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How do u stop caring about someone you love


Question Posted Sunday January 22 2012, 3:10 am

My husband and I have been married for a year and a half. We have a baby boy. I'm very unhappy. He's not at all what I thought him to be. It's really a long story but in short his family hates me because he's the step son and I'm his wife. And he does nothing to defend me. They treated us like crap and made up so many lies ( and I'm not exaggerating ) and my husband has never done anything to fix it. His family tried so much to break us up but we moved out. My husband doesnt wana talk to them because he thinks that it will completely separate him from his family but he doesn't see what it's doing to OUR family. I'm tired and sick all the time thinking of all these problems and my husband doesn't help me. I want out but he won't let me leave. But also doesn't do anything to make me feel better. I'm stuck.

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lunalovegood answered Sunday January 22 2012, 9:59 pm:
well, if worst comes to worst, divorce. But If you love your husband, don't you want to try and save your marrige? Try and explain that you love him but not his family. He is either blind or doesn't want to interfere. Tell him it's either a very close family, or a rather distant family and a wife. Try to reason with him. Maybe he doesn't realize all this bothers you so very much. try reasoning, and then, talk to a pro for help.

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Xui answered Sunday January 22 2012, 3:22 pm:
What do you mean he won't let you leave? Has he threatened you? If he did then you need to take this one up with the police.

If you aren't happy, You need to file for divorce. You can proceed this process by going to the court. Since there is a child involved you are going to need a lawyer as you will be fighting not only a divorce but a custody battle. If your husband isn't willing to let you leave, Again you need to go to the police and explain them your situation.

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