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ok my ex im going to go see a movie with him on friday and he said he is going to hold my hand i say ok thats all rite and mind you i have a bf. and then in had a dream that i was going to kiss him and someone found out and told my bf and he was so upset i broke up with him before and he looked like he was going to die and i didnt like that so i invited a freind to come along so it doest look weird and she might not be able to come if she doesnt should i still go? or should i not go at all? i mean i love my bf but then im falling back in love with my ex so if i kiss him & find out i dont and love my BF does it make it ok to do? or should i even go through with this at all? idk but if i feel to do this at all i ocbiously dont have much feelings for my bf imean i say i love him but i dont feel that tingly feeilng when i see him hes just there kinda feeiling! what should i do plz help me!?
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You need to pick one. It is inapropriate for you to be going out to the movies and holding hands with another boy (not to mention having feelings for him) while you are dating someone else. Don't keep them both on the radar to see which one pans out bettr, that is just wrong. Pick one.
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I'd go with your ex to the movie to test if you truly to love your current boyfriend or your ex. Also, to see who you have more fun with and feel better around, this is all about you not them. lol I hope I helped and sorry I can't give more. Good Luck and have fun!
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hey! if i were you..i would go ahead and go to the movie. and if things go farther with your ex b/f, maybe that's telling you something. your not feeling that spark for your present boyfriend anymore. and you feel something again for your ex. i think that you should be true to yourself and others, and let things go the way your heart wants it to go. don't play your present b/f just because you dont want to hurt him. people have to get hurt sometimes to make themselves stronger, plus it would hurt him more if he found out while you were still together that you loved your ex and not him. xoxo helpachick
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Well you cant be in two relationships at once. You a need to sit down and think which one you love better. You need to tell the other one the truth. Don't keep your secret in for too long or it may become worse. Thanx for your question and i hope i helped . AbBeY
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First, you're not in love with your boyfriend. I think you say that because that's what he might want to hear and what you think is the right thing. Dreams don't come true and sometimes, they don't really mean anything so don't let it scare you. If your friend can't come along, eather invite another friend or just go. If you hold hands and such, it's fine and it's not cheating. To me, it seems like you really want to kiss your ex to see if you have feelings for him still. You shouldn't have to kiss someone to find out. You should just know. If you kiss him and then you don't feel anything, of course it's not fair to your boyfriend and it doesn't make it okay. You should just try to figure out what you want and then make your decision. Maybe if you were single you'd feel better. Just talk to your boyfriend and see if a break would be a good idea. Just go to the movies with your ex and if you "love" your boyfriend, don't do anything to hurt him.
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You should go just to have fun bvut don't DO ANYTHIGN WITH HIM, NOT EVEN HOLD HIS HAND!! Nothing! NADA! You don't want to hurt your b/f like that first of all,
-it gives you a bad rep
-it hurts your b/f
-your ex might be just jealous and want to play around with you
either way its not a good idea. Try asking one of your otehr firneds to go with you also. get more people to come along and reasure your boyfriends about youre lationship if you do deicde to go. If you want to play it safe you could wlays stay away. think about WHy you broke up with your ex. Is it worth breaing up with your current b/f? HWo is better? who makes you happier? Who are you more comfortable with? who GAEV you more butterflies (don't say your ex becuase uyour not sued to him obviosuly so you will ahve more 'flies with him) think about your old relatio ship. Who did u have more butterflies with? Who loved oyu? who cared about you? that is the guy you want to be with, hope i helped
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