hey yall im Deana im 16 i go to ghs and i love giving yall advice so dont be shy and drop me a question and ill answer it the best i can!
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School's about to start, and I don't really want to carry a backpack around all the time this year. I was wondering if anyone knows where to get those cute shoulder bags that are rectangle-squarish? They have really cute Coach ones, but I'm on a low-budget. (link)
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one of those stores that starts with an a abercrombe and fitch american eagle im pretty sure they have them all over the place just keep ur eyes open!
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I have a problem. With my jansport backpack, I have 7 folders and notebooks, and I cant seem to fit all of them. The backpack is pretty good sized, but I mean, I can only fit my binder (medium sized),7 folders, and like, 3 100 pg notebooks. What should I do? I mean, dont just tell me to try to fit everything in there and then try to zip it. Believe me, I tried that. So..what should I do? Is there anything I can do?? (link)
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put some of it in your locker if you have a locker or get some 70 paged notebooks and use those using new ones whenever you run out of paper if theres a folder and a notebook you dont use everyday then keep it at home or in your locker to have on hand only for when you need it
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Now everyone is dating really young and having boyfriends when their 13. i'm 13 and have had a couple of boyfriends but guys are just plain jerks sometimes at that age. most girls are crazy about dating young but older girls that have waited say that it is worth it to wait to date until your older. does anyone have any opinions on the topic?
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i think its true the sad thing to admit is girls tend to and usually are alot more mature then guys thats why you will see alot of girls when u get into high school dating older guys boys are jerks then there still boys not guys not men just boys and they will grow out of it eventually probably by 30 hopefully i think its best to wait until highschool to date unless you really like someone theres nothing wrong with middle school flings but thats what they are theyre flings hope i helped
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I'm 29 and I've been dating a 27 yo girl for about 8 months now and I thought things were going great. However, recently she planned her holiday season (thanksgiving and christmas) without even asking me what I was doing. Her rationale was that couples only plan things together when they are engaged or married. She tells me she loves me and doesn't understand why I was surprised that she made all her plans (which exclude me) without even talking to me about what she wanted to do. I have no intention of trying to change her plans. I just thought it was common courtesy to discuss it first and hopefully find a way to spend the holidays together. Your thoughts? (link)
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that does seem kinda weird but hate to burst your bubble but do you ever think that maybe when she goes home for the holidays theres someone else there? even just a friend maybe she doesnt want you to over react or something i dont know exactly but i do know that even teenagers who are only dating for a couple months plan there holidays together i think you are right that she should of discussed them but maybe she wasnt raised learning that courtesy from her parents you cant expect everyone to do the same things as you and act the same and think the same can you? hope i helped!
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Hello*
Well, here's my question...(this might sound like a dumb,slow,or whatever u wanna call it question.) But how can u figure out if your really in love with a person.(boy,in my case). I have this boyfriend and i think i'm falling in love with him (sorry if this sounds corny).He's so sweet.And i can't stop thinking about him.Please tell me.
Brenda*** (link)
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see ok in my case i was in denial that i was in love until i lost it and when you lose it you realise how much you need it if u cant stop thinking about him and you would do anything to make him happy or you would be devastated if yall ever broke up chances are that u do love him but take my word be careful falling in love its a great thing but dont mess things up with him love is an amazing powerful thing and sometimes we just have to be stronger than it but yes i do believe that you r inlove with him
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Ok i went to Wal-Mart last week and i bought a straightener. (Havent opened it yet) It cost like $30 and its a Conair Ceramic Ultra Slim Straightener 1 5/8" plates. DOes anybody have this?? Its a really bright shiny red and its slim. I just wanted to know if it works or if anybody thinks it will work or whatever. I have thin/thick NOT thin but not think hair if that helps... (link)
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just like me! lol ive got like 3 conairs not bc there bad or anything but presents and stuff they work pretty good for my hair anyways just dont try to straiten a bunch at one time do it in little bits so that it looks the best conair works pretty good for the cost of it it should be fine!
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i am just wondering why people put lemon juice in there hair. i am not bein mean but i just wanna know what it does
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its supposed to make ur hair lighter like blonde or something my mom used to do it when she was little sounds kinda silly to me tho personally
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Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either.. (link)
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ur bi if you like guys in girls that means ur bi nothing to be ashamed of alot of guys like bi girls dont try to hide who you are just go with it might turn out good 4 you who knows? good luck and hope i helped!
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Ok I am a girl and i have a Boyfriend and I really Love him and the sex we have is fun and enjoyable........but......like a week ago my best friend whho is a girl came over and we were watching t.v. and suddenly we started kissing and then we had lesbian sex but I really love my boy friend but i might feel something for my best friend to so am i a lesbian or am i stright should i go for the guy or girl? (link)
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u dont have to pick one you can be bi alot of guys think thats hott just do what you feel is right but if you love ur bf and you have feelings for a friend im certain you are so good luck with that!
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omg i like him a lot! i just wanna ask him out! okay well lets start from the beginning-this kid moved to town and i hung out with him cuz he lived across the st from my best friend..and we talked and laughed and joked and flirted and i told him i liked him but he said he was confused cuz he liked a girl from where he used to live but then he told me he would possibly go out with me in the future? do i believe that or is that something hes saying so he doesnt have to put me down and be mean and i jsut wanna ask him out but i dont want him to just be like no! what do i say to him to let him know that i like him a lot and i care for him and i wanna be his girlfriend!! (link)
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ok so my advice is wait until the schoolyear begins to do anything he probably doesnt feel comfortable there yet and once he realizes how much he likes hanging with you when you get back thats when i would ask he may be honest and not know what hes going to do guys are like that he might want to explore his options at a new school who knows sometimes guys really dont want to hurt people and are just trying to be nice but then you feel like a charity case trust me ive been there done that and cringe when i think about it just wait a while longer and see what happens he may need to know you better before he gets attached he needs to realize this other girl isnt there now and to get over it. hope i helped and i know this is confusing but just hang in there!
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can somebody please help me with ideas how to ask a girl out. (link)
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lol ok i had to ask a friend of mine about this for you and hes acting goofy but get to know her really well and just be honest tell her you like hanging out with her and that you were hoping to hang out soon with just her be a sweet guy just say it like it is tell her that you think shes beautiful but if you dont think shed go for the mushy stuff just tell her that you want to get to know her better on a more personal level shell respect that you want to know her before you try to get in her pants and just plan something origional for a date. hope i helped!
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ok well this is the same person as the one when i wrote about my friend telling me my boyfriend doesnt like me anymore cuz he otl dher and its tru and i dont kno if i should dump him or wait for him and that might take a while cause my friend wasnt suppose ot say anything and id ont wanna get her introuble. please help and dont tell me to just talk to him cause hes nto the kinda person i can. hes a jerk and i should of never went out with him in the first place (link)
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break up with him tell him thats why because hes a jerk and you regret ever dating him hell be pissed but so what if he doesnt like you and hes a jerk you shouldnt feel bad about it let him go get over it and find a new guy with more respect for you and with more of a heart. hope i helped!
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This may sound disgusting, but my pee is hardly yellow at all and its really freaking me out. Please!!! help!! (link)
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thats a good thing you dont want it to be dark it means ur not drinking enough water so dont be freaked! hope i helped!
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What are some things to talk about with friends and stuff. I always have trouble starting conversation over AIM, and I really need help. Thanks (link)
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just say something random thats what i do ask a question make a random comment it will usually start a convo just be like im bored or watcha doin or if you share a class say something about an assignment or people ask them what there plans are for the weekend if you like someone or are confused about something or have a boyfriend/girlfriend talk about them its not hard once you think of something. hope i helped!
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i think im under weight by a lot. Im 4"7 1/2 and im only 67 pounds!! Is this under weight? What it normal weight for me?
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i dont think its that bad my friend is 4'11 and weighs 98 if your really worried though go see a doctor its normal for people who are shorter to weigh alot less hope i helped!
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I'm 15/f. Last year I really liked this guy, but we rarely talked and stuff. In like April I stopped liking him. Well, now I think like him again. It's summer now and I haven't seen him since the end of May. I'm going to see him again in a few weeks. I want to be able to talk with him, but I don't want to freak him out or anything. What should I do? (link)
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ok well say hey or whats up when ever you see him thats a good first start second try to make your paths cross be around him as much as you can but make it look like it was an accident when ever you see him just keep being polite if you have a class together or you know hes into something like a sport or a club and ask him questions about it with time it will get easier to talk to him. hope i helped!
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My boyfriends gone away to camp for 2 weeks. He just left n its been really hard on me. Ive been really sad without him here. I must have cried atleast 3 times today. What should I do. My friends are all workin so its kinda hard to go out with them (link)
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read books whenever im not able to hang out with my friends for some reason i surround my self with books one after another it passes time quickly because it can take a couple days to get through a long one send him emails too if yall have accounts it will feel like hes sorta there if your speaking through an email and keep positive dont be sad bc theres 10 days left be happy bc 4 have gone by just keep yourself busy and it will be a whole lot easier. hope i helped!
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14/f
Is this just life?
Like almost all my friends has a boyfriend and i have not even had a good relationship with a guy. i feel like im not too good enough for other people. Is there going to be someone there? Is there any way i could do to make someone like me? Please Help!!! (link)
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u cant make anyone like you but if you really want a boyfriend then dont be shy! guys dont like shy girls be open and honest and do some innocent flirting nothing too touchy feely bc that can be creepy sometimes find a guy your interested in and that your comfortable being around ask to see his cell go to his contacts and add your cell or house # to it then give it back and be like" you may need this" when he sees your # hell totally get it and there ya go! just be yourself and spontaneous! hope i helped!
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Does anyone know where I can find some good writing classes? (link)
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they usually offer them over the summer at local college campuses but they can cost alot of $$$ try to get into journalism and usually they can offer you some writing classes. hope i helped!
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I'm in 11th grade now... well i'm going into 11th... and me and my friend have been friends since 4th... we are two completly diff people but that's what makes us good friends... she is more wild and i'm more not... she will do things without thinking and I think things through... last week she told me she liked this guy... every week it seems as though she likes someone diff... she had a 3 some with him and his friend... the two guys is her exes good friends... and the guy she doesn't like is one of her best friends ex and her other friend slept with him before she had the 3 some... she has wanted me to hang out with them but i'm not that type of person... i'm waiting till i get married to loose my virginity and i have more respect in myself than that no affense to her... i love her but i don't know what to do...she has told me if i hang out with them nothing like that will happen... but everytime she tells me a story about when they hangout something sexual like that always happens... we havent talk in almost 5 days... maybe more, maybe less... i don't know what to sday to her... she has had sex before with her ex and after she did it all changed... she kisses guys without really thinking... to her hooking up witjh a guy is no biggy... to me you should know the person and have semi feelings...
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something sexual may always happen but you dont have to be apart of it my friend is more out there than i am whenever her boyfriend and his friend and are other friend hayley are over i just kinda sit to the side and guard the door so her mom cant get in just tell her that you dont like spending time with all these guys that you just wanna hang just girls or just a couple of friends that are more down to earth she should understand its not that hard to say no or just stand aside and let it happen ur not the cause of it or the reason so if she wants to be wild and frivelous let her do it but still try to spend some time with her like at the mall and just hang out for a while im sure try to hang out with them but if something does happen you can always leave or yall could go to someplace public where you know that nothing will happen. hope i helped!
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