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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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Can anyone tell me on the movie, Napoleon Dynamite, whenever that girl goes to Napoleon's house, and says, "I need to save up some extra money for college." & Kip says, "Your mom goes to college, HAHA" what does that mean? Haha, I know it's a dumb question, But I've been wondering - because everyone says it, and I don't understand the point of it, or what it basically means. Thanks!

He's pretty much dissing her mother. It's like them "Your Mama" jokes that are out there. This one basically means that her mother is very stupid, since she's still going to college when she's probably 40-50 years old.
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what is cum???!!!

Semen or ejaculate is the fluid discharged from the penis during ejaculation, usually at the time of orgasm. Like blood, semen consists of two compartments, the cellular compartment (spermatozoa) and noncellular compartment (seminal plasma). It contains the sperm, which sometimes results in pregnancy following vaginal sex with a female. Semen is a whitish, milky fluid, slightly viscous, containing water and small amounts of salt, protein, and fructose. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cum)
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Hi ummm i m thinking of another advice name!!!! Any suggestions!!!! tHANKS!!!!!

You might want to check out this website for ideas on screen names for your advice column. http://www.quote-a-licious.cjb.net Just go to the side and click on "Screen Names". There's 21 pages, I'm sure you'll find something you like.
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Hey, I'm 14.f and something has been bugging me. So many people have been starting to have sex, and i think its like, pathetic, how can teenagers, want to give blow jobs and hand jobs, i mean hello, its kinda weird for 13-16 year olds to do that at this age in my opinion. Does anybody out there agree with me that this stuff is stupid at this age? There have been so many questions on here about sex and hand jobs and everything and i think it is plain out pathetic! Teens shouldnt be worried about that kind of stuff at this age. Does anyone out there agree with me at all?

Thanks-

I agree with you 100%. I think the only reason teens do this now is because it's the "cool" thing to do. They do this to fit in with other groups and people at school. Then they think just because you have sex with someone you're the cool kid in school. When really, losing your virgin isn't all that it's cracked up to be. I mean it's great if you love the person and you are ready. But you shouldn't have sex just to fix in and that is what some girls are doing. It's sad.
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hey can you email me, i got a question for ya: hectorjr1020@aol.com. thanks

Sure :)
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does hollister have a website? i've tried everything and can't seem to find it. thanks.

Yes, they do have a website. http://www.hollisterco.com
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1)what are the three bases?
2)what is giving head?

The bases are the three "F's". 1st Base is frenching, making out, etc. 2nd Base is feeling. (Anything above the belt.) 3rd Base is finger, handjobs, blowjobs, head, ect. Home pretty much sums it all up, it's sex. Head is the same thing as a blowjob, they both have to do with sucking on a guys penis to pleasure him.
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OK, my problem is a bit weird. I'm 16, and that's normal, at least I hope. Anyways, I relised on my vacation last week that I never want to get married. And this isn't one of those "Oh, you're still too young to decide" things. It is one of those impulses that I know I'll have for the rest of my life.
Yet, I still want a child when I'm older. A few years back, I had another one of these impulses which told me that I do not want a child of my own, but I want to adopt.
I really don't know. Is this normal? Or is something wrong with me?

This is totally normal and there isn't anything wrong with you. This is what you want to do in life. It shouldn't matter what other people think. It's normal for people that don't want children of their own or they don't want to get married. A lot of people around the would think the same way as you. I'm kind of like you. I want to get married, but I don't want to have children. However, I'd really like to adopt a child that doesn't have it so good in their household or had a bad growing up. I think adopting a child is great. You're helping them out and are showing them they can be loved and treated with respect. Don't worry about this not being normal, hun. Different people have different out looks on life and how they want to live it. There's nothing wrong with that.
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hey
is there any house stuff that i could use to masturbate to make it hurt or at least let me enjoy it with passion??

Anything that would be rounded and shapped like a penis you can use. Example: end of a hair brush, markers, flash light, pens, etc. You can also use a shower head and place it on your vigina, the base of an electric toothbrush or a cell phone when it's on vibrate.
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i'll be 15 in like 2 weeks.. and im going into high school. my ex boyfriend lives in another town but i see him almost everyday. he's 2 months younger than me.. well heres the 411...

i have a friend who has a step brother my age. hes never really had a girlfriend that lasted more than a day until me. much less kissed a girl. everything was perfect although a little awkeward cause im used to a guy leading the relationship. well he started listening to what other people were saying about me. and he didn't really trust me cause he has a hard time trusting people because of his past. well i spent a week with him 24/7 and he broke up with me. with the understanding that we both still liked each other. well his dad and step mom went and talked to him and he didn't talk to me at all the rest of the night i finally went home. all my friends tell me i should give up on him. and hes an asshole. but ive completely fallin for him and i haven't fell this hard since last summer. i wrote down a speech to say to him when ever i get the courage to call him. basically it says how much i like him and how he can trust me and how id love to go back out with him. ive been careful the whole relationship (3 weeks) not to say i love you. and i haven't yet. but i know i love him. i just don't know whether to live it alone or to read the speech to him. should i move on or try and get him back? please respond its very important!!!! also i don't know if he broke up with me cause i was his first girlfriend and he didn't know exactly what to do. i also don't know what his parents told him after me and him broke up! could they have ruined my chances?

love, gabby

I really don't know if his parents have anything to do with the break up, but maybe they did say something to him about you. You never know. You know how most parents are overprotective and just want the best for their children. You could always ask him what his parents said if you really wanted to know. There's nothing wrong with wondering if they could have ruined your chances or said something bad about you. I don't think you should give up on this guy. You like him, actually you love him. Love doesn't come around to often and when you love someone you should never give up on him or her. Keep on fighting for him until you have him as a boyfriend again. Love comes around once in a blue moon, it's a really special thing. So fight for the guy. I think calling him up and reading out your speech to him is a great idea. Just spilling out your feelings and telling him everything will make things much better. Since you know he still likes you, go for it, you really have nothing to lose. Once you get all those feelings out in the open, you'll feel so much better just knowing he knows how you feel about him. I'd suggest calling him up and reading the speech. You might just win his heart back. It's worth a try. Go for it hun!
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ok i just got a myspace and i was wondering where i can get kool layouts for it. and also where do you put the layout code??
i rate

http://www.createblog.com Just click on the "MySpace" link and it'll give you loads of cute layouts. All you do is copy and paste the code into the "About me" section on your MySpace page.
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i dont know if this is the right section but what is 1st base 2nd base 3rd base and home?

The bases are the three "F's". 1st Base is frenching, making out, etc. 2nd Base is feeling. (Anything above the belt.) 3rd Base is finger, handjobs, blowjobs, head, ect. Home pretty much sums it all up, it's sex.
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well i just found out yesturday that i'm moving this saturday .. n i dont kno how to tell my friend maria .. cuz i'm always playin jokes on her that i mite move and i'm afraid she wont believe me .. what shood i say??

Tell her straight up that you're moving and this time it's not a joke. Tell her where you're moving and when. Give her details on it. If she's your friend, she'll believe what you're saying. If she doesn't buy it, bring her over to your house and have a converstation with her and your parents. Once she hears your parents say that you guys are moving, she'll believe you.
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how do you get a guy's attention? I'm also really shy .. so any tips on not being.....so shy? haha. Thanks much!

Steps: - Ask the guy questions about himself. Showing interest in the guy will let him know you're interested in him. - During conversation, either play with your hair or jewelry, preferably a necklace. These actions are somewhat flirtatious. - If you know what kinds of smells the guy appreciates, wear a fragrance that incorporates those smells. - Dress to enhance any particular parts of your body you believe the guy finds attractive. Ideas include capri pants, skirts, and of course, any blouse that shows some cleavage. Basic instincts will take over for which he has no control. - Incorporate into present conversations past things the guy has revealed about himself. - Playfully touch the guy during conversation. If sitting, touch him lightly on his knee. - Display your sense of humor. Everyone likes to laugh. - Look into the guy's eyes. Not enough people make eye contact while speaking or listening. - Smile while you talk with the guy. (http://wiki.ehow.com/Get-a-Guy's-Attention)
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Can someone please type some of the lyrics to the song with Ja Rule and Ashanti... I do not remember it at all but I remember that the video was copying Grease with Danny as Ja Rule and Sandy as Ashanti.. please help!

The song is "Mesmerize" and it's by Ja Rule and Ashanti. The lyrics can be found here: http://www.seeklyrics.com/lyrics/JA-RULE/Mesmerize.html You can also listen to this song at the following website: http://cdzinc.com/K/16/urban/I_L/jarule.html
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Okay well i have heard this country song about a million times in my life and my grandma absolutely loves it so i was goin to get it for her but i dont know the artist or the name of the song but i do some lyrics.. *its your love..it just does something to me..sends a shock right through me..** yea thats all i know so if you can help me id appreciate it alot and ill rate high..

That song is so cute. The name of the song is "It's Your Love" and it's by Tim McGraw and Faith Hill. You can listen to this song at the following website: http://cdzinc.com/K/16/country/M_Z/mcgrawtim.html
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how do you enter a link into your advice




thanx alot
xoxoxoxo

Click on "Profile Settings", then scroll down to "Website URL". Just put the URL of the website in the blank, then go under it to where it says "Website Title" and put the title of the website.
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my hair is brownish blondish but really more brown and i was thinking about getting my hair dyed black. i don't know how it will turn out so for halloween i was gonna dye my hair black, but is there a product that won't last for 4 weeks? thanks 5's for good answers

You might want to try Loreal Color Pulse. It's mousse. It's very easy to use and it only last for a couple of days. It's also very cheap. It only cost about $4-5. There's also regular hair dye out there that comes out in 15-20 washes. I think it'll be best to get something along them lines. Black is a very hard color to get out, so I wouldn't actually dye it black with normal hair dyers. I dyed my hair black before and it took almost a year to come out. I even tryed re-coloring it but it would never work. So getting a dye that won't last long would be better then getting a normal hair dye.
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i was wondering where i could but a cd burner? does it have to come with your computer when you buy it? how much would one cost if i could get it and where do you think i could find one?
thanx so much
anything with help!

i rate high

always *KMR*

You could find CD Burners where ever they sell computers. It doesn't have to come with your computer. You could buy one and get it put into your computer. You can find them at Stapples and Circet City. I don't really know how much they cost though. Maybe around 50-$100, they came down in price a lot. Just try looking around some stores that sell computers and ask one of the helpers. I'm sure you'll find something, they have to have CD Burners.
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What guys look for in a girl?? Thanx

Eye color?
Hair color
Do you want her to kiss you on the first date?
If not when?
When is it alright to take it to second base
How soon do you want her to put it out (sex wise)
athletic, preppy or girly girl?
Skinny,muscular,chubby or fat
shorter or taller than you?
experienced or unexperienced?
Do looks matter?
Whats a major turn off?
Whats a major turn on?
Feature you like the most on girls?
Do you like it when a girl makes the first move?
If your girlfriend gains 20lbs will you stay with her?
Do you like it when girls play hard to get?
Dou you like
Would you date a girl who has slept around just for sex?
Would you date an ugly girl just for sex?
Ass or boobs?
Pretty face or hot body
Do you mind if a girl beats you while playing sports?
Make-up or no make-up?
dressed up girl or sweat pants/casual jeans and a sweatshirt
First thing you notice about a girl?

These questions are fun. So I asked my boyfriend and I'll just put his answers on here.
Green, blue, brown, all eyes are nice.
I really love girls with brown hair, or blonde. Both are sexy.
I'd love for a girl to kiss me on my first date. It shows that she's really into me.
Whenever she wants to and is comfortable with herself and me.
Whenever she wants to and is comfortable with herself and me.
It doesn't matter what type of girl she is. Just as long as we like eachother.
I don't like them too big, nor do I like them too small. In the middle is just right.
Doesn't really matter if she's experienced or not.
Looks do matter. If I said they didn't, I'd be lying.
I hate smokers, druggys, and girls that think too much of themselfs.
Girls that are comfortable with their body and will go out of their way to make you happy.
I love girls eyes, it's the first thing I look at and their smile.
I love when girls make the first move.
Yes, I'd stay with her, even if she did gain a couple of pounds.
Sometimes.
No.
No.
Boobs.
Both would be great.
Which ever she wants. I'm not a big fan of make-up. I like a little on a girl, but not caked on.
Doesn't matter to me what she wears.
Smile and eyes.
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