're not really in a room
You're just high :D
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my bff used to like the boy that likes me now & i really like him alot and wanna go out with him but everyone says hes not worth me and everything but i think its my best friend telling people to say that cus shes jealous that he likes me.. and he asked me out and i dont kno wat to say because..shell get so mad at me! so if i say yes should i tell her? or will this break our friend ship help!!
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Uhh.. You're probably gunna have to elaborate.
But if your friend is over the boy, then it shouldn't matter. and I don't know why your she would tell people that, regardless if it was jealousy or not. As long as she hasn't kind of "talked behind your back" or anything, I guess it's not too harsh and you shouldn't really worry about that, because she just needs someone to talk to. But yeah, I think ya'll should just talk it out, and see what happens first.
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