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in the song London Bridge by fergie, what does london bridge mean?
Yes it basically means an orgasm.
She was on T.V. one morning and they were interviewing her about her new song 'London Bridge' so they asked her what it was. She said she didn't want to tell them because there were lots of definitions for it and she wanted to let America's minds wonder about it. So yes, basically just having sex then having an orgasm but she didn't want to say that on T.V.
~ Depressed_Poet
im 16/f and from Australia.
my best friend 16/m, is a model/actor. he is enrolled in a acting/modelling academy in our local city. i have always wanted to be a model but i dont really want to tell my parents that im serious about it coz im kinda embarrassed. and i dont wanna ask my bestie for help either. he made me a funny promise the other week that if he got famous he could get me into the buisiness aswell. i really want to do this and all but i dont know what to do and im too embarrassed to ask anyone. can anyone tell me also what it takes to be a model? like what assets or whatever to they prefer?
thanks so much.
If you really want to get into the acting/modeling business then I suggest to be open with the people around you about it. Part of acting is getting embarassed so that's a great place to start! I've always wanted to act but I kept it from my parents since I was 4 years old because they would doubt me & try to convince me not to. But recently I told them & discovered I was right. They don't really support that dream of mine. I know what you're thinking "Where is she going with this? What the heck? That's not a great example." But please, bare with me. The things they said about my chances being 1 in 1,000,000 but the more they said it, the more I was determined to prove them wrong. They self motivated me by saying I couldn't do it. So whether your parents say you can or can't do it, you'll probably manage to benefit from it somehow. As for the modeling tips... these should help you out
1) Always be on time. If you're not then call ahead of time.
2) When you're on the runway, don't smile too much because it abandons that sense of mystery.
3) When trying out for a magazine, show, runway act etc., always bring a modeling portfolio if you have one. If not form a collage of pictures close up & far away of yourself.
4) Always avoid modeling scams
5) Clear skin. The number one thing model scouts are looking for. If you don't have an absolutely perfect complection, don't worry. Nobody does, just try to hide or get rid of the blemishes. Avoid toner unless they say so because that causes breakouts in some cases.
6) When talking online (e-mail, AIM, MSN, etc.) with co-workers or a boss avoid saying "LOL, OMG, TTYL, G2G, BRB, BBL, BBS, or stuff like R U there?" etc.
7) Always bring your own make-up, you don't wanna have to borrow any, it causes problems with health and bothers people. Plus it'd be embarassing to ask.
8) Always be prepared with make-up, an extra pair of clothes just incase anything happens to the ones you're wearing etc.
9) DON'T model anything you'll regret. Like those 'Sports Illustrted' with those half nude girls on the cover... I mean... if you can't show your friends and family without feeling weird and not being proud of what you've done, why do it?
10) If anyone ever offers you a modeling career out of no where or if you ask etc. be sure to see a signature and have a parent/guardian with you when you're modeling there because they could be dangerous.
11) Remember: Your body is yours. If anyone ever comes into your space bubble thing, you need to tell them!
12) Keep your portfolio updated with new looks and poses etc.
Good luck!
Hope that helped
~ Depressed_Poet
Hi, my name is Natalie, Nat for short. Well, I asked my friend to ask him if he liked me and he said no because he didn't know me good enough, so then I asked her to ask him if he would like me if he knew me better and she is going to tell him about me. What do you think I should do if he said no again??????????
P.S Plese give me some info :)
P.P.S Thanks!
If he says no again, then why waste your time trying to get him to like you? You need a guy who would like you for who you are, not what you want to be. Believe me, I've been in that situation before and it's not exactly the world's best situation to be in at a time like that. But if you REALLY want him to like you and he wants to know you better try this:
Say 'Hey what's up?" in the hallway, and if you're not sure what to talk about after that just talk about bands, movies, tv shows, etc. Great conversation starters! If you're thinking about maybe asking him out try this:
'Hey a couple of friends and I are going to the movie ____ on Saturday. I thought you might be interested, do you wanna come? You can bring a friend if you want to." I think that's probably the best way to ask him out because going in a group IMMEDIATELY takes the pressure off of having to say no or yes.
However, some guys prefer the mystery. If you wanna be mysterious try this:
Talk to him one day in the hallway & talk about bands, movies, tv shows, etc., eat lunch with him that day, or maybe ask for his screen name. When you're hanging around him though, be yourself! So he can see the real you.
But then the next day don't do any of those things, it will make him wonder, then come back to you. So every other day hang out, then don't hang out etc.
Maybe joke around with him from time to time.
I hope I helped! I know what it feels like to be in your situation, lol.
~ Lauren
ugh, i NEVER know which category to put these questions under, so i'm sorry. again.
i also apologize in advanced for this being really choppy, confusing, and long. but please bare with me. ):
the other day i posted a question talking about how i haven't gotten my period in awhile, and i'm paranoid that i could pregnant or that sperm has seeped into me from somewhere, even though i'm a virgin (the original question is http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=477608). i'm 16 and my period has never really been "normal" since i started (14ish), but i don't think it's ever been absent for this long. anyways, onto the actual question. once my period has been absent for awhile, it usually shows up randomly and lasts the normal 4 days, normal flow. but a day or so after i posted my question, when i went to the bathroom and wiped i noticed the brown discharge that usually comes before periods. i figured i would be getting my period, so i didn't worry about it, but the discharge has been happening for a few days... and no period. that's never happened before and i'm seriously starting to freak out. i don't know whether i'm actually paranoid and my body is just being weird due to the fact that my sleeping pattern is really messed up, and i'm not on a normal eating schedule either, or if there's something wrong. i love my parents dearly, but i honestly don't talk to my mom about this kind of thing, and i don't want to bring it up. i don't want to go to the doctor either, because i'm really modest and just, ugh. my question is though, could something seriously be wrong? and if so would there be other signs of it? or am i just overreacting?
thank you!
Ohh don't worry, you're fine! Brown discharge is completely normal to happen for days. And actually the brown discharge may not be discharge. Periods vary in colors from red to brown etc. And there is no way that you could be pregnant because you're a virgin, I promise you! So there's really no need to freak out about that. And as you said about not eating as regular, yes that can have an affect on your period because dieting or eating more can do something. It doesn't cause problems it just throws off when your periods normally are. And as for the irregularity since you were 14, don't worry because periods are almost never regular. Mine are never regular and I've had mine for about a year now. So congratulations, you're normal & healthy!
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well in my partcial day class thing, theres this girl, her names tracy.. and like personaly the first time i saw her i thought she was a guy, like alot of my friends also said that too when they first saw her, but i when i first saw her i thought she was hott, cause i really thought she was a guy, but now that i know shes a girl im still attracted to her, and i dont get it. why?! does that mean im like bisexual or something ? because like.. i think i like her ? and its kind of odd.. someone please help ?
No, you're not necessarily bi or lesbian because everyone goes through a phase where they seem somewhat or very much attracted to a member of the same gender. Chances are, you haven't discovered your sexual preference yet... but you will eventually. Girls through the ages from 12 to 15 will notice those attractions, but the girls that don't grow out of it by 16 or 17 are bi or lesbian. Also, people who are bi are more attracted to members of their own gender... is that true for you? Or is she the first girl you felt attracted to in some way? You're curious about it because you're not sure what to think about it but everyone experiences this so don't worry! And people from the ages 12-15 will experience it if they already haven't so everyone does. You're fine! :)
Hope I helped
~ Lauren
Before christmas a friend of mine said he loved me, i told him the same thing. But i didnt want to start a relationship as he lives in America and i dont want it based on just words. Hes says hes coming over to see me again soon. I told him that it cant be until June as i have alot of things on. I havent spoken to him in 2 months and i have no idea why. I've been really down because of this so i made a choice the other day to forget him and lose all contact with him because i think hes messing with my head and it seems to be working. I left him a message on yahoo to let him know that Im deleting yahoo then for the first time in 2 months he comes online. This made me think i was right.
what should i do? Do u think im being to careful?
Hmm... well I think since you're missing him so much I think it's getting to you, so you're reacting in being a little too careful & jumping to conclusions, but that's fine don't worry! I do that sometimes too. I think he's messing with you a little bit... maybe he hasn't come on yahoo for so long because he doesn't know what to say to you if you're both online at the same time. ;) And we all know how that feels
But I don't think he's necessarily TRYING to mess with your head... so try to still have contact, but don't get too attached as relationships from 3,000 miles away or further normally don't work out. If you've been wanting to talk to him then e-mail him, he has no choice but to reply to that! Lol. Just don't get too obsessed with him & don't get too bored either.
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Okay, I like a guy named Jake. So I will tell you everything that happened.First, one time at P.E he was talking to a guy in my class and then the guy he was talking to yelled over to me and then Jake was like,"No!" So I think he said he liked me to him! What do you think?!?! The next thing that happened was he kept on looking at me. My finall question is,"Can you tell me what is going on?!?!" Thanks:)
He told his guy friend & his guy friend was teasing him by telling you this. He probably likes you, and doesn't know what to do about it, lol. Yep... typical drama.
Hope I helped
&Hearts; Lauren
Oh btw, feel free to ask me a question personally if you need to know anything else about the situation I forgot to cover!
Why are guys turned on by not wearing underwear? I once told this guy I was, and he was like running out of breath ;]. haha but seriously, what's so great about not wearing underwear?
Easy access. In and out of your skirt. Just like a 7-11 gas station stop. You're in & you're out just like that! In other words, it's not as hard to get into your pants if she's not wearing underwear because they figure you're turned on if you aren't wearing any.
how do you know if your friend care about you? and
how do i show my friend that I care about her?
They care about you if they take time out of their day to just say 'Hi.' or give you a call at night or IM you during the afternoon to see how you're doing. They'll invite you over to hang out etc. Watching movies, talking about your opinions... etc.
That person will always value your opinion and try to support it unless they strongly disagree. They will be honest with you and care about what you think, and they won't take your presence for granted. They will tell you when they're upset and they'll go to you when they need advice or think you can do something about the situation because they trust you with their feelings & that you can handle their un-born or born loyalty.
And you can do the same simply by returning the favor when necessary or unnecessary.
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I have not had sex but i have been fingered however ive never bled. If i went to the Gynecologist would they think that ive had sex?
No I doubt they would have a simple way of knowing this unless your cherry is popped. But even then, just because your cherry's popped that doesn't mean you've had sex. You could pop it by inserting a tampon etc.
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what does fingering or dome mean?
Fingering is when a guy (or another girl) does 3rd base on a girl. Like placing his fingers into a girl's vagina and 'explorin' it'. Dome is when a girl (or another guy) gives a guy a blowjob or a handjod, etc. (Oral sex). Handjobs are when she rubs her hands on the guy's penis and blowjobs are when she sucks on it just incase you were wondering.
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im 14/f
almost 130 pounds
5feet 8 inches
am i overweight?
The ideal weight for a girl about your height with a small frame is 126-139lbs.
Medium Frame: 136-150lbs
Large Frame:146-167
My Reference:
http://www.healthchecksystems.com/heightweightchart.htm
My mom won't let me use tampons, she thinks that I'm irresponsible and she's afraid that I won't take it out every 4 hours or w/e. What can i do to persuade her?..I hate pads.
Also, I didn't get my period all last month...at all. Is there something wrong with me?
Your mom knows what's best for you so I advise you not to wear tampons until she thinks you're ready. You can't feel them and you can catch a disease if you don't change it so it's harder to remember. But if you're really fixated on it just tell her this:
"Mom, I'm growing up and I really am more responsible. I know you know what's best for me, but at least give me a chance. I'll start out not wearing them as frequently and try to get adjusted successfully. I'll let you know if anything weird happens immediately, I promise."
Or something like that. Keep in mind that putting in a tampon can be painful if you're cherry isn't popped. Because inserting a tampon could pop it... which might make sex a bit less painful later but that's another story. As for your being normal, if you've had your period for about a year or a year in a half you're fine because you can have iregular periods from time to time... or maybe never have them regularly! So it's ok and there's really no reason to be worried, to the best of my knowledge, but if you are really concerned I suggest seeing a doctor about this... but I don't think it's anything abnormal.
Good luck with tampons! Lol
in my school every student has to do swimming in gym class for 5 days. i'm really scared to do this because i'm a HORRIBLE swimmer. i can only tread water for like 1 minute, no lie. so what can i do in order to be able to tread water longer? because in gym class you have to tread for like 10 minutes straight! so its going to be really embarrassing if i can't tread for that long.
so basically i'm really stressing out about this. if anyone can help me at all i'd really appreciate it.
also i don't have a pool so how can i practice?
also how are some good ways to get out of swimming? i know that girls can only get out of swimming one day using the "i have my period" excuse, and if you really do have it for that week and can't use a tampon you have to go to the doctor with a written note.
thanks so much!
The YMCA or the YWCA give lessons on how to tread water & they have a public pool where you can just practice. For a couple tips just try using your hands & feet. But you've gotta relax & just have faith in yourself. I know I sound cheesy but it works... lol. It's really not that hard, just do what you do for the minute you CAN tread water, & pray for God to help you. Don't worry, I'm sure you'll be fine. :))
So just move your feet more slowly (not TOO slowly obviously, that's dangerous!!) and not quite as rapid because if you're treading too fast then you'll run out of energy for the other 9 minutes or so. Good luck!
Are the to girls from T.A.T.U. really lesbians?
Well I googled what T.A.T.U stands for and it stands for Teens against Tobacco Use so...according to that definition no not necessarily they are all lesbians. But it also stands for That girl loves that girl so maybe... it depends on your definition
Hope that was what you were looking for, lol.
Sorry if it wasn't!
~ Lauren
omg this girl IMed me saying: her sn: ashley is gayyyyyyyyyyy and ashley is my friend and she denies it and its gonna break up my friendship with my friend ashley!!!! HELP!
Call her. Call her right now and get things straight. Tell her about it, warn her that there's this girl that's going to break off your friendship and that she shouldn't listen to her. You need to talk to her now! But I mean... if she knows you well then she won't believe that girl, so I'm sure that everything will be ok! Did you save the chatroom? If so e-mail what she said to your friend, Ashley. Good luck, I've been in your situation before, not fun. I know. But it will be ok you just have to warn her and trust yourself and the fact that you did the right thing. So don't worry!
im scared cuz i use mascara and sometimes sleep with it and now i feel that my eyelashes are kinda getting less. i wanna know if eyelashes do grow back am scared help plz
Ohhh gosh. I hate that! Lol... I always forget
Anyway,
Just remove it before you go to bed and they'll grow back so don't worry. ;)
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i want my boobs bigger!!!!! i mean, im 14 years old, and i hardly have boobs. i mean im a 34b. Any exsercises or ANYTHING i can do NATURALLY!?!?!
Hey well you're not a bad size for your age. You're actually pretty good! My cousin knows somebody who's your age or maybe 15... and is 36D or something like that. So give it time, & your boobs will get bigger. No exercises, foods, creams, pills, or surgeries will help you out! So there's really nothing you can do about that...
Just give it time :)
It also depends on what's in your genes; big or small.
So don't get caught up in those products that claim to make your boobs bigger when they're just scamming you for your money.
Just enjoy the youth you still have left and in the meantime maybe where push-up bras etc. to fool people! Lol. Good luck :))))
Hi my name is Joyce i'm 14/f. There's this boy i like alot. I kind of got over him, but now i know he likes me i like him again. So I want to add him on my myspace, but i'm afraid he'll deny me (becuse he did about a year ago when i first requested him). So my question is should I take a chance and add him? Because I don't want him to think i'm desperate or anything. And since he's in all my classes that would be awkward, and I'm afraid i'll drive him away. But then again since he likes me now mabey he'll want to add me? I'm so confused please help!
Add him! It's a risk but it's a small risk & everyone has to take one like this in their lives. It will help you determine whether you should go out with him or not... who he really is, you know? Besides, you're just friends right now, right? The worst that can happen is that he denies you. But he might not even know that it's YOUR myspace. Just talk to him a little more & add him; it won't do any good if you ignore him. So add him and see what happens
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does anyone know of any bands that are alternative/rock, but still kind of soul? Like Augustana, This Providence, or Goo Goo dolls?
Gym Class Heroes
Nickelback
Daughtry
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