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hay im adina and im a cheerleader at lewisville high school. i love giving advice so ask me anything!!
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Whenever I'm around guys I get really shy and don't have much to say and then I get insecure and it's hard to be myself. So now all the guys at my school probably think I'm like really snobby or stuck up or something because I'm so quiet. Like there have been a few guys this year that have tried to be friends with me, but I just didn't know what to say around them, so they just kind of stopped talking to me. Help!!!
i went through that stage.. just try not to care so much of what they think! that's your problem.. once you stop worrying about what they think about you, you will be able to open up with them more. soon enough, you will find a guy who likes you even when you are being yourself!
My friend is going out with a guy that's a year younger than us (whom i like too.)He's like my best guy friend and i feel a little protective of him because a lot of people just want to go out with him for his looks and it's so annoying to me because they don't even know him the way i do. He flirts with me online and we can besically talk about anything. His girlfriend now won't even talk to him and she wants to break up with him, although i don't think she will. Please help! What should i do! i can't talk to him alone anymore because of her and i really just want to be with him! Should i ask her how she feels about him and and how she feels the relationship is going, in a friendly way? I'm not sure what i should do. I need another person's oppinion. Just to let you know, i'm 14, he's 13.
i don't think you should try and help the relationship. you may be his best friend, but this is something you have to back off of. he FLIRTS with you? ok i'm hoping not.. and if he is, then him and his girl should be over. you shouldn't be flirting with someone else while you are going out with someone! are you sure its "flirting"? he could be being friendly since ya'll are best friends.. ya know? are you so worried about his girlfriend because you may have some feelings for him? possibly.. and if you do, there isn't much you can do. don't try and end their relationship just to get what you want.
well ok right now i'm 15 ive been rapet when i was 8 and i almost got rapet when i was like umm 4 i think i just want to know why is this happening to me? its not the first and i'm sure its not going to be the last what can i do to prevent getting rapet again?
PLEASE HELP
do you mean raped? if that's the case, who has been doing this to you? you should really try and avoid seeing him and tell someone you are close to about it. if you don't, he won't stop! i know it may be hard to if it's someone close to you, but that really isn't right!
(im a 14 female) I have this guy friend, and he is giving me mixed signals. He tells my friends he likes me and then he makes a huge deal of telling me that we are just friends. I really like this guy a lot. now he's telling my friends that he doesnt like me. I'm so confused! every other day he changes his mind weather he likes me or not! I WANT HIM TO LIKE ME SO BAD! Like sometimes he's really sweet and flirty and other times he's sort of mean to me though which adds even MORE mixed signals. And one time i told him i liked him liked him and he told my friend that he didn't like me that way. BUT like a month later he was acting all flirty and he was like "if i asked you out what would you say?"
Do u think he likes me? Is there anyway i could make him like me even more than he already does? Is there anyway that would help him ask me out if he does like me? HELP!
he probably does like you, but is just afraid of rejection. but you said you told him you liked him, and he told your friends he didn't like you. maybe he is just afraid to have a relationship! or maybe he just keeps changing his mind/is into another girl! guys are weird.. they seem to change their mind like every five seconds! if he likes you and is willing to go out with you, he will ask you out.
Ok well there were these rumors goin round bout this girl and my bf liek she supposadly gave him head and stuff so i finally gut a chance to talk to her and sed oh that wasnt true she neva sed that and decided to tell me that my bf did a whole buncha stuff wid her ova the summer at some party or suntin. so i talked to my bf who i have been wid for ova a year and he sed it wasnt true but this girl seems so convincing and i mean i should trust and believe my bf and he sez he swears he really didnt do n e thing wid her but im juss so CONFUSED so help me out plz......
...lost soul...
you are right, you should believe your boyfriend. you should never believe rumors!! maybe that girl is saying those things to try and break you both up.. has your boyfriend ever done anything like this before? if he hasn't, i don't see why you should be so worried! you should know him real well by now, to know that he isn't that kind of a guy! and if you don't.. i don't see how it's been lasting a year, because relationships are about connection and trust!
I have a feeling that my two bestfriends talk about me behind my back. Should I approach them or waht? I'm very confuzed about what i should do.
if they were your true best friends you wouldn't be feeling that way! you would be able to trust that they would never do that to you! but if they are talking about you, i don't think they are very good friends!
i havent had a girlfriend in a while im a 15 year old guy. im in my first year of high school. im not ugly in fact almost everyday the upper class men girls always telling me how cute i am i hate it though the only thing is im short im like 5'3 and at my school thats short i dont know why i cant get a girlfriend i dont know what im doing wrong thanks i need advice!!
some girls are jerks and only go out with guys for looks. you will find a girl who likes you for you, because looks and size doesn't matter! oh and you aren't doing anything wrong!
i dumped my boyfriend because he lied to me about doing drugs. Everyone told me he was bad news and all my guy friends who were his friends too told me i deserved way better then him. I still wanted proff and i got it on the night b4 homecomming.i dumped him after i saw him smoking weed with some other guy. its been over a month since that night i caught him and broke up, but just the other day he randomly asked me y i broke up with him, i tried to explain telling him how he lied, but he didnt see that as a good enough reason. did i do the right thing?
yes you did do the right thing! i think it's pathetic that he doesn't think its a good enough reason.. it shows he is totally not worth it! but when you broke up with him, did you tell him why? or did he just decide to ask you about it to see if you would tell him a different answer?
ok theres this guy i dont like him but hes going out with this girl.This guy does not like this girl.And this girl doesnt like this guy. I guess they are just provin they can get some. But anyways they think im jealous and our conversastions lead to more. I even thought about suicide. Im a normal american girl. Im a cheerleader and very smart. I have NEVER even considered suicide. Im so scared i dont know whats happening!! PLEASE HELP!
Signed,
Not Suicidal
have you ever thought that maybe they are going out with each other to make you jealous? maybe they are? well, you really shouldn't let them get to you. ignore them and find better people to hang out with who make you happy! some people are just jerks, and you should stick up for yourself! don't talk to them if they really make you that sad! no one should ever do that to someone who actually cares!
I have this friend who used to be my best friend ever. We still talk alot and she is still a good friend but we have been spreading apart. We always talk about how we dont hang out enough but every time I try to hang out with her she is out with other friends or wont call me back or just doesnt pick up. Its making me really frustrated because she is awesome but I am to the point where I just want to stop trying because she never trys to hang out with me Im always trying to hang out with her. Should I just give up? And is she just trying to tell me she dosent care anymore?
that's part of growing up. no matter how close you were, you will most likely end up spreading farther and farther apart. even if you weren't as close as you were before, she will be there for you, even if it isn't at this moment. she is just moving on, which i think you should do too. i'm not saying you should totally forget about her, because she is one of your good friends! keep in touch and meet make new friends! she will eventually come around..
Well, I have two best friends, and i feel like the third wheel. Although they say im not, I feel like it and my parents see it too. I dont know if I should split off from them, or hang on? And, theyre always sort of depressing, and i dont like that...but every1 else in my school has best friends...i feel like i have none
help?
i used to feel like that too. they probably don't notice it, so help them by talking to them about it! if you don't, they will probably keep making you feel that way. you know, people who have more than one friend will always feel left out no matter what! it's totally normal, because no one is perfect! every friend will have their ups and downs, but they should always be there for you! either talk to them about it, or meet new people to be friends with! you will find one that suits you!! :)
OK here it goes. I go out with this girl and we used to spend time with each other all the time until i moved. So right now we r having a long distance relationship. Now everytime I talk to a certain girl she thinks I am cheating on her even when I tell her time to time again that I love her and I would never ever do nothing like that. She writes things about my friends that i don't like and that really gets on my nerves. Basically she doesnt trust me at all. Should I dump her or should I just talk to her. 13/m
you can't have a good relationship without trust. talk to her about how she needs to trust you in order to have a good relationship. she should know that you aren't interested in anyone but her, but it may take her a while to realize that. just give trust some time.. but if she continues thinking you are cheating on her, and you have had a talk to her about it, i say you break up with her. why have a girlfriend if she can't even trust you!
im madly in love with my best friend, lets call him chandler (sorry i like that name lol). well chandler knows i like him but he still wants to be my best friend because he knows that i like him and i never want to lose him. well i really want to ask him out but last time i asked this guy out he said no because im more of a girl whos friends with a guy and not girl friend material. i think chandler sort of agrees with him so how do i make him like me? we like the same stuff and we are always constently touching each other and laughing like its no big deal. i really like him but i want him to like me the same way back. any suggestions??
signed,
MaD LoVe
just because the one guy you asked out said you aren't girlfriend material, doesn't mean "chandler" thinks so too. "chandler" may like you too! you should tell him you like him and ask him if he thinks you are girlfriend material! :)
My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday but I am 70% sure I can get him back. Is there anything
I can do to get him back?
How are you so sure that you can get him back? If you really want him back.. ask him if he still has feelings for you and if he would ever think about going back out with you.
OK I have a number of definitions that I want answered.
What is :
FIngering
fisting
eating out
anal sex
Thank you
william.. im not answering that! lol
what is oral sex, my friends talk about it all the time and i just kinda go along with it. what is it please help!
pleasing the genitals by using your mouth.. lol. in other words, giving head or eating out.
me and my best friend (hes a guy) went out b4...but now we are best friends. but i think i still like him...but im not sure. and i dont think he likes me but it always seems like hes flirting w/ me but it could be cuz we r friends...im confused please help.
it may seem like he's flirting with you but he probably isn't. as you said, you both are best friends now! best friends act pretty close to each other!! you could talk to him about how you are feeling, just in case what he is doing IS flirting. everyone!! the only way to solve your problems is to talk about it!! so get talking!!
ok so i have this friend... say "brittany" and she is very depressed and every litle thing makes her feel lke.. idk sad? depressed? emo? idk but its creeping me out.. i knwo we all go through this but she has it worse then most of my buddies... is there anything i can do to help her? ps.. ive already talked to her about it and that seems to help a little but not as much as i want to help her...
thanx!!!! 13/f
maybe something huge is going on with her personal life. ask her about it and tell her you are there for her if she needs anything.
Okay so my boyfriend was fingering me and like he saw that there was blood on his finger [not much just kinda around the bed of his nail] I thought maybe I had started my period but just a few minutes I went to the bathroom and I didn't. But it kinda burned and there was like brown stuff [like discharge]. What is wrong?
he probably popped your cherry. lol!
I need help dumping my b/f of 1 week..I mean he is cool but I don't feel a *spark* when I'm around him or even talking to him! He is one of my friends and I'd like to keep it that way.. but I dont really wanna date him anymore.. can you help me please??
-Molly
if you are going to break up with him, make it soon. it will hurt worse if you wait longer, and don't lead him on! do not break up with him on aim, phone, letter, etc. because that is just plain ol' pathetic. break up with him in person! even though it may be harder, it will get him to understand. don't be like "ok i don't like you as a boyfriend just as a friend, so it's over." explain in detail why you are breaking up with him and how he is a great guy you just don't see him as a boyfriend. tell him you would rather just have him as a friend.