My name is Nikita. 19 years of age. i answer all questions. However i answer truthfully so don't take it personal if i say something rude. I've been on this website for 6+ years. I live in Texas. And right now i go to hcc. I love hanging out with my friends, facebooking, pigging out, and going on walks. If you have a question please inbox me :D thanks bye!
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when a guy says he loves u does he mean it? (link)
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it depends on the guy. yeah i dated this boy he was really cool. and i fell in love with him. and i felt really happy. and we told each other i love you alot. but then we broke up and i feel like an ass for breaking up with him because to this day i still lov e him unconditionally.
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Ok this is kind of long so sorry. well i have this cousin lets call him frank. frank and i are reallllly close we tell each other everything and we have sooo many memories but after he turned 15 he wasn't fun to hang out with anymore and he started calling me names and just being mean to me. and so i finally just decided to stop talking to him. im 14/f btw. i mean he wished that when i went to florida my plane crashed! ridiculus right???? well the thing is we used to talk on the phone for like 3 hours everyday and we were like each others diaries and he keeps sending me emails guilting me so i will forgive him but he makes me sad. should i forgive him? or should i just forgive him so i can talk to him? I havent talked to him in a week and a half and im a wreck! how do i get over him? i just need advice! and im on vacation with my family so i cant just hang out with friends. (link)
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yeah he's your cousin you should forgive him and tell him how you fell. tell him that you didn't like how he was being mean to you and that he should never do it again.
well i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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what do i do? i feel my friends are ditching me, and hanging out with each other! helpppp %% thanks (link)
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well you should talk to them and ask then why they're ditching you and you should prolly find some new friends! well i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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do you think its weird if your obsessed about your friend? im a girl and im straight but im obsessed about my friend shes really cool and stuff sometimes i treat her better than my all of my friends what do you think about this? (link)
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that kinda is wrong. you should treat your friends equal and respect all of them the same way.
nikita♥
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what do you think of sophomore year? i heard its harder than the freshman year whats the diffrence between freshman year and sophomore year? which one do you think it was better? (link)
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freshman year was god. but sophmore year was really hard. i had to work my butt off..
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okay i always sleep at 5 or 6 AM because its summer and wake up at 12PM-3PM around that time do you think this is bad? (link)
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pshh no i do that lol your a teenager & its summer so just live your life and have fun!
nikita♥
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I love the smell of Hollister clothes and id love to smell like that all the time. I saw one day the workers spraying a perfume on the clothes and i tryed their Maui perfume but thats not it. Anyone know what perfume they use to spray their clothes with that gets them to smell so good? (link)
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its hollister august i loove that perfume i use to have it but i ran out! well i hope i helped!!!
nikita♥
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is there another store like hot topic that i can look up online. anything is appreciated. i do rate and i rate well. (link)
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www.spencersonline.com
or try zumies
hope i helped =)
nikita♥
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Does anyone know if they sell the episodes for Degrassi on The N. Like if you can go to the store and buy the season.
Thanks so much! (link)
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you could try amazon,google or try itunes and you can but it off there for $1.99
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Hi everyone. I really need some help understanding my boyfriend.. This is ridiculously long so... but advice is soo greatly appreciated. Please.
All right, so my boyfriend & I have been together for almost five years (we're both 21, so we've been together since we were 16). We've been through so many different things; bad, good, everything. Last year we broke up because he felt like he wasn't ready to fully commit to me. After months of being, I guess people would call it, "friends with benefits" we still acted as if we still together anyway. We broke up because he wanted to experiece the partying thing & the whole nine. *rolls eyes* In February, he wanted me back. He said he didn't want to go backwards anymore by messing with other girls. He wanted to move forward & that meant by being with me again & rebuilding our relationship. Things have been great between us ever since. Our relationship felt incredibly real & I believed that this was the real deal, that we were finally on the same level now that he got all that stuff out of his system.
Tonight he texted me this: "I'm in miserable state of mind right now and its not because of u. Youre everything in a girl a guy would want. I'm in a state of depression right now. And its not fair for you."
He thought it'd be best if he was alone.. that he needs to figure things out in his life. It was out of nowhere. I know he has different shit going on in his life but I didn't know it was that serious. I mean yeah its serious but it never seemed to effect him this much before..... & I don't understand why he can't be with me. Maybe I sound selfish, I don't know. But I was depressed for 8 years & knowing how it feels, I would have thought that instead of pushing people away, that instead you'd want to keep the people you love close. & he says he loves me & still wants to be with me & that knows he's making a huge mistake. He says he wants to marry me & everything but he just can't be with me. I just can't seem to understand.
I didn't want to be selfish so I let him go. He's doing it for himself & I can't hate him for it. I told him to think on it but he seems sure that its best for him to be alone. I don't know how sure he can actually be since he said it just came out of nowhere right then & there. I don't think he's lying & I know there's no other girl or anything so its not a bullshit ass excuse just to leave me. I just think he needs more time to think about what he's doing with me.
Before we talked on the phone, in the text I said to him that I'm not going through another break up & then him realizing he made a mistake & then us getting back together again. I told him I'm not going through that shit again because it hurts & if its over then its over for good. But after talking on the phone & understanding that he's doing it for himself & not because he wants to go out & be a guy, I regret saying that. Because it would be wrong for me to walk away because its not like he's breaking up with me to be with someone else, you know. But he said to me that he doesn't want me to ever take him back because he doesn't want to keep doing this to me & because its not fair... & we won't talk or see each other ever again... He knows how much it hurts me. He's right, it does. But still... he's going through depression & I can't hold that against him.
I guess I'm writing this because I want to know what you guys think about this whole thing. Why would someone who is depressed want to break up with a person who loves & cares about them & wants to help them to get better? Is it even good for him to push me away when he knows he loves me & still wants to be with me? Is he being selfish or am I being selfish by still wanting to stand by him? & are we really over for good? He usually knows when he makes a mistake & comes back to me & when we say we won't speak or see each other again, he always ends up calling eventually. I just don't know about this time because its just so much more serious. What can I do? Should I just let him be?
Any & all advice or thoughts would be great. Sorry about the length. Thank you so much. (link)
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okay im 16/f and i've been depressed since like i don't know how long. and he's telling you that he can't be with you right now is because he's really hurt and he needs love. and he can't be with you is because he's hurt inside and doesn't want you to be hurt. im pretty sure you do love him alot. but what he needs is some counseling and a lot of love. so try and get him a counselor or something because that might help.
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^^^^ seriously.
first of all, i should say that i'm nervous about relationships. i'm nervous ENTERING relationships in the first place and they never seem to go well. i have a hard time talking to boys and i'm really reluctant to admit when i like someone.
a few months ago i met this kid who we'll call brian. brian was really into me and made it really obvious. he was also really sweet about it. he opened doors for me, told me that i was the cutest girl he'd ever seen, gave me hugs about once every two or three seconds, made sure he ALWAYS sat by me no matter where we were, etc. he tried to get me to respond for two or three solid months. seriously.
i wanted to so badly, i really did. it was just that i was nervous, and when he flirted with me it was usually in front of my friends. my friend is best friends with brian and introduced me to him in the first place, so i felt weird about even thinking about going into a relationship with him. all of that made me pretty standoffish, and i was basically sat there and giggled like a retard while he tried to get me to give him a hug or hold his hand.
eventually he told my friend that he really genuinely liked me and thought i was gorgeous and so on. hearing that made me really happy because i genuinely liked him too. but i just COULDN'T do anything about it. i felt so stupid when i wanted to hug him or tell him that i liked him but i just couldn't because we were never alone. we were always with his friends or my friends, and more than often both.
a while after that he told my friend, AND me, that he was giving up. his exact words were something like, "i'm gonna give up now." :[
now he's talking to another girl. they aren't even close to being serious. he sees her maybe twice a month. i still usually see him at least twice a week but lately i haven't been seeing him much at all.
how can i work up the courage to actually admit to him that i'm interested? how can i even get him alone long enough to tell him? i really don't want him to date this girl and leave me feeling like an idiot for not taking advantage of a good thing.
any advice would honestly be really appreciated. &thank you to anyone who actually read this. (link)
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well okay you shouldn't ignore him. but if he doesn't like that other girl only tell him that you like him ask first if he likes that other girl..
just pull him aside like somewhere where there isn't anyone around and tell him that you really like you. because if you don't then he'll never know if you like him. i mean he likes you right? so just tell him. and explain to him that you were scared to tell him infront everyone that you like him and that.
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when a guy is in a friend's with benefits relationship do they have absolutely no emotional attachment to the girl or do they normally like them a little. also what about girls? do most girls get a little emotionally attached in a friends with benefits relationship? i just broke up with my friend with benefits i guess you would call it and i told him it would be hard not being with him even if it was just for sex, and he said he thought it would be easy not being together because there were no emotions involved. i was shocked that he felt absolutely nothing...then i remembered he had a dick and was just another guy. so what do you guys think...is it normal to have some emotional attachment? (link)
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it depends on the guy. sometimes they're in a friend's with benefits relationship because they kinda like you or they're just doing it to get some action. but yeah i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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I need help on how to deal with being labelde as a whore because im still a virgin (link)
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your not a whore if your still a virgin
nikita♥
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I want to gain weight. I'll even take fat.. Any tips? No, I can't just pig out on junk food. It is unhealthy and it does not work because of my high metabolism. Is there certain foods to guarantee weight gain or some pills to take?
I don't really want muscle. I'm kinda bony. I'm 16. 5 feet and I weigh about 85 pounds. i never had an eating disorder. I really want to fill in my curves more. My hips are bony and blah. I really want to feel more confidence in myself.
I can't go see my doctor because she's booked for a while now. I really want to do something over the summer. Help please? (link)
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just eat alot of fruits. and drink 4 glasses of milk a day. oh and what i do i make smoothies for myself and put yogurt and fruits and mix it that will help. and just eat alot of food. your going to have to eat alot of junk food if you want to put on some weight. well good luck and i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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there is this guy that i like and he likes {liked} me..we have known eachother for about 3 years now. we have always had a little like, thing i guess. we would hang out and just mess around, and he really did like me he wasnt using me i know that. anyways he has had this on and off thing with this other girl, who i used to hate {not for that reason} but now were great friends. anyways last year we were very close and stuff, and i saw him a few weeks ago for the first time since last year, and they are together again. he still acts like he likes me (player it seems i know haha)and i cant help but like him. i noticed ive stopped talking to him as much since they were together again, and im sure hes noticed, but i dont want to make it obvious that i still like him. how do i still talk to him and act the same as i use to and just be comfortable around him? (link)
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hmm well maybe its just best that you forget about him since he has a g/f. ,move on and find another boy. i hope i helped. and don't be discouraged because they're planty of fish in the sea.
nikita♥
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So, there's this guy. We don't really know each other but we talk on AIM sometime and I even went to the movies with him once. But I don't know if he's really that into me. His friends say that he's really shy and he told my friend that he thought I was cool. I don't really wanna pursue someone that doesn't even like me. I'm always the one that IMs first. So, should I just move on? Or keep talking to him and pursue him further? Maybe I should make it more obvious that I like him, cause right now I'm playing it sort of cool? (link)
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yeah you should pursue him and talk to him get to know eachother because he just might start liking you
nikita♥
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hey guys or girls i would like to know how do u give a hand job? (link)
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wrap your hand around his dick and move up an down =)
nikita♥
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ok so i'm going to high school next year and i'm switching out of the school district and i have a myspace and you can add your school on there and so i wanted to add the school i'm going to on there so i can possibly meet some people that go there but i dont know how to start a conversation with anyone so any suggestions (link)
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well okay don't start talking to them on myspace. like when u start school talk to them in person becasue i've noticed people who don't know you won't talk toyou on myspace. so try like if you have neighbors your age talk to them and ask them what's the school like and just get to know them. well i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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this week all my friends are on vacation. seriously like every one its ridiculous.
WHAT CAN I DOOOOO
i dont have a pool theres a community one but im not going alone because thats weird and not fun anyway
?????? im going to be out of my MIND help me PLEASEEEEEE (link)
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okay well you could go shopping, listen to music, read books, watch tv, cook food, and maybe find a boy if you don't already have a guy.
lol i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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ok so when you go on the pill, how long does it take until you are actually protected? Like how long do you have to use it before you have sex?
k thanks. (link)
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it depends on what kind of pill your taking. so tell your doctor the pill that your using and ask him how long it takes until your protected. i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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