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There is the guy that I have 'talked' to twice. The first time he just blew me off and wouldn't return my calls. The second time we got into an arguement and we didn't talk for a week or so and by then he had already found another girl to like. However, this past weekend he has told me that he misses me and stuff, and we hungout the other night and he barely said 5 words to me. I don't understand why he wouldn't talk to me if he misses me and wants to talk more and stuff. Do you think if the opportunity came around I should give him another chance? This being the third one? I'm afraid of liking him again and then in the end being the one left upset and hurt. Boys are confusing.

I wouldn't go out with him again. Or if you really really want to, I'd sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel. Explain your afraid to go out wtih him because he might leave you upset and hurt. I'd also mention about how he blew you off and doesn't seam to make you feel "special", he just another girl. It appears that's how he's acting. I could be totally wrong! I wouldn't suggest going out with him if he goes from girl to girl it shows he can't make a commitment. I think for your own good I wouldn't go out with him, but it's your choice. Good Luck!

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okay...is it at all possible to feel as if you are totally in love with someone and then for a little while not feel as strongly and then a few days later feel in love again??....yea weird...i know but idk...
~thanks!
-Rosemarie

Yup thats how I am, I'll think i'm totally inlove w/ someone and then the next day be like no I don't like them anymore. lol There's nothing you can really do about it, but yes its possible. Hope that answered yur question.

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a few days ago, i gave my girlfriend a hickie and her dad found out and isnt very happy. She then tells me that her parents might have us break up for good. We've liked each other since 6th grade, now seniors. What can i do to make things right with her dad so we can stay together?? Please help ASAP!!!!

I personally think it's normal, does he expect you guys not to kiss and stuff? Your seniors and have liked each other for a very long time. Maybe explain to him that you'll never give her a hicky again, and tell him you'd do anything for his daughter and you love her, like the person below me said. I would let him cool for a while though, and apologize when the time is right. If he does try to break you guys up then I'd go sit down and talk to him about how much you love his daughter because I'm assuming you do. Sorry, and Good Luck!!

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I recently sent some pictures to a male friend of mine. They were of me dressed up as a bridesmaid at my cousins wedding. Well I looked REALLY nice- normally I'm just a casual person. I had my hair done; makeup on; and a beautiful strapless empire gown on. I also had been dieting before the wedding and was slim and trim. Well I just got an email from him. He said that I looked awsome and that he could barely recognize me all dressed up; then he thanked me for the pics and said they were GREAT! My question is do you think he's attracted to me by what he said?

No one can really say, he seamed pleased with your appearance, yes, but he could of just been trying to be a friend. I'd just ask him, but if you don't have feelings for him then I wouldn't suggest it because it could cause not needed trouble. I'd take what he said as a compliment though! Good Luck! {sorry I can't help more!}

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I feel REALLY bad about something that happened today. Well I was in a horrible mood this morning because of what happened at work the other day- things got so bad I almost quit. Also I got no sleep because I ran out of my medication last night that I'm supposed to take before I go to bed. Well my friend walked over to my appartment this morning (uninvited). I was still in a really bad mood and was being really bitchy- not to her just moody. I apologized to her and then treated her to lunch at Mcdonalds. I told her why I was upset and that I was thinking of looking for a new job. I still feel really bad- when she first walked in to my appartment building she said "good morning"- I said "it's not a good morning". I apologized twice- but she sort of just invited herself over which upset me a little she should have phoned first. Should I still apologize for being bitchy or just drop it?

I'd drop it. It was kinda rude just coming in like she did. I'd talk to her about it because it seamed like you didn't care for it too much. If she's a reasonable person she'll understand you need your space and that you just had a bad day. Everyone has had a bad day and a friend that they go to and maybe not treat the best. I'm sure your friend understands that and you apologized and explained why you were a little bitchy, so don't worry about it. Hope things get better!

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i am a 9th grader and at my school we got a pool.today we had to do a 3 by 3 which means swim three laps in the pool and three on the feild and then three in the pool again in less then 15 minutes. this week i havent been feeling to good. my period started of saturday so my stomach has been hurting, and my head. so today for some reason i was having trouble swimming because i was having a hard time breathing. i put in as much effort as i could to do my best becasue this was going to count as a grade. anyways the girls got a 2 minute head start and running isnt my thing and so when i ffinished tgree laps i was almost the last person in. my teacher decided to LOCK the gate that goes from the field to the pool. he told me that i had to go around which meant me in soakin wet clothes walk around the boys locker room and the wait room. so all that work i did was for nothin he is going to make me do it again.. i think that was messed up that he did that and he has no right. am i right? me and my mom r goin to have a talk to the VP about it tomorrow. but i was wondering if that is against the law that he just left us out there. he said i walked the whole thing which wasnt even true i ran as much as i could and when i got tired i stopped i even have other students see me running. and he said somethin that was not called for which was his 97 year old grandma could run faster then me. is the teacher allowed to not watch there students and leave them like that?

I don't know if it's illegal but he can get into trouble for treating you like that and making rude comments. Don't worry what he said. Sorry I can't help more. Good Luck!

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i have to take a poll for school. just answer honestly and NO personal info will be given out. okay are you guys either a. a republican or b. a democrat? if you answer one of those 2 you automatically get a 5. yay

I'm a democrat.

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Okay, to make a long story short, me and my friend got into a fight with our other friend because we confronted her about blowing us off and shit because she got a new boyfriend. The whole thing was blown way out of proportion. Anyway, she forgave my friend, but not me, because I was meaner (apparently). The girl told me, "Your basically dead to me." She also told me she could never forgive me and that she didn't care what I said or did. This girl was one of my best friends. It's really hard to loose a friend, and never even get a second chance. How do I get over it? (It's definately going to be hard because we have the same group of friends.)

Just think to yourself, would you really want a freind like that? One that blows you off and when you confront her she makes it seam like you guys are the jerks? She seams like a selfish friend, not worth it. Maybe, try hanging out with new people and act like your totally fine don't let her get to you. Good Luck and Sorry!!

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ok my ex im going to go see a movie with him on friday and he said he is going to hold my hand i say ok thats all rite and mind you i have a bf. and then in had a dream that i was going to kiss him and someone found out and told my bf and he was so upset i broke up with him before and he looked like he was going to die and i didnt like that so i invited a freind to come along so it doest look weird and she might not be able to come if she doesnt should i still go? or should i not go at all? i mean i love my bf but then im falling back in love with my ex so if i kiss him & find out i dont and love my BF does it make it ok to do? or should i even go through with this at all? idk but if i feel to do this at all i ocbiously dont have much feelings for my bf imean i say i love him but i dont feel that tingly feeilng when i see him hes just there kinda feeiling! what should i do plz help me!?

I'd go with your ex to the movie to test if you truly to love your current boyfriend or your ex. Also, to see who you have more fun with and feel better around, this is all about you not them. lol I hope I helped and sorry I can't give more. Good Luck and have fun!

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13/m ok well my gf was at this party and she was cold and went to sit next to this guy who she has known since she was born (btw i wasnt at party with her) anyways she was cold and he said come sit next to me ill warm you up and so she did and she went over sat next to him and he asked do u wanna kiss and she said ok not thinking and they madeout....and me and her only madeout 1 time and she makeout with him 5 times in a row like stopped and did it again 5 times then they stopped then he grabbed her hand and like made her give him a handjob....well....she felt REALLY bad after it remembering me and everything and she told me and told me she was REALLY sry and she thinks shes a whore and i should break up with her but i love her to much and i made her swear never to do it again as long as we were going out and she agreed and so now i dont know what to do!!!
should i break up with the love of my life cause she made a HUGE mistake?
but she told me instead of keeping it a secrete and i donno!!!
HELP PLEASE!!!!

I know you love her, but that is bullshit, she should of pulled back from the first kiss. She doesn't seam to feel as strongly for you as you do for her. I would move on, save yourself from a heartache. I am extremely sorry buddy!

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has it ever happend to you that in four and a half years two of your exboyfriends are so shy and your current one is as well?? wel thats what is happening to me at the momment. look, my boyfriend is really cute and sproty and is the mosy populer boy in the class and he is sooooo shy. he hasnt even kissed me or atleast hold my hand. all he says to me is 'no you did that question wrong'or'im sorry'or'you s**ty head'. the only thing that melts me down is 'i miss you'or 'i love you'
i really dont want to dump him so what should i do

I'd talk to him and tell him you want to do stuff, [like kissing and holding hands] and you don't like when he calls you names. Really, all you can do if you don't want to dump him is talk to him. Sorry and Good Luck!

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ok so i have this boyfriend. He's awsome and we have been dating for about 6 months.a few nights ago he called me and told me that he was going to be gone for a week. Well he was gone for 6 days and when he got back we were having sex. I noticed a bruise on his stomache. At first i ddin't care but then i got closer and it turned out to be a hickey. i didn't say anything at the time though. THe next day we went to the movies but in the middle of the movies he got a call. When he came back he told me it was a call from his brother. I checked his phone after the movies and it was to a girl named mindy. Two days later i called his house and a girl in the background was screaming his name like in a sexual way! is he cheatin on me??? wat should i do? should i bust him or just ask him about it?

I would fricken bust him! If you ask him he's probably going to deny it, he's a waste of your time if he's cheating on you I'd move on. I'm sorry and good luck.

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Do guys like it better if you wear lipgloss when you kiss/makeout with them? I"ll rate i promise!!

Well one of mine liked the taste haha so depends the guy

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What do you have to weigh for 5'2 or look like to look good in a bikini? Rateeee

It depends yur body type sorry.

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ok, so if anyone watches Everwood, then this may sound familiar to you. If not, then i will give some overview. effram came to Amy's school and then they liked each other and then they didnt and then they didnt and then they didnt and o on so forth... now, he likes her but she doesnt like him. I have recently found a very familiar pattern with my life. Except this time, i liek him and he doesnt like me.
I dont know what to do. I will like him for a week or so, and then he will act funny or do soemthing out of character and iw illtalk to my friend about it and decide i dont like him anymore, and then a week later i will hang out with him and totally love him again. Its soo confusing, my friends are getting annoyed with my swingng approach to him, but i cant seem to help it. and i am feelin down that he doesnt liek me (at least for now)

so my question is
What should i do?

Well I wouldn't feel down, he'll probably like you soon. I had the same pattern w/ my ex but if you truly feel he moved on talk to him you need to commit to him before he actually does move on for good. I'd just talk to him. Don't worry. Good Luck!

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thers this guy i really lyk but my friends HATE him i dnt know why but they say tht i could do better but I LOVE HIM not anyother guy. i noe he lyks me bak but i dnt wanna be his girlfriend i just wanna be friends with benifets lyk we are but i hate the fact tht my friends cant stand him so how should i tell them tht its my life nd to stay out of it in a nice way ?
thnx !!

Well it is yur fault, your friends can't chose for you if you like him go out with him. It has absolutely nothing to do w/ them.

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well theres this guy i sorta like. but my friends really dont like him. and im embarrased to go out with him or what ever. i dunno what to do cus i cant stop likeing him!

If your friends really care about you, they'll accept him, and if they don't your friends are selfish and not worth your time. Good Luck!

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okay well me and this kid we'll call him bob. well we started talking about a month & a half ago. and we really hit it off. we hung out and started liking eachother like right away. he really liked me and i liked him but it like seemed to change. we went out and it started to seem like i was liking him more. and then we broke up after a week. and then the week after that we went out and then broke up again. so we stayed friends & we still acted like we were going out and kissed all the time and crap. so on friday i asked him who he liked and he said this girl named sarah. so on friday i was with him and he kissed me and i was okay with it but then i started to feel akward and hes like why do you keep pulling back and i wouldnt tell him and then i finally did but it came out totally wrong. i said that he was leading me but i didnt mean it like that, so now hes mad at me and i tried to explain to him it was cause he liked that girl but then he goes i told her yesterday i didnt like her anymore and i did like you. so now i dont think he does anymore. and hes really not talking to me. & he like took my out of his top 8 on myspace and everything. so basically i just need to know what to say to him. please help me. im super sorry its really long. ill rate all 5's. thanks

Talk to him. Put it from his point of view. I mean do you honestly think he wouldn't think the same if he were in your shoes? I would of felt the same. I really don't think you have any reason to feel bad. He should of told you he didn't like her because for all you knew he was using you. Explain that, tell him you really like him and want to go out and your sorry there was a misunderstanding. Good Luck!

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A guy that I'm friends with and hoping will be my bf one day keeps giving me mixed signals. One day he'll be sweet and attentive and tell me things I want to hear; and the next he's mean and cold. For example; one day he told me that he wanted to be with me and hoped I wouldnt marry someone else. Then another day he sarcastically told me I needed a man in my life. He can also make some rude comments about women in general; like "women always need attentiong"; and that men are smarter than woman. One day I took him to play tennis and the whole time he critized me. Everyone tells me I can do better but I feel I really love him. Even with all his faults he's still really sweet sometimes- once he gave me his computer and desk and when it was my birthday and phoned me and sang happy birthday and mailed me a gift (he lives out of state). He'll also say Bye Beautiful everytime we sign off on msn messanger. What do you think I should do?

Is he aware you love him? He might think u dont and likes you and is afraid to get too close. So he probably makes rude comments to make you seam less appealing and to make you become mean to him so he thinks he has a reason not to want you. Or maybe he has no idea he's being rude, I'd suggest telling him you think you love him and it hurts you when he makes those comments. Good Luck!

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i heard that lemons can help make ur hair lighter...does that really work?
and if it does, what do u do with the lemons?

Yeah, you can buy lemon juice from any grocery store and add water like the person said below me but make sure not to do this all the time bc it can dry out your hair.

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