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we live far apart..getting worried
i met my boyfriend on a cruise and im 14 and i am soo in love with him but we live 2 in a half hours away from eachother we live in different states. i cant stand not being with him. his sister said hes cheated before. and people are saying he could be cheating on me. i try not believe it but i get scared. should i tell him? what do i do about it?
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Long distance relationships are very hard especially at a young age. It can be very hard to tell what the other person in the relationship is doing. You have to consider the possibilities here. His sister and everybody else could be right about the cheating which is normal in relationships like this especially if he has cheated in the past. Or it could be a big misunderstanding/he's changed. Unfortunately, the second one is unlikely. Most cheaters never change. In this case that he is cheating on you, you need to break up with him no matter how much it hurts. You deserve better than a cheater and you're still young and plenty of time to worry about love. Anyways, talk to him about it first before you do anything. Tell him what everybody has been saying and try to gauge his reaction. If he seems genuinely upset that you accused him about it, then apologize, but if he seems nervous in any way, changes are that he is. In the end, go with your gut feeling; it's usually right. I hope this helped and good luck with everything :)
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