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Heyy. Well I'm really trying to get a 4.0 this quarter, so does anyone have some available, working study tips in mind? I would really appreciate it.
ps-oh yeah, I'm 14/f if that's of any help. thanksssss. (link)
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I'm the same age and trying to do the exact same thing! Here are some websites that really helped with me studying, that might help you -- http://www.studygs.net/
http://www.infoplease.com/homework/studyskills4.html
Here are some of my own tips -- Always pay attention in class and take as many notes as needed. Study your notes daily, so you'll be able to keep them stored in your brain. Don't focus on memorizing every word of your notes, or any other studying materials. It's all about getting the main points and main ideas across, and stored in your memory.
One of if not the most important thing is to work hard, it can be very stressful getting and maintaining a 4.0 GPA. So you have to prepare yourself to handle that stress, and become at ease with it.
Good luck!
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Hey =] I went of the American Eagle website and saw tons of cute bathing suits! do they sell them in the store to or only online? thanks in advance! (link)
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They sell their bathing suits in both their stores and online. However, some bathing suits are only for online, and some are only put in some select AE stores.
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13/f
Tomorrow im going to my boyfriends house
And tonight im stayin up late
No exceptions
I am deffinatly staying upp late tonight.
So my cousin that's a dude is going to go look at a house like with his mom and brother and he wants me to come
But thing is i would have to get up at like 7 on a SATURDAY morning
I dont wanna go
But i would deffinatly feel wicked bad if i didnt
So what should i do? (link)
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I would feel the same as you are now, however, you can always tell him that you're very tired from being so busy, and you would really like to rest and you hope he understands. Of course, I'm only recommending this if it's the truth (in my case, it would be the truth). I think it's relevant in anyone's life though, because most people tend to be busy at something, if anything. Good luck!
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Ok its not like i've ever done this but i was just wondering what if you hd sex before you got your period.....could you still get pregnant? (link)
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Yes, you can get pregnant at any time, there are no limits as to when it can happen. You can even get your period and still be pregnant -- it's rare, but it does happen.
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can you give me a list of all the songs (old, new, any type of music) that are about a "sara"? for example: sara smile, etc. thaknsss (link)
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Sure, here you go:
*"Sara" by Bob Dylan
*"Sara" by Jefferson Starship
*"What Sara Said" by Death Cab for Cutie
*"Sara Lee" by The Evans
*"Sara Smile" Boyz II Men
*"Sara, Poor Sara" by This Day & Age
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yeah i know but hes really popular and me i am not hes sexy too me nope not at all and i dont know what he would think if i just went up to talk i dont know if he would think why is this ugly person talking to me or yeah i am not scared to do it i am scared what he will say because any other guy i have liked in the pass has been very rude when i go up and talk to him and sorry about the not straight question. i am in love ok i was kidding no i am not in love so bye. (link)
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Honestly, I think you need to build your confidence up before it comes to any guy. Because if it's one thing I've learned, it's "If you don't love yourself, no one else is going to love you." That is something to remember, and you have to be confident and not think of yourself as "ugly" and realize you are beautiful. Then, other guys will see it too.
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look i have moved on to someone else remember neal and i think people like bio and homo's are ok its just i think it way wrong i dont hate them i just would never befriend them. (link)
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Okay, then continue with Neal. Something could work out with him, very well. I wish you the best of luck. Just be sure to talk to him often, and hang out frequently.
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what no i dont think so it will take me months to get over him. (link)
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I know, now do you see what I mean? You have to get some courage, and do something about it. Go up and start a conversation with him, everything will work out just fine. You just have to take that step. :)
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what sites can i go to, to make clothes, design clothes, dressup people, or runway clothes games.
any links will help, plz give me as much as possible! (link)
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Here are a few sites that do exactly that --
*www.stardoll.com
*www.dressupgames.com
*www.dollzmania.com
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ok this is reallyyy embarecing..i have like stretch marks on my breasts and thighs. is this normal? and will or when they go away? i hateee them sooo much. (link)
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Please, do not be embarrassed. Many young girls and women have stretch marks on not only their breasts and thighs, but in other places too. We all tend to get them, even I have gotten them. So you're not alone. Some of these will fade away soon on their own, and others will not fade until a very long time.
You can buy cream for stretch marks (while they're dark) and they will go away with that cream. However, when they turn light, I'm afraid you're stuck with them until they fade in time.
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does anyone know who got voted off tonight? (link)
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Gina Glockson got voted off, last night.
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YEA WELL ITS TRUE BUT I DO WISH I CAN HOLD U MORE CLOSER LIKE MORE THAN A HUG OR FRIENDS U KNOW WAT I MEAN
what does this mean? (link)
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This means that the person who wrote this wants to be more than a friend to you, meaning in a relationship with you.
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Is it true that wearing a wired bra to bed stops your boobs from growing as much, and wearing a sports bra makes them have room to grow? (link)
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This is an old beauty myth, that I am happy to declare is not true. So no worries, this will not make your boobs stop growing -- nor will anything else. :)
By the way, it's actually good to sleep in your bra, because it prevents sagging.
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yes but i am i hate people like that even homos freak me out i just think that they are really nasty people. (link)
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Well, I will not argue with you, not only because it is not my place to, and as a good columnist I shouldn't argue with you. However, I couldn't disagree with you more. Only because I believe all people should be treated equally, and many of those "really nasty people" are my friends. Again, I will not argue with you on this because it isn't my job.
I would just not speak to him anymore, if you think he's one of those "really nasty people." That way, there are no problems caused there. I would move on to someone else. Good luck!
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no i have tryed but i am just to scared to talk to him and when he graduates i could call him i have his # and he did not give it to me its in the back of the student handbook all our # are i do like him alot i hate when class is over because when it is then i just want to see him alot more help me please i dont know what to do hes just so dang HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my friends think i should try not thinking about him but i can not it is to impossible for me to do.
HELP ME PLEASE. (link)
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I'm sorry, but there isn't any other way to be in a relationship with him, unless you talk to him. So I'm not sure I can help you with this.
I can't really tell you to forget about him, because I know how hard it would be. I think when we overcome our challenges that we think we just "can't" do, is when we really see that we can accomplish them. I think this is definitely one of those, for you.
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what is a song about being "over it" or like over immatureness or just plain "over it". not related to love, just related to things in general.
nott katherine mcphee's "over it" haha. (link)
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There is a song about exactly that, "Over It" by Anneliese Van Der Pol.
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the song goes like this:
jesse is a friend, ya he is a good friend of mine...
chorous:
you know i wish that i had jesse's girl (repeated a lot)
please tell me the title/artise of this song! i think the title might be Jesse's Girl but i'm not sure! thx! (link)
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The song is called "Jesse's Girl" by Rock Springfield.
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no i did not yell at him i just said what are you looking at in the nicest voice possible he still did not listen he still looked at me. neal the senior i like is so cute everytime i watch tv i here his name over and over again and everywere i go i see things that remind me of him whats wrong with me i am so upsest with him i cant get him out of my mind what should i do? (link)
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Nothing is wrong with you. You have a huge crush, and it does happen. In fact, it's happened to me before -- and right now (with the same guy). And he just so happens to be a senior too, what a coinsedense.
Now, on to helping you. I still think you should keep talking to him very ofen, have you been doing that?
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thats what i am thinking but hes bio because he has a girlfriend and looks at girls all the time and talks about them. (link)
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He could be and does seem it, but I'm not really to judge on someone's sexual orientation.
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ok my x bf broke up with me like 2 months ago and i started talking to this other guy and i like him but like a week ago i met this really kool and nice HOT guy and i really like him AND I HAVE Been like talking to all off them and telling them that i like them in stuff and i dont kno who to choose im such a whore plaese dont leave rude comments that stupid (link)
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In my opinion, I don't think you're a whore, however, I do not personally agree with telling all of them that you like them. But that's just my personal opinion.
I think you should base your decision on who you have the most feelings for, who you care about the most, who treats you as you really deserve and makes you feel the greatest.
To be honest, I don't think someone who is actually a whore would even consider choosing just one guy, so I do commend you for wanting to choose. Good luck! :)
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