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MY frustration .
Its this boy name Alberto, me and him became close over a couple months & over the summer of 2011 . He was the only i SORTA expressed to on how i felt or what was going on with my life besides my first love <3 The reason we became so close was because one night on Facebook he put he was sad & i texted him that night. He talked to me about everything that night, since than we became like best friends. We will flirt like oh, your cute ; would you ever date me, type stuff. There were feelings there but just kid around when we expressed them to each other. So one night, not to long ago i was a bit upset i dieceded to text him, knowing he's up & he could talk to me a little. I knew he was up, because of Facebook status.& Me thinking that all I HELPED him out with he could atleast before for me that ONE i need him. He doesn't reply -___-
week later : he text me today, saying hey, and are you mad at me and stuff. I'm not mad, I'm just rather fustrated, disguised, & disappointed. I dont really wanna talk to him.He has a girlfriend now, I'm not jealous. I'm happy for him ; but i don't think things will be the same.
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I was in a similar situation once.
It felt best just to let him go. If you're frustrated and disappointed with him, then the best thing to do is to move on. It took me awhile to do the same because I always thought it was my fault for him acting that way.
Eventually I realized that the guy was a jerk and he really didn't care about me in the long run. I see the guy and his current gf now and I laugh because they deserve each other.
You deserve better than him. You don't need a guy who will ignore you one day and then just try to make up for it the next. Go find another guy friend who will treat you better. I hope this helped and good luck with everything :)
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I've had a situation pretty similar to this, almost exact in fact. And sometimes guys do lead girls one, and overly flirt with them even though they're just friends. I know your upset with him, but maybe he was busy that night you texted him, although he was on facebook maybe that was just for a second and then he got off and was doing other things, so you shouldn't really be mad at him for that. and if you are, you can text him back and say "im not mad, i just really wanted to talk to you that night i texted you" if he's nice enough he'll understand and apologize and everything will be fine again.
If he asked if you were mad he must understand what he did.
good luck! (:
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