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how do you know if your friend care about you?


Question Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 4:11 am

how do you know if your friend care about you? and
how do i show my friend that I care about her?


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Depressed_Poet answered Friday March 2 2007, 11:01 pm:
They care about you if they take time out of their day to just say 'Hi.' or give you a call at night or IM you during the afternoon to see how you're doing. They'll invite you over to hang out etc. Watching movies, talking about your opinions... etc.
That person will always value your opinion and try to support it unless they strongly disagree. They will be honest with you and care about what you think, and they won't take your presence for granted. They will tell you when they're upset and they'll go to you when they need advice or think you can do something about the situation because they trust you with their feelings & that you can handle their un-born or born loyalty.
And you can do the same simply by returning the favor when necessary or unnecessary.
Hope I helped

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BitsandPieces answered Wednesday February 28 2007, 12:00 pm:
This is such a seemingly simple and obvious question, but thankyou for asking it, because the answer is NOT simple and obvious like some people would assume. Friendship and caring mean different things to different people and these differences can lead to misunderstandings and hurt feelings. You may think a friend should be completely honest. Another person may think a friend should tell you only what you want to hear. Another person may think a friend is there to listen but not give any advice. Another person will think she is responsible for doing something about everything that bugs you. We are all such complex individuals that there are only general guidlines, but no surefire rules in friendship. Each person is different, so get to know that person and what it means to them, before you assume to know. Love and caring, friendship and loyalty are wonderful things that make life easier and worth living. It is worth your time and effort to get to know what friendship means to different people you like and go by that and by what you believe it means, also. Communication will alleviate the silly misunderstandings people get involved in. Talk about it, about different snenearios with people and you will hear many opinions. No one has the exact same definition of friendship, love, truth or anything else, even if at first it appears they do. Time and experience reveals our individual tastes and beliefs despite our efforts to convince others and ourselves that we are part of the "norm" or group we want to be associated. Celebrate the fact that you can have many many types of friendships and they can all be a little different and all of them can be satisfying on different levels.

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Imperialistic answered Wednesday February 28 2007, 7:14 am:
They care about you if they value your opinions, show their support of you and basically just have a concern for your well being.
You can show them that you care for them too by returning the favour.

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