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my friend, ill be like mad at her over something. and like ill act cold. and then she just doesnt even care. its like ,it doesnt matter if i get mad or not. she just acts like its no big deal. uhh i hate her so much right now.

Cause she doesn't want to get caught up in all the drama you are throwing at her.

Hello one rating.

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hi 14f
my period has been lasting for almost 2 weeks now
is that normal??
has that ever happened to you?
also it has also only been coming during the night time for the past few days!
thank you

Nope, you're going to die.

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Why does everyone hate me so much. I don't have to do anything to them and they hate me. Tell me why?

I know what you mean.
Going through that now.
Don't even worry about it, focus on yourself.
We don't really need people.

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okay, so i was bored and i randomly texted my boyfriend and was like if you could do anything with me what would it be? and he texted back saying f**k you hard and long.. and he never talks like that, and never even acted like that, so it kind of freaked me out, so um what should i do??

Laugh, cause he's probably kidding.

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you, stupidass.

Clever!

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So when I went to the movies tonight, I kind of gave him a blowjob.

=/

Can I get pregnant?!!!

P.S. Don't lecture me about how slutty I am, because I'm not. Just please give me the info I need.

If you have to ask this question, I don't think you are old enough to be giving head.

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I have region choir auditions in the morning - so what are some good things I can eat/drink tomorrow morning before I sing that will help my voice, and what are things I need to avoid???

Thanks!!!

Avoid milk and gum.
Lots of water.
Don't talk a lot, hum to relax your vocal cords.
Rub your shoulders so you aren't so tense.
Relax, once you get started you will be fine.

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About 3/4 of the seniors that attend my high school want to pull off a really good senior prank. We have only a few rules. Nothing severely vandalizing. Nothing illegal (to the point of jail time for those 18+), something that will be remembered, something that a bunch of people can do.

We don't want one of those stupid pranks that 4 kids do and barely anybody finds out about. We want our school and our class of 2008 to be remembered for a long time.

We are having secret meetings twice a month. We call ourselves the senior gift committee because we consider our prank a gift to all underclassmen. Something for them to remember and talk about for years to come.

We don't want to really hurt anybody, and if it can be multiple small pranks or one HUGE thing, it doesn't matter. We just need help with suggestions. A lot of things we've come up with either break a rule (too illegal, too harmful, etc.) or have been done a million times over.

So, if anyone has any suggestions or anything that they've done and that their school and peers have really enjoyed, any suggestions are welcome.

By the way, seniors have the same last day as underclassmen. (I know a lot of school have senior graduation before underclassmen get out, our school isn't like that).

Thanks =]

Get 3 pigs, roll them in grease, and label them one, two, and four.

They will be hard to catch, and they will still think there is another pig loose.

It will also be a good laugh.

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In one day .. I lost my best friend to her old drinking habits with the wrong crowd, my boyfriend of eighth months and I broke up, and my grandma died. I feel so alone, my boyfriend moved on in one day. He claims he still loves me, but he's already asked another girl to the dance. He finds every way to rub it in my face. I try not to let it get to me but its so hard. I think about him all the time, despite the fact I'm the one that called it quits after months of emotional abuse. Why is it that he was the one that made my life miserable, and he's getting the happy ending? How do I get over this and become happy again?

I'm sorry dear, you are going through a very hard time for a teenager to go through.

You know the quote that everyones, but it's the only thing that can keep you going. "Time heals ALL wounds." It may not seem like it now, and you probably hate me for saying it. You CAN get over it darling. If you can't remember this event in 20 years, then it's not important to worry about.

Best thing for you best friend is to let her go. I got when you said "old drinking habbits" that this has happened before. If this is something she wants to do, then let it be. But don't snub her, if she needs help with anything, let her in with open arms, but don't get your hopes up high that things can go back to normal.

Boys come and go. Their minds work totally different than ours. Too bad there is no cure to stupidity, but there is always a cure for a broken heart. Moping around will not help, so stay active. Run, work out, homework, make more friends! Anything to keep your mind off it. I'm not going to say you have to ignore what he is saying, since I know how hard that is, but act like it's not a big deal. If he says something, be like "Oh that's cool." Say hi to him still, don't be the bad guy. Maybe take a break from talking to him for a while, but when you come in contact with one another, be friendly.

Everyday is a clean slate. Think of your positives. Remember..

Everything will be fine in the end.

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okay, well i had a boyfriend for like 6 months and we had sex like once a week, maybe twice. but sometimes we would go without it for a couple weeks. but the point is, i had sex in my life. well now were broken up and i crave it so much but i'm not the type of girl to just go out and have sex with anyone just to get some. is there anything i can do to make me stop craving it so much?

Masterbate.

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hey. im really confused. i dont know what to do with my boyfriend. hes not showing any commitment. and im attracted to other guys too. i would NEVER cheat but i dont know what to do. i know im young but he needs to show that he likes me.

Hmm, you seem to be in a bit of a pickle.

I can't really tell you what to do, since it is your relationship and your feelings. But by the sounds of it, you two don't seem to have any spark. There is a difference in being attracted to other guys, and actually having feels for some. Commitment and trust are key things in a relationship. Think about your feelings really hard, it's your relationship. If you want to hold on and give it a chance, talk to him. If you want to let go, then let go.

In the end, you'll be fine.

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ok well i really want to lose weight but my mom never buys anything really healthy like instead of getting chipc she could get those 100 claorie pack things but she goes with the chip and it's not helping me at all to lose weight how can i get her to buy better stuff healthier stuff

Have you asked her to?
If not, that's a start.

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i know i can ask the people at the salon, but i have a squareish face and a smallish forehead. dont get me wrong, im not a circus clown. haha
in your opinion, would side bangs look weird on my head shape? i wont rate you low if you say no, but if you have a similar head shape, tell me whatcha think
XD

I think they might. Square faces and side bangs usually don't go together. Since you have such strong bone structure, adding a heavy bang to it will probably be too much. If you decide to get it, do a nice light, side swept bang, like this.

http://www.hairfinder.com/catwalk/silkyhair.jpg

It is not too bold, and it doesn't make your face look too harsh.

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im 13
i feel like im in a rush to have sex
idk im always horny?
and i just wanna do it HAHA
should i do it yet?
is it too early?
am i weird? :|
and how am i supposted to do it when im pretty sure no one else my age is ready nor wants to.. and i dont have a boyfriend right now.
i've never even had a boyfriend before.. :(
i think guys my age are extremely immature
i've always wanted an older guy haha
and im pretty sure im ready too
i know all the risks and how to be protected and all..
what to do?

Calm your hormones. Masterbate.
13 is too young.

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If I were to go to guidance and tell them I cut and wanted help what would they do other than call my mom.

Who else would they call and what would happen. Its not gashes but its getting worse.

They call your parents, because cutting is a real issue since it's physical abuse to yourself. They usually either request going to a theoropist, or my other choice was going to the hospital.

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Hey.. we are two average 15 year old girls. We really want to have more guy friends and eventually a boyfriend. We have a few guy friends but we def. want more. We have a lot of friends in general but we need more guys friends. We are trying to plan something to hang out with them but if that doesnt work than we need more help. We dont have their sn's or phone #s either. Please help us get some more guys friends! thanks sooooo much!!!!

It is easier than it seems, trust me.

Usually, for me, when I am around guys, I stay quiet at first. I look for the people I actually want to talk to, and listen to them. I try and examine their personallities and their sense of humors. After I have an idea of what they think is funny or what they like, I gradually hop in and start talking. Don't act all prissy and annoying, guys don't really like that. Just try and stay calm, and BE YOURSELF. Everyone says that, but it usually always works.

Guys like confidence, when girls just go up to them and start talking. Guys are fun, for a friend just find your interests.

Boyfriends usually come when you aren't looking for one. Being in love isn't all that it's cracked up to be. It is amazing, but when you loose it, you fall into the rut where you don't want it again. Stick with being friends with them, and if you find yourself having an interest with one of them, try getting some one on one time with him.

Guys aren't as complicated as people say they are. The more you know yourself, the easier it is to find guys who have the same interests.

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does anyone know any songs like taylour swifts teardrops on my guitar but like rapp and r&&b?

That makes no sense what so ever.

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How's come people tell you to stay a kid for as long as you can. Yet the moment you do anything childish or immature they tell you to grow up.

There is a different between being immature and knowing better.

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some of the lyrics are...

"i believe the world is burning to the ground"

and the chorus is

"lets see how far we go, lets see how far we go"

can someone tell me the title/ artist please?

Google it.

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