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I'm 5'5" and 145 pounds, I want to lose 20 pounds but every time I try I cheat on my diet. I kept cheating and telling myself that Id just start my diet over the next day, but when the next day came I always ruined my diet. People around me are always eating junk and when I see it I have to have it and I over eat. If eat a small portion of something I crave then I will want it.
I've been on a diet for 3 days and I cheated, so I start over. How can I stop craving junk food? (link)
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I know exactly what you mean. One thing that helps me is to keep reminding myself of the motivation that I had that caused me to start the diet in the first place. I hope this helped and good luck :)
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today i realised my life was a lie, i told all my friends that i had this crazy hot brother with hot frieds and has parties all the time all becausse um a cheerleader at school im fake at home! what should i do? tell every1 or let it stay or even let it go until it just spills? (link)
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Unfortunately, you've gotten yourself into a bit of a problem here. The best thing to do is to go and tell everybody the truth. Sure, it might be embarrassing, but it would be way better than having to deal with a bunch of lies that will erupt from this one. You might think that this will be the only lie you tell. Then what's going to happen if someone asks to meet your crazy hot brother who has parties all the time? It will turn from one little white lie into a lie full of lies. Trust me, it would be sooo much harder to get out of the problems if you let it go on. I hope this helped and good luck with everything :)
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i met my boyfriend on a cruise and im 14 and i am soo in love with him but we live 2 in a half hours away from eachother we live in different states. i cant stand not being with him. his sister said hes cheated before. and people are saying he could be cheating on me. i try not believe it but i get scared. should i tell him? what do i do about it? (link)
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Long distance relationships are very hard especially at a young age. It can be very hard to tell what the other person in the relationship is doing. You have to consider the possibilities here. His sister and everybody else could be right about the cheating which is normal in relationships like this especially if he has cheated in the past. Or it could be a big misunderstanding/he's changed. Unfortunately, the second one is unlikely. Most cheaters never change. In this case that he is cheating on you, you need to break up with him no matter how much it hurts. You deserve better than a cheater and you're still young and plenty of time to worry about love. Anyways, talk to him about it first before you do anything. Tell him what everybody has been saying and try to gauge his reaction. If he seems genuinely upset that you accused him about it, then apologize, but if he seems nervous in any way, changes are that he is. In the end, go with your gut feeling; it's usually right. I hope this helped and good luck with everything :)
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Hey, this question is something that I get a lot and used to get quite frequently because my best friend is a guy. I just want to know what your feelings are on guy/girl friendships. Do you think they can just be friends forever? Will they eventually fall for one another? Will sexual tension get the best of them? I've heard them all, my friend and I have been best friends since third grade and are now seniors in high school and everyone, even outside our circle of friends thinks that some day, some how, we are gonna date because guy/girl friendships are impossible. I disagree, as does he. What do you think? (link)
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I agree with you and your friend. Not all boy girl friendships become a relationship. It depends on the people in the friendship. Usually when you are really good friends with a person, you get to know them better. As time goes on and the bond gets stronger and you accept their personalities, good and bad. They become more bearable to be around and qualities that might have kept you from turning it into something more become normal which is how lots of boy girl friendships become more. This is definitely not the truth all the time. In your case, it would be an exception. Don't let the other people bother y'all about it. I hope this helped :)
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Okay. So I'm drinking green tea, drinking lots of water, eating 1200 calories per day, doing interval training, and sometimes I eat food with sugar, like a piece of candy but not a lot. Will that affect my diet? Will I be able to lose weight? If I eat a piece of candy will it ruin my diet? [: (link)
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The keys words are once in a while. If you eat things in moderation, they aren't that bad for you. Just as long as you don't eat too much sugary foods too often, you should be fine with your diet :)
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Its this boy name Alberto, me and him became close over a couple months & over the summer of 2011 . He was the only i SORTA expressed to on how i felt or what was going on with my life besides my first love (link)
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I was in a similar situation once.
It felt best just to let him go. If you're frustrated and disappointed with him, then the best thing to do is to move on. It took me awhile to do the same because I always thought it was my fault for him acting that way.
Eventually I realized that the guy was a jerk and he really didn't care about me in the long run. I see the guy and his current gf now and I laugh because they deserve each other.
You deserve better than him. You don't need a guy who will ignore you one day and then just try to make up for it the next. Go find another guy friend who will treat you better. I hope this helped and good luck with everything :)
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I know for sure i have scoliosis, its really obvious and i just want to be normal like i used to be. im only 17 and my dad hasnt noticed and i dont know how to tell him "hey dad, i need to go to the doctor and possible have a very expensive surgery because i have scoliosis" -_- The curvature isn't too bad, but i can't wear normal t-shirts or anything because my right side of my back sticks out way further. Also my left rib, in the front sticks out a little and doesnt feel right like the other front one does, does that have something to do with the scoliosis? I don't have a regular doctor, so i don't know if that effects it. and my dad hasnt ever taken me to the doctor, so i haven't been since i was like 11.. I'm just scared. and i wish i could make it better without all the difficulties. we dont have the money for this and i dont have the emotional strength. (link)
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The best thing to do is to go see a doctor. They will be able to look for signs of scoliosis and diagnose you properly. Also, they might be able to help with financial support. The longer you go without getting it looked at the more opportunity it has to worsen. Talk to your dad. Explain to him what's going on. If he won't take you, then go see your school nurse. I know that my school nurse a few years ago was required to check all the students for signs of scoliosis. If anything unusual was noticed, it was required that the student was to go to the doctor to get it looked at. Financially, you could probably get help with that. In this case, the doctors know best and can help you the most that they can. I know you're scared. I felt the same way when I started to notice something weird with my back. The nurse referred me to a doctor who told me that I did have a little scoliosis, but also told me that I had nothing to worry about unless it worsened. I promise it will help to see a doctor. I hope this helped and good luck with everything :)
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So... im 13 and my boyfriend is 16, we've been dating for 1 year and were getting quite serious. i've gave him a hand job 20+ times and then recently i was out my face drunk at a party and i asked him if he wanted a blow job and he said yes... i told him i would do it when i was sober 'cause i wanted to remember it.. its my first time and i really want to but i am not too sure how too.. do i just tell him i don't exactly know what to do and ask him for help?... thanks for the advice.. and guys no nasty comments please:)?! (link)
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You're WAY too young to be doing that kind of stuff. Sorry if this isn't the answer that you want, but getting drunk and giving your bf a blow job (even if it is serious relationship) isn't something that 13 year old girls should be doing. Those are things that you will regret doing later in life. If your bf is pressuring you into doing this (which is a big problem when you date older guys at your age), then break up with him. Be smart and don't mess up the rest of your teen hood by doing something like that.
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Can you help me find a talent show because I have a dance and try to get a place to show their talent (link)
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Some schools have yearly talent shows. Also, some school theaters produce musicals where you could dance as well. Worse comes to worse, you could just post a video on youtube of yourself dancing. I hope this helped :)
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Ok so well this guy I have been crushing on asked me out!! Sure that was a surprise since it was at a fire drill... Haha and ok that happened thursday afternoon, and friday he was by my side almost all day ;). But then he asked for my number(ok dont ask why I didnt have it before)Then I gave him it, but noticed I had the wrong ending and I told him I messed up and gave him the new one(his friend knew and said oh look wrong number I see not a good sign)But once I get home I noticed I screwed up one the middle part too!!!!! Ugh and hes probably trying to reach me the whole weekend :(Well I cant tell him till monday and I feel horriable. He most likely is getting advice from his friend who says"dude she doesnt even like you,if she gave you a false number" SOOO HELP ME WHAT DO I DO and no none of my friends have his number
~~CRISIS ANGIE~~ (link)
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Is there any way you could email him or talk to him on facebook and give him the right number? If not, there's not much else you can do then wait and explain on Monday. I hope this helped and good luck with everything :)
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what shirt would go with a blue and black striped pencil skirt? (link)
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You could pair it with a white, light gray, cream, black, or a blue (the same shade as on the skirt) shirt. Basically neutral colors. The type of shirt will have to vary. Shirts will a ruffly top tucked in with a wide belt would look best.
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Hi this is destiny so anyway, a guy named drake asked me out today.i told him that i would think about it.drake is a nice guy.he's the class clown.one time, he said this: So if I went off to war and they let me get captured, I would immediatley annoy the enemy." It was soooo FUNNY!everybody was laughing their heads off! Anyway, should i go out with drake, become his girlfriend, get his email if he has any? Please answer i need to tell him by monday!
From Destiny
P.S. we are both 11 years old, im almost 12. (link)
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You should go out with him if you like him. If not, then just tell him no. It would be advisable to get his email or phone number if you do go with him. Just remember that you're still young and have many more chances for love if this doesn't work out. I hope this helped and good luck with everything :)
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So I like this guy, but there is a problem. My friend liked him. And he asked her out, but the next day told her "they are better off friends". They didnt even go out, and my friend was sad. Now she is over him and likes someone else. She randomly brought up that if he asked one of us out she wouldnt care. I think she was lying, because I would care if my friend dated one of my crushes/exes.
So I think my questions are:
Is it okay for me to like him?
Does this break the "Girl Code"?
P.S. She doesnt know I like him.
Thanks, Janiiee (14 years old) (link)
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This is one of those controversial topics. Some people say no, others say yes. My opinion on this is if the friend is over the guy and said she wouldn't mind if her friends dated her ex,then it's all fair game. I dated my friend's ex because she was over him, and told me that she didn't mind, it was my choice. What really pisses me off is when girls get mad at their friends for dating their exs when they have clearly moved on. It is selfish and immature. On the other hand, if the friend is still hung over her ex, I would try to avoid anything. In your case, I would say yes, it is okay to like him because she has moved on and said it was okay. But you should also talk to her before and tell her that you like him just in case. Depending on how flexible you think the "girl code" is, the answer to your second question will vary. I hope this helped and good luck :)
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Well my ex's best friend came up to me and said that he wanted me back... i just dont know if i still really like him. he gets a little phisical i mean most the time its pokes and grabing whitch i dont mind at all but then he will get a little carryed away, he will kind of shake me and the other day he lightly pushed me while i was walkin down the stairs i almost fell and he was saying he was sorry and he kept hugin me... so should i take him back???
please help!!! Thx!! :)
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If you are unsure if you still like him, I would move on. From what it sounds like, he is also a little rough with you and no girls needs a guy that's going to push her around. I hope this helped and good luck :)
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I'm 13 years old. My parents had been fighting for a long time ever since the beginning of 6th grade. Now I'm in the middle of 7th and they are almost through divorce my parents dot even live together anymore. I an always in bad moods. I am suicidal. And I just want somebody to tell me everything will be okay. So my question is, what can I do to stop being depressed over the divorce? (link)
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If you are suicidal, call the suicide prevention hotline at 1-800-273-TALK. Suicide is NOT the answer that will solve your problems. In fact, it will just make things worse for everybody else you love and care about. Watching your parents fight and go through divorce isn't easy, but you have to remember that things will get better. Try to remember those things in life that make you happy. It could even be little things like a favorite song or book that will cheer you up. Also, you should talk to your parents about seeking professional help for your depression. I hope this helped :)
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Hey guys so my friend and I really want to make a youtube channel where we talk about life, sex, beauty, makeup and all that beautiful girl stuff haha. But I just want to know what is necessary to make this work? Like we are so serious about this and we just want as many people to subscribe and actually watch our videos as possible. We are going to combine our ideas to help people out with questions they have about acne,clothes, hair, makeup, sex. Or whatever it is. What inspired us to make this channel was becuase at school we are in a club that helps girls out with those kinds of things. And we really enjoy it. So we just wanted to a bigger audience. :) so my question is what are some things you think we can add on our channel? Tutorials? Talk about? We have some ideas but just want others. Also what do you think we need to do to make this work? Like any background information? Things we should think about or do. I guess any idea about anything is welcomed! Becuase honestly I don't even know how to work my camera! Haha...kidding ! But anyway,Thankyou so much!
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Tutorial videos are good to start with. It can be basic things like tips for healthier hair or how to do a certain make up style, etc. Try to research these things before you talk about it. I can't remember how many tutorials that I've seen where the person thought they knew about it, but they had the wrong information. Try to refrain from telling people to do something or not do something and then tell them that you do the exact opposite (sorry that's kind of confusing, just try not to contradict yourself) because it causes doubt in the viewers. Other than that, all you can do is just make a good video and don't get discouraged if you ever get mean comments. Most of the time, the comments are made by people who are jealous or who are just plain stupid. So just ignore them. Anyways, I hoped this helped and good luck with everything! :)
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This guy and I have been friends for about three years. He means the world to me. He's seventeen, a senior. I'm sixteen - girl, junior. Long story short, we've been through so muh together. He is my best friend. And sometimes, yes, I think I have feelings for him. But we've never ever talked about the possibility of us being together. Not seriously at least. He says I'm like a sister to him, but he would gladly fuck me anytime. haha. I really do care about him though. He just recently broke up with a girl he'd been dating for seven months. He called me right before and I went to go see him right after because he was pretty upset. I never liked him dating this girl but I pretended to be happy for him because I knew he really liked her. I was nice to her because I knew how much it would hurt him if I told him I hated her. He would have broken up with her. We are sooooo flirty with each other and he constantly hits on me and asks if we can be fuck buddies. Even when he was dating her, he'd bring up this inside joke about me owing him a blow job, and how when he's single I better pay up. Sometimes I really think he means it. And sometimes the idea is tempting. Of just letting myself hook up with him. My feelings for him are sooo confusing but we have never been able to deny that we both are extremely physically attracted to each other. We're very touchy with each other. Hugging, cuddling, wrestling, sitting in his lap, holding his hand. Bit we've never kissed. Im almost positive he's never had any doubt about how hes felt about me. He tells me he loves me and he couldn't live without me. I know everything about him. We text everyday, hang out every weekend,but he's made it clear he doesn't see me as someone he could ever be in a relationship with. Somehow, in my gut, I know were perfect for each other. I know well be together one day. But right now I don't know how much longer I can fight off this INCREDIBLE lust I have for him. It's just too many emotions, too many feelings, and I don know what to do or how to handle any of it. Please help me. (link)
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I was in a similar situation a few months ago. One day, he just stopped talking to me. I found out just recently that he started dating my best friend then...So basically based of personal experience, if he shows that you two could never be in a relationship, you should try to avoid getting too close. Because from it sounds like, he seems to be leading you on. And all it'll serve to do in the end is hurt you. So keep him as a friend if you feel like you can, but I would avoid all the flirting because it could make you more vulnerable to getting hurt by him. Good luck with everything :)
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How can i get my boyfriend to give me more attention when hes around his friends? He like different when hes with them. He doesnt want to hold my hand and he never shows me any love or affection. Im not tryin to look like an attention whore or anything and i know your supposed to give guys there time with there friends but idk if im being to flexable or not. (link)
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I know what you mean. My first bf did the same thing to me. He might be nervous to be more affectionate in public because he might be afraid his friends will tease him. Just talk to him about it the next time you're alone. I hope everything works out :)
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im friends with a girl a couple months older than me. she is over obsessed with me. buys me anything i mention i like, even if i tell her no several times. she offers to drive me anyway and tries to get involved in my relationships. even flirts with my bfs... shes tried to turn me and twin sis against each other and backstabs me but puts me on a throne too. idk how to confront her. she is very fragile. also im in another country atm...return in 18 days. shes nice, but i dont want friends i cant trust.help? (link)
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You have a few options. You could sit down and talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and get her side of the story. Or you could try to find another friend and just stop all contact and hanging out with this other girl. If she doesn't treat you well like friends should, then don't waste time letting somebody treat you badly. I hope this helped and good luck :)
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So it is freshman year of high school and i go to a private all-girl school. I became friends with a group of girls which was originally a group of 9 including me now. Then two of the people in this group are no longer our friends because we don't agree with their values and do not enjoy their company. But then, two others are fading away a little bit to get away from the drama our group has. Now we are a group of 5. Now, in our group there is drama CONSTANTLY. One of the girls, Nicole, gets angry whenever someone doesn't put her first. For example, if you have plans with someone else and she wants to hangout too. Or, if you sit somewhere else at lunch and not by her. Or if she can't go to something and so you invite someone else she gets upset and made at you. WE ARE 15! I feel this is immature. She calls herself mean, likes boys for their money, likes to be called a bitch, is manipulative, and she yearns to find a way to intimidate other people she meets. She has admitted that she lacks confidence, especially with her personality. Also, Nicole snaps at all of us constantly, making the others upset and me angry. She makes her friends cry and is the center of all drama going on. Now, it is a new semester but not much has changed, especially in such a small school. Other groups of girls have said that our group is FULL of drama. It is true. To be honest, i am very tired of this. Even other people notice how bad it is. On another note, earlier in the school year i drifted away from one girl i was good friends with during the summer. We each went our own way. Nicole tries to use this against me, as if i "dumped" her and she tries to manipulate my actions by saying that I am going to dump her by the end of freshman year. She says this to me when i don't sit with her at lunch or things like that to get me to feel bad. There have been many times when i have greatly considered moving on to making new friends and going into another friendship group instead of this one because the drama and stress this group causes me is unhealthy and annoying. I find myself angry, annoyed, and irritable much more now that they have become my main social group. So, it has become time that I do something about it. Me and one other girl in the group, Marie, want to move away. We both agree that this is bad and do not see ourselves being friends with these people for much longer, let alone ever again. We have been talking and really want to move on. We both have sat at other tables before (there are mainly about 8 tables) and its not that big of a deal. But this time, we both really want to settle in to a whole new group. I am scared, stressed, and unsure of my true place in this school. I know that it is freshman year and its soon to decide where i belong forever but I feel like I need a new group/new people to go to if i am breaking away from the one i have. I am scared about settling in and pushing my way into an already set group of girls. It also stresses me out that I have to evaluate where i am going to sit/be by during the classes I have with my group of friends because I usually sit with them. Also, we have block scheduling, which means each class is 1 hour and 30 minutes. One of my "classes" is a free period that i happen to share with two of the girls in our group of five. I ALWAYS sit with them and if i start to break away and they notice and get angry, where do i go? I am worried that i am going to spend time alone if i don't have another group to hang out with at other times! I know that Nicole will get mad, and even the other two girls, beside Marie and I who will be branching out, will probably become annoyed too. Even though Nicole treats them very badly, they do not have the strength to stand up to her or move away like Marie and I are doing. I just want to know if you have any advice on ways to handle this situation with the least amount of conflict and worry. My goal is to find a new group of nice girls that make me happen, not ones that tear me down. But i don't want to do this so fast so that I ditch my old group without having a new one, leaving me isolated. Help me! Any tips, advice, or warnings? Thank you! I am a fifteen year old girl. (link)
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Don't let those girls control you. If you want to stop being friends with those girls (and you should, they sound horrible), then you have every right to go find another group to hang out with. At first, it will be hard to find other friends. The easiest thing to do is try to find some other girls who have classes with you (and your other friend) or share the same interests as you. Try to strike up a conversation. It might take time, but I'm sure you'll find better friends that are more fun to hang out with! I hope this helped and good luck :)
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