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an ex friend..
Okay, to make a long story short, me and my friend got into a fight with our other friend because we confronted her about blowing us off and shit because she got a new boyfriend. The whole thing was blown way out of proportion. Anyway, she forgave my friend, but not me, because I was meaner (apparently). The girl told me, "Your basically dead to me." She also told me she could never forgive me and that she didn't care what I said or did. This girl was one of my best friends. It's really hard to loose a friend, and never even get a second chance. How do I get over it? (It's definately going to be hard because we have the same group of friends.)
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i had a very similar situation except a little opposite..it will die down. eventually she will let down her guard and be done hating you. for now, just dont talk about her behind her back, or give her mean looks (not saying youwould) or anything that could potentially make it worse. just kind of play things cool. also, dont avoid her or eye contact, act like things are pretty much okay. eventualy, she will just get over it, things might not be the same as they were, but they should be better. also, she might just get over it! i dont knwo your friend so i dont know what she will do but all i can tell you is try to play it cool. also apoligize very sincerely, but dont over-do it or say it to much cus that will just annoy her.
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i know exactly what you are saying. shes blowing you off..and thats crap. friends come and go sometimes ..and yes it is sad. but you do your own thing..and she will do hers. there will be nights when shes having some of the girls over for a sleepover and you will be home..dont let it get to you..call a couple old friends up or someone who isnt hangin with her and do your own thing! live life to the fullest! you two just stay away from each other and do your own thing. best advice i can give..cuz i know what your sayin..and doing your own thing always works for me
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I know that's got to be hard. But you have to remember...maybe from her point of view you were being more mean than your other friend. And you also have to know...she's acting off of emotions right now. It's still hard for her too i'm sure. Give her time. If time doesnt heal it...then find other groups of friends to hang out with. Because if she cant learn to forgive, she's not a really good friend in the first place. I know it will be hard. But look at it as an oppurtunity to meet new people and become a part of other groups. Remember that when one door closes, another opens. It just might take a little longer than you want.
Good luck && hope it helped.
♥ Me
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Just think to yourself, would you really want a freind like that? One that blows you off and when you confront her she makes it seam like you guys are the jerks? She seams like a selfish friend, not worth it. Maybe, try hanging out with new people and act like your totally fine don't let her get to you. Good Luck and Sorry!!
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