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ok, heres the deal, ive been 18 for a month or 2, and heres the deal, im kinda sexually advanced, except ive never actually gone all the way. and ive always been proud of this...untill now, and its freaking driving me nuts, like i all of a sudden have to have it. and this is unbelievably unlike me cuz ive always been the upright goody goody that everyone can always depend on. so for the love of god, somebody give me some advice!!!!!! plz ladies, i need some advice

lol i kno i kno just find the right person yer willing ot lose it to then there ya go! lol good luck and have fun!

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I lost my virginity in Feb after my 15 birthday. Since then my boyfriend and I have had sex atleast twice a week. He pulls out so we have never completely finished, and we have never had a pregnancy scare. Recently our sex has felt diffrent though. Like it has lost the unique, wild touch it once had. Could I be bored with sex? I get the same pleasure, but instead of feeling fulfilled afterwards I just feel-there. Can someone explain this to me? I'm so confused...

lol u prolly just do it too much and yew are gettin bored with it...try new thingz! good luck!

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gah just got my period and im supposed to be seeing my guy this weekend what can i do to make it go away faster?

lmao u cant make it go away ....
it depends on yer body type for when it stops...if its heavy now you will probably have it this weekend but if its starting to lighten up it should be gone! good luck!

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This question is for the guys..
Hows the best way for a girl to break up with you? i know all the normal cliches, we should still be friends, im not ready for commitment, blah blah blah... but what will guys take the best?

coming from a girl whos dumped alotta guys...lol j/p
but just tell him online or the fone that way he can react to himself...and u dont feel too bad and tell him the truth y u r dumping him!
kay good luck!

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ok i know its confusing but here it goes.3 of my friends and i were at my friend's house and we were all talking and we had a really deep heart to heart. See I started having an eating disorder last year and recovered but have now started up again but am getting help. It turns out all my other friends have gotten over e.d's too except one who recently started. Another thing that we've all done is cut. Thats my other prob, i still cut. But now im really scared about whats gunna happen to me. Does neone no ne good websites where ppl can help u, like professionals? thanks so much, also have u ever gon thru ne of this stuff?

well ive went thru pretty much all of that at one point in my life....people and things can make u do stupid things...but of course DONT DO IT never works...heres some websights u can go to! hope i helped sweetie and good luck!

http://cuttersclub.diaryland.com/041017_54.html

http://www.mirror-mirror.org/eatdis.htm

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ok im a 15 year old dude and my gf goes to a dif skool and it really sux i know most of u think thats gay but itz all good.. but i don't get to see her a whole lot i don't get my car for three months. do u know how i can strengthen my relationship for these next three months b4 i can see her a whole lot more?

talk to her on the fone everyday....maybe once every 2 weeks u can meet somewhere....talk to her as much as u can!! good luck!

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where did u get ur background?

i dont remember SoRrY ive had it for a LONGGG time lol sorry hun

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ok christmas is coming up, and i wanna get all my christmas shopping done. ok, the thing is im broke. i borrowed 50 dollars from my sis, and i need to buy holiday gifts. what should i get for my parents, mom & dad, 2 sis's ages 10 & 12, and my best friend, she's 15 and i also have like 7 god guy friends, nothing too close, but their goodold buds. any idea what i could get them? thanks, ill give you a 5 for trying. thanks in advance!

p.s. i rate for effort! ;)

WeLL....for you mom how about some house objects (ex: candles/towels )
for you dad how about tools.. maybe a watch
for your sisters makeup/ fuzzy lamps/ picture frames with a pic of u guys in them / clothes.
for your best friend basically the same thing!
for ur guy friends try cologne / watches

good luck hun

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I lost my cuzin and i tell my friends itz ok i hav to get over it i really don't get over cuz i rele miss her and i love her. Shuld i keep tellin my friends this?
Signed
Lost Cuzin

aww its ok its NEVER easy to get over someone....but just tell your friends that your glad they care but its ok even though your not over it...they should understand! good luck hun

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ok i need help. my friend, lets same her name is ash, well she's an AMAZING singer. she's 15 and she can sing really reaaly good. she's in a bunch of choirs, and she's been acting in plays for over 7 years. she has a band, and i want her to get discovered. she plays at everything imaginable, she's almost always available. well how do i help to get her noticed?

thanks in advance! =)))))))`~)~

sometimes theres websites u can go to to get auditions.... and if she does like talent shows or goes to an open mic night there are alot of agents that goes there to discover people! good luck!

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ok, so i dont think im ugly, but i know im definitely not gorgeous, and when i get compliments on my body or anything else from guys, i don't know how to respond. I've had self-esteem issues and when i hear these compliments, im glad someone thinks of me that way, but i dont wanna sound like "OMG! Im hot shit.." How do i respond to these compliments without sounding like im hot shit or end up rejecting them?

lol u can just laugh or be like thanks or riiight lol! good luck sweetie if your complimented then u must be pretty!!

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Ok its CREEPY thers this guy that i hung out with ONCE at a party who goes to a totally different school then me. he ends up calling me (even though i never gave him my number??) and we talk alittle but i really dont like him. then he calls me right before i left yesterday (ON MY HOUSE PHONE?!?) and i told him i couldnt talk and he said "why not" and i said "im about to go to the movies with my friends" and then i went there and guess who was there! yupp that guy!! and he decided to see the same movie at the same time! weird huh! how do i get rid of him??

well STALKER....find out how hes gettin all this information and stuff....because somethin like this can lead to something serious!! if he keeps doing it notify the police to keep a watch on him! good luck otherwise just tell him to leave u alone lol

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ok im a pretty organized guy but i've been havin a really hard time tryin to keep up with my classes and work this year and itz drivin me crazy cuz i can't get the grades i used to be able to and i hate it. ne one help?? plz????

i was exactly like that....well my mom started noticing and she took me to the doctor to see wut he said about it....well it turned out i have something like adhd and they put me on medicine and now im fine! so maybe you should talk to your mom about it! good luck!

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There is this guy that I'm really interested in and I think he's into me too. we have only one class together at school and we never hang out when we aren't at school and he doesnt have my s/n email or number...should I give it to him? or should i wait til he asks for it (he is kinda shy)

is he the guy for me?

please help !

just ask him if he ever wants to hang out or talk he can i.m u and give him yer s/n or call u then give him yer number! good luck!

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ok, i got a call from my bf asking if his ex girlfriend had called me. i said no y? and he said that him, his friend, and her got into a fight and that she said she was going to tell me everything. and i said, what do u mean shell tell me everything? and he said i dont know what shes talking about. she wouldnt tell me. n hes like, so if she says somethin to u tonight, just remember that shes insane. so i get home, and theres a message from her. but all it said was happy thanksgiving and a smily. so now, i dont kno whats going on. or what to do. ahhh!! help please.

normally if a guy seys that he might ov cheated on u wit her..or sumthyn else.....but maybe she did get ina fight with him and she wants to break u guys up so he was just warnin u not to believe her?? just see if she seys n e thing else! hope i helped

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k..my friend is out of town right now and i like her boyfriend..the other day we madeout in his truck when he drove me home..and we've been hanging out a lot since she left for thanksgiving..i feel really guilty but i just cant get him off of my mind..i like him way too much..and i dunno what to do!..i swear im gunna end up going crazy..what should i do??

well if u were a good friend no matter how much u liked him u wouldnt do that....thats not right and if i was her i wuld dump him and stop talkin to u!! u should seriously tell her wut u did...

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Does anyone know any downloading things that you can download music on, I've downloaded everything and I always get mp3's and i hate em. I want something that doesn't download mp3's.

limewire.com
kazaa.com

hope i helped

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okay..theres this kid i like ALOT we talk sumtimes n stuff but were not that great of friends...n well i heard from my friend (who by the way is like his bestfriend) that he likes me..so she thinks....n well i dont think its tru cuz we dont talk that much..sept in english cuz i sit rite next to him! lol. but i was thinking...should i tell him that i like him n stuff since he mite like me? i dont wanna do it and then find out that he doesnt ya kno? ugh love is so confusing

lol i kno i kno! just flirt with him and ask him if he wants to hang out...most of the time guys will make a move on u if they rele like u!! good luck hun!

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ok well.. i've been off and on with this boy, ryan, for over a year now. but now he's going out with this girl,emma, and he says he loves her and stuff and it makes me sad. but like he's also like my best friend and he talks to me about everything.. including her. i like help him with all his problems (him and emma have problems sometimes) but like it hurts me to help because i still am in love with him.. i've told him that but i dunno he keeps talking about her.. i don't get mad at him or anything.. but it makes me want to cry.. what should i do? i'm so confused!

hmm i no exactly wut u mean!!!...the only thing u rele can do is talk to him about it...tell him u rele love him and he hurts u alot wen he talks to u about HER...tell him he can always talk to u about anything just not about her...good luck!

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i have this bed head stuff i used to scrunch my hair, it always seems to get frizzy when i put hairspray in it, but i have to otherwise it won't hold.. what can i do to it that'll make it less frizzy??

put regular scrunching gel in it first!! good luck!

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