about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

ok i gave my boyfriend a hickey the otherday and it didnt come out big. it was like a small dot. and he did the same thing to me but it didnt come out big ear. it was the size of a pen ( the circular part of the pen. how can i make a hickey bigger?

Open your mouth a bit wider and suck harder and for a longer amount of time.

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i use secret plantinum gel deodorant, but no matter how much i put on it just DOESNT WORK. i heard that its supposed to work well, but i still sweat. do you have any deodorant suggestions that work well? i'll rate 5's

I use Addidas for women and I love it. I'm not the type of person who sweats all that much, but it works really good .. at least for me it does.

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what is abortion? ive looked it up but i don't quite understand it...

Killing a baby while it's still inside the mother.

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im 15. i lost my virginity afew months ago (in dec) but i wasnt dating the person. it was just a little one nighter. i dont regret it but im just not proud of my decision. but i wanna have sex with my new boyfriend now but im afraid that its gonna hurt just as bad as the first time. because it hurt pretty bad but thats my question. is it ok and would it hurt again? oh and one more thing.. can you please tell me how i can come out and tell him that ive only had sex once and that it was like what 5 or 6 months ago? im just confused and feel weird cause it was so long ago.



thanks so so much for your help!

If you really like your boyfriend then it's okay and I really can't tell you if it's going to hurt again. It's different for a lot of girls. Sometimes it only hurts the first time, but the second you're supposed to feal pleasure. When you talk to him about this just tell him. It's better for him to know.

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hey, whered you get your layout? I really like it! & good column too. thanks

It's not really a layout. I just put a background & thanks.

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what does it mean to jerk a guy off? is that like a handjob? welp thanks !

Do you know what it means when a guy jerks off? It's when they masturbate, so what do you think it means when someone jerks a guy off? Think about it. But a handjob is one way.

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hi! well im 14 and i've liked this guy dave for about 2 years now.. we've kinda went out during the summer as a joke but he said it wasnt a joke but he just didnt want to break my heart.. which he did anyway... but we've been flirting for like a year.. than i got over him and decided hes better off as a friend.. so i moved onto another guy which i really loved.. he was 2 years older than me.. and he was getting out of the school... eeveryday he would walk to my locker.. and the guy i used to like.. was there and would always comment and say "omg you like him.. hes so ugly" which he wasn't at all.. me and him would always get mad at dave.. and he would threaten to beat him upp.. than finally this year i decided to get over him and move on to someone else since he was going out of the school.. dave said he liked me again and we started too like eachother.. than he went onto another girl in about 2 days.. we always flirt.. but hes known to be the guy that always leaves girls hanging and breaks there heart.. and doesn't even care.. which i know he does.. hes really popular and if someonee says something bad about the girl he likes... he'll get over them and not like him.. well we've been talking about hooking upp and i was going to do it but there was a guy there that we didn't want to know.. me & him were gonna keep it secret and only my closest friends would know because we didn't want any drama. someone said a nasty thing about me.. and he stopped talking to me as much.. he said how he loved me the day before and he hugged & almost kissed me the day before.. some asshole said i was a bitch and other things.. and than dave got offended.. and didn't talk to me for awhile.. we were talking last night.. but it seems like he always lets what people think about me getting in the way of himt alking to me.. i dont know what to doo.. because i know that i shouldn't like him because of that.. but i dontk now.. now hes talking to this other girl and hugging her in the middle of the hallway trying to get me mad or he really likes her.. i dont know...


helppp please

Sorry it took me a while to answer your question. My opinion on this is that he gets jelous when you are with other guys. I guess he was used to you liking him and when you like other guys and flirt with them, he doesn't like that very much. I don't really know what else to tell you though. You need to talk to him and tell him to stop beliving other people. He needs to learn how to do that, but he starts a lot of drama between you guys. Just don't suck up to him and if he won't talk to you then ignore him. He's not worth your agrivation.

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fuck you bithc..
i hate you x29584

Should I care?

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is it safe to use deplinatory creams while pregnant

I don't even know what deplinatory creams are. Sorry.

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do you know any good victoria secret quotes??

No.

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Does anybody know a good website you could get good love quotes not like famous or really cheesy ones just some plain good ones? Please and Thank you!

http://www.xanga.com/groups/group.aspx?id=264809

There are a lot of quote sites there, so find a good site. & also http://qm.your-memory.net/5.html

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Do hickies hurt when people give them to you? I'm so confused about it...

In my opinion, no. Just imagine someone sucking on your neck for about 10 minutes, would it hurt you?

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what kinds of food help make you fell full longer. I'm tryin to loose weight????

2 bannana's always fill me up but an hour later, you feel hungry again. Anyways, any food will fill you up if you eat a good perportion and if you eat it slowly. Also, if you put it on a smaller plate, it makes it look like there is more food and it won't make you want seconds. Another thing is that if you watch television while you're eating, you won't even realize how much you're eating because you're not paying attention to it so when you eat, make sure you're not distracted. Eat vegtables and fruits. Exercise and you will lose weight.

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GOD Yourrr HOT!!!!!!!lol

Lol thanks.

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what does it mean when during an entire duration of a conversation with a guy, he's staring straight at your lips and occasionally into your eyes?

It's pretty obvious that he wants to kiss you or he finds your lips quite interesting.

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I know this guy. I think i have a crush on him.
but i dont know if he likes me or even wants to be my friend at all.

He's a consultant and talks extremely well when i ask him for advise on work.

However, he gets shy/uncomfortable, when i ask him simple personal questions for eg: Do you go for swimming. I think he has a problem of talking about himself to new people or just not that friendly.

So one day, i gave him some sweets via his secretary (i didnt really know him that well at that time in office) and he was quite startled and stared at me and waited for me to say something when i bumped at him at the doorway.
He had those puppy eyes..but didnt say word!.
I pretended not to appear interested in him becos i was too shy.!

He could have just thank me for the sweets but he didnt.

Later, i sent him email and was able to chat with him about work..and he responded quite well.

One day, i called him up and he sounded quite uptight and said that he was on the other line...
So why does he act so weird when i call him but he responds quite well via email

How do i get him to open up to me as a normal friend?

What can i say/should not say to him when i call him? Can i call him to say goodnight to him? I dont want to appear too invasive ...

Would appreciate your advice.

Some people have a hard time getting comftrable with people and something in the past might of caused him to be that way. I was kind of like him couple of years ago. I had trouble trusting people and making friends because everytime I started to like a group of people, something bad would happen and I would never see them again. Anyways, he has a hard time getting used to the idea that you just want to be friends with him and he has a hard time getting comftrable around you and plus he's shy. Right now, you should just keep talking to him. As you both keep getting to know each other, try changing the subjects from work to other things. It will take him some time to get to know you and for him to see how he feels about you. He also doesn't seem to be comftrable talking in person or on the phone because he is really shy and I understand that. For now, take baby steps into developing a relationship with one another. Don't worry about what things to say and what not to. The best thing for you to do is be yourself no matter what. If you try being different, he will realize that and he won't know who you really are. Be yourself and just give your friendship some time.

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Please Help.. well ive been going out with this guy for like 2 weeks now.. and there is this girl that he used to like and she stiil likes him.. but she wanted to go out with her ex which is my b.f's worst enemy.. and i guess they didnt hook up or w.e and now she tries to hug my boyfriend.. she wants him to drive her to work and stuff and she wants to work with him.. i mean im not tryign to be jealuse its just im really scared hes going to cheat on me with her.. what do you think i should do... i tried talking to him hes likei like you a lot.. i would never cheat on you.. im still kinda worried.. sorry this is so long.. please help..

Right now, all you should do is trust him. If he wanted to cheat on you, he would of by now and if he liked her he wouldn't be with you. If you don't trust him your relationship could go down the drain. I know you're still going to be worried and scared, but just don't let it show. Jelousy in a relationship is normal so don't feel stupid if you get that way. He seems to really like youn so try not to worry about it as much.

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alright.. so my friend. she likes this guy. and she wants to know if he likes her back. and she wants me to ask him if he likes her. and she told me that she doesn't want me to say do you like brittany or what do you think of brittany.. but like.. how can i get him to tell me in an un-obivious way?

thanks!

I don't really know how to help. Sorry.

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Hey, I really need help with a new screen name. Ok mine right now has to do with hollister and its really old. Now i want something that has to do with a song or something like vintage or glamour[ something like that ] and i can`t think of anything . and then i don`t want like [ popyourcolla or prettyinpink ] none of that . i like the bands fallout boy - panic! at the disco - tbs - all american rejects - mcr - the used - the fray - those kind

I hate screen name questions & I'm not good with them but I'll try to help.

glamour x kills
pink pearls oO
toxic lies
vintage pearl
hollywood hills

Anyways, just use your imagination. Take words that don't make sence and put them together. Take your favorite song title and make a screen name.

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13/f i haven't gotten my first period yet but when i do im planning to use tampons but is it okay if i practice putting the applicator in? thanks.

Putting them in when you're not on your period isn't a really good idea. You're going to be dry and when you take it out it will hurt you so I don't suggest on doing it.

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