Ive never really told anyone this but here goes... I am 13/f and I like hollister, abercrombie, etc., I have alot of friends, I have a boyfriend, all the usual. Anyways I dont know how to explain this but I feel like a boy. I wear girl clothes, and I like boys and stuff(im not lesbian) but inside I just feel like a boy. I think its really weird. I used to wear guy clothes and stuff but that was when I was younger. Do you guys think this is weird or what? Is there like anything I can do to fix this annoying problem? Or at least I hope im not bi...
Well since you said that you used to wear guy clothes, and now you're wearing hollister and abercrombie, you're probably not used to the fact that you're more "girly" now. you're just a tomboy at heart dressed in preppy clothes =] i'm sure after a while this feeling will go away. and it definitely has nothing to do with being bi/lesbian.
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I have a really hard time talking to boys (except for my guy friend). Whenever guys approach me, my mind just goes...blank. Even if I don't have a crush on him. Like when I'm going to drama there's another guy going down to the chorus room right next door. This guy's named Greg* who has a girlfriend, and it's just really awkward. We're headed in the same direction, and since it's so weird for me, he think I like him when I don't. Then he blocked me on AIM and that junk. Or some guys are just trying to hang out with me, and I just go really weird. Does anyone know what I mean, and what can I do to stop this?
*name has been changed to protect privacy ;-)
I have the same problem. I'm really shy and I have extremely hard time talking to not only guys, but girls too. I'm just afraid I'm gonna say something wrong and they're going to think I'm weird or something. But anyway, just be confident [= Keep your head up high, smile. Just say whatever comes to your mind. If you like their shoes, say it! If they think you're weird, screw them! [= lol, just be outgoing. In the end, you're going to want a guy that's going to like you for who you are. So, just be yourself [=
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here is the deal. i go to the school i've gone to this school since i was seven, im fifteen. i really really really hate the school that i am in. like, i really really do. sometimes, i just want to cry because of it. i've begged my mom to send me to this other school. well, actually last year, she even got an application to apply to the school that she went to, and then just told me that she didn't want me to go after i had filled it out and everything. and i really want to go to this other school, that is really more like me. in the school that i am in, they don't even offer any of the sports that i would join and everybody is really mean in my school and super snobby, and my school is supposedly one of the most challenging schools in the nation!!! sometimes i just can't do it!! this year has been a little easier in terms of school work, but why can't she understand how badly i just don't want to go to this school?? what should i tell her? i've already tried talking to her, i've even cried. like not too long ago, i would cry every day, but that wasn't helping. she just said that i would be just as bad anywhere else, or maybe even worst. i don't know what to do anymore! i really don't. and writing her letters is out of the question, its like shes just flipping throiugh pages and watching the words go by because shes just not good at paying attention...any ideas?
I think you should just sit down with her, when she's not busy with anything and tell her how you feel about your school. Tell her that you don't fit in with the people there, and how they act in school. Tell her how hard the work is, and how much stress it causes you to have. Just tell her how you feel! Tell her that by you dreading going to school, isn't going to make your grades any better. If you had something to look forward to, you would get better grades.
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kay, so like my valentines day dance is coming up (yah, kinda early i dunno) so anyway, idK what i should wear!!! likee, a dress a skirt!! what! should i wear!! thnxxx so mucch btw, pictures would be helpful. nothing too fancy ,just like flirty ;] thnxx!!!!!
valentine's day is like a month away...
but. i'd suggest wearing a skirt since you said nothing too fancy. maybe like a cute red or pink shirt (to be in the valentine's day spirit lol) and a pretty skirt or something. like a black skirt with a pink/red top.
something like this:
skirt - http://store.nordstrom.com/product/product.asp?styleid=2868516&category=2376776~2374327~2374336~2377666&PrevStyleID=2886913&NextStyleID=2886588
shirt..http://store.nordstrom.com/product/product.asp?styleid=2887311&category=2378467~2378483~2381660~6002038&PrevStyleID=2883855&NextStyleID=2883857
maybe those two together, and if you'll be too cold, you could wear like a shrug over it like this
http://store.nordstrom.com/product/product.asp?styleid=2883608&category=2378467~2378483~2377029&PrevStyleID=2874259&NextStyleID=2880424
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