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Boy problems
Hey.. we are two average 15 year old girls. We really want to have more guy friends and eventually a boyfriend. We have a few guy friends but we def. want more. We have a lot of friends in general but we need more guys friends. We are trying to plan something to hang out with them but if that doesnt work than we need more help. We dont have their sn's or phone #s either. Please help us get some more guys friends! thanks sooooo much!!!!
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The main thing is, you have to try to get to hang out with them. The current guy friends you have now, ask to hang out and maybe they could bring some of their other friends along. Going to school football games and such will make you meet new guys. Go out with your friends and everywhere you go, talk to people and that way you'll meet them and become closer friends.
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It is easier than it seems, trust me.
Usually, for me, when I am around guys, I stay quiet at first. I look for the people I actually want to talk to, and listen to them. I try and examine their personallities and their sense of humors. After I have an idea of what they think is funny or what they like, I gradually hop in and start talking. Don't act all prissy and annoying, guys don't really like that. Just try and stay calm, and BE YOURSELF. Everyone says that, but it usually always works.
Guys like confidence, when girls just go up to them and start talking. Guys are fun, for a friend just find your interests.
Boyfriends usually come when you aren't looking for one. Being in love isn't all that it's cracked up to be. It is amazing, but when you loose it, you fall into the rut where you don't want it again. Stick with being friends with them, and if you find yourself having an interest with one of them, try getting some one on one time with him.
Guys aren't as complicated as people say they are. The more you know yourself, the easier it is to find guys who have the same interests.
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The main thing you have to work on is being bold! Don't be shy! I know its easier said than done, but sometimes guys are shy too, and being bold just helps. Get friendly, maybe a bit flirty, and then just ask for their sns or phone numbers. Tell them they are cool and you wanna chat some other time other than just being there in person. Also, if you want more guy friends, bring up something random about them happening at the time, (for example, if a guy is wearing a cute shirt tell them you like it...then ask where they got it...) and keep going and introduce yourself in the middle of the conversation, and just become friends that way. It always works for me! Then continue to get closer to them, talking with them, seeing what you have in common, plan some days to hang out or whatever...and you might just get yourself a boyfriend!
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