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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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What age do you think a girl should be to go to a gyno? Not for birth control, just for health check ups? Thanks!

Usually you start going when you become sexually active. Or between the ages of 16-18.
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are the west virginia mountaineers a good football team?

I never even heared of them, so they probably aren't any good.
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i can never get an orgasm when i am masterbating and i am afraid when i have sex with my husband i won't cum

any websites or tips?

i will rate a 5 for any answer

Check out this website: http://www.coolnurse.com/orgasm_female.htm
♥ Krissy

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Okay i have been trying to get music onto my pc,but it takes so long to download a tool to get the music.(Like kazza or limewire)I just want a website where i can download the song without downloading something else.Does anyone know a site like this?

You can check out this website, it's pretty awesome. You just search up the artist or band you want to listen to and you can listen to all their songs off all their C.D.'s. http://cdzinc.com You can also go to this website: http://www.accuradio.com/hits/# It's a online radio and you're able to change the stations to what kind of music you like best.
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okay i have a question for girls... ive got the worst cramps right now.. like i feel like im going to die... does anyody have any at home remedys or somethin to make em go away... i already took 2 tylonol and a calcuim pill... but what else can i do to make em not hurt so bad, or even better, go away!! please help

You know what works best? I nice hot bubble bath with loads of bubbles. It'll help you out with the cramps and will relax you a bit. Or, you could go in your room and lay on your bed with a heating pad on your stomach. Maybe listen to some soft music or watch a movie. You can also take some Advil. They work wonders too.
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does anyone know how much money you get paid an hour for working at a job like af & hollister?

If you are working at a clothing store, you have to wear their clothes when you got into work and are on the job. They pay minimum wage which can be between $5.00-$8.00, depending on where you live.
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how do lesbians have sex?

They use strap-on's and loads of other sex toys.
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Hey, I really don't want to ask for specifics about drugs on this website...trying to help keep it PG-13. But, I really need good, reliable information about MDMA. I'm looking for dangers, precautions to take, statistics, etc. but from an unbiased source. Can anyone help with a link to the information or to a place where I can ask specific questions? Thanks!

I looked up a few websites. Here are some good ones I came across: http://www.erowid.org/chemicals/mdma/mdma.shtml, http://www.nida.nih.gov/Infofacts/ecstasy.html, http://www.mdma.net. Or you can just go to this website and check out a bunch of sites: http://www.google.ca/search?hl=en&q=MDMA&btnG=Search&meta=
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Ok, so it is the first day of school today and I didn't get to go because i got my wisdom teeth out on monday and so now i am swelled up very big and i can not even close my mouth. i was wondering how to make the swelling go down, and do not say ice because the doctor told me no ice after the first day. i know pretty strange huh? well i really want to go to school tomorrow and see all my friends and meet my teachers. so any help would be appreciated. thanks in advance :D

He said not to put ice on after the first day? Don't listen to him. Use the ice. When I got my wisdom teeth out I was out of school for a week. It depends on how you feel though. If you feel ready to go back to school to see your teachers and classmates, go. Did the doctor gives you pills to help you with your wisdom teeth? If so, make sure you take them. They help a lot. Also, use the ice. The ice will make a big difference. Don't open your mouth wide, because it'll make the swelling worse. Just relax in bed and have some milkshakes. There's nothing you can do to speed up the process. Just take it easy for now.
♥ Krissy

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okay I am a lesbian and I'm in love with my girlfriend. I'm pretty sure she loves me to because she tells me all the time. Well she just found out that she is about to have her ex-boyfriend's baby and now she has to pic between one of us. I think of part of her still loves him and there's a good chance she could pick him, but at the same time i feel there's a good chance she could pick me. Everytime i try to bring up the subject about picking which one she wants to be with she gets REAL REAL mad, so I just drop it to save the yelling. I feel like I'm being tagged along, like I'm sitting here waiting around for no reason. Almost like she's only with me to keep me occupied or something. I've lsot all my friends over her and now everyone thinks it's a joke because they keep sayins he's obviously gonna pick the guy. I'm so confused. I have no idea if I should stay with her or not. I do care alot about her but am I making a mistake by staying with her? I need some advice. ANY advice! I'm lsot and don't know what to do.

signed- COnfUSeD*

It's alright to be confused. If I were you I'd be totally confused as well. This is something that you and her both need to figure you. You need to have a converstation with her and see what will work out best. You guys can still be together even if she is having her ex boyfriends baby. Or you guys could always take a break from eachother, maybe that will be best. It'll make her realize if she does really love you, because she won't be with you. Being on a break does some people good. It makes they realize just how much that other person means to them when they can't have them around. Be there for her through everything though. She's going to need a shoulder to lean on, I'm sure. Talk to her about what is on your mind, she's your girlfriend so she should listen to what you have to say. Talking will solve a lot of problems. So I suggest having a good converstation about everything that is bothering you. Just don't bring up the subject by asking "who are you going to pick?", that's not a good converstation starter. Explain to her that you really love her and you don't want to lose her. Then ask her if she still has feelings for her ex and so on.
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heyy, i'm 14 year old girl & i like to go to the clubs around you know the teen nights? well me & my boyfriend grind & that but i feel like i'm not a good dancer, do you have any advice that could help me. since i'm new at this & don't know how to check if you answered, you can just email me at
craZChrissy2476@aol.com

thanks so much

It's really not that hard to see if I answered your question or not. It'll show up in "Your Questions" part and it'll be a (1) under it. If you figure this out, just tell me and I'll answer the question on here. It's better then e-mailing you because my e-mail is being a total jerk right now. Do you have AOL? We could even chat it up on there.
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My friend was forced to take a drug test by his mom and it he failed now shes callin his friends and tellin their parents to drug test their kids shes gonna call my dad soon and have my dad test me i want to know if its true that if you dont do marijuana often that it will clear out of your system faster than if you do it constantly?

Yes, that is true. If you don't do weed everyday, your system will keep cleaning it's self out. If you do do weed everday it just keeps bilding up and it takes a longer time to clean out your system.
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I'm 16/f and one of my best friends is 17/m. We're ridiculously close friends. He understands me so well, and he actually cares. He has been one of the nicest people to me in my entier life. He's always there, and he always listens. He's just the sweetest person in the world.
The only problem is, I like him. A lot. As in more than best friends. But my question is, do I just keep our friendship, so that nothing else can be ruined, or do I try and push for more?
I don't want things to be awkward between us, but I love him. He has been the sweetest person in the world.

I'm confused about what to do. I'm torn between getting closer or staying how we are. Help.

It really depends on what you want. Just follow your heart with this one. No one can tell you what to do, its you that has to take the chance. If you feel like both you and him would be an awesome couple, go for it. Just tell him that you like him. Explain all your feelings for him, then see where it goes from there. I went out with one of my best guy friend before. Things didn't go to well with us being together. Now we don't even talk. It's sad, I know. We used to be so close and by us going out, it screwed up everything including our great friendship. But you never know, this could be totally different for you and he could be the man of your dreams. He could be everything to you and your relationship could be the best you'd ever have. You never know till you actually try it out. So why not try a couple of dates and see where it goes from there. Don't let a chance pass you by. You could be giving up something that could be really special.
♥ Krissy

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me n my bf have been goin out for 2 days n the first day he said i love you and i said it back n now im sayin it n hes just sayin igght pz n its gettin me mad what should i do?

Why's he saying "Igght pz". What does that even mean? If he's going to be immature about it just stop telling him you love him. Being together for 2 days and saying "I love you" is kind of rushing into things, don't you think? If I were you, I'd wonder if he really means it. If he cares about you he'll stop saying it that stupid word; "Igght Pz". But when he says it, tell him it bugs you or he'll never stop because he'll never know that it makes you mad.
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Ok

I kno missing your period could mean that your pregnant

I'm 13/f- and i've been having my period for 4 years now and it was normal..

But now it's not coming at all.. this is the 4th month.. that's i've missed it.. what's happening.
and i'm a virgin.

pls help me :)

Don't worry about it, ever girl goes through this. Your period's just irregular. It'll even it's self out. Usually all girls periods are irregular the first couple of years. Don't worry, it's normal.
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ok well...when guys masterbate they cum

and girls "cum" too...but what is it called?...is it called cum? or is there another word for it?

No, there's another word for it and it's called "Orgasm". An Orgasm is an emotional and physical experience that occurs during a "sexual response cycle". Before an orgasm, your body becomes increasingly excited. Breathing, heart rate and blood pressure increases. You can find loads of information at this website: http://www.coolnurse.com/orgasm_female.htm
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i have never made out with someone before can u give me some tips and how can i pratice what can i pratice on my friend said she used a spoon but what do i do?

You might want to check out this site for some tips on kissing. The tips are really good and are explained rather well. http://www.sex-project.com/kissing.shtml To practice maybe you could use a stuffed animal, your hand, a picture or poser of someone or the wall.
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is it true like.. if a girl fingers them selves that they get there period sooner... cuz like.. wen girls have sex.. they are fingered and they bleed... sumtimes

No, that's not true at all hun. Girls won't get their period sooner if they finger themselves. The only reason why a girl bleeds her first time having sex or getting finger is because her Hymen (Cherry) usually pops. The Hymen is a layer of tissue, just like the tissue around the opening of your vagina that partially conceals the vaginal orifice. So when something goes into your vagina for the first time it breaks the tissue and that leads to bleeding.
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hey does anyone know the name of the song i think its called what's happenin but i can't find it anywhere like i don't know who its by and the whole song bsaically goes "whats happenin" in like a weird voice and the only other line i know is "i smoke, i drink" haha if you know the name/artist of this song pleassssee tell me!

The song is "I Smoke, I Drink" and it's by Lil Boosie, Mr Magic and Young Bleed.
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hi im 13/m ive nvr made out can sum1 tell me how to kiss well?

You might want to check out this website: http://www.sex-project.com/kissing.shtml It gives you awesome information on how to kiss and how to be a great kisser.
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