heyy.... I'm Charley or "girlygurl". I'm 14 years old and from England. Most of my friends at school seem to come to me for advice, so I'm hoping i could give it to some of you guys!! I'll answer questions on lots of different things and will try to answer as many as i can. I'm kinda new to this so i will have to work it out first. You could ask me questions about pretty much anything or like tennage-y things, random things or if you just want a 14year olds point of view. Obviosly some of my advice might not be perfect so... I'm sorry if its not, but I will try. ok.. Thank you and hopefully I'll answer some of your letters soon.. x
Gender: Female
Location: England
Age: 14
Member Since: January 11, 2006
Answers: 10
Last Update: January 12, 2006
Visitors: 1351
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I'm turning 14 and for my birthday I'm having a dance. I've been going out with guy for a while now but we don't go to the same school so we haven't had any dances together. What are some good love songs that would be good for a first dance. I need as many as you can give me. This would mean a lot to me. This dance is really important. Thank you so much! I'LL RATE YOU!!!♥ (link)
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heyy.... ok well i hope this helps!! :D
stickwitu- pussycat dolls (soo cute and slow too!!)
A moment like this- Kelly Clarkson (also very cute!!)
We belong together- Mariah Carey
A thousand miles- Vanessa Carlton
Baby Boy- Big Brovaz
If i ain't got you- Alicia Keys
Piece of me- Ashlee Simpson
Why can't I?- Liz Phair(not sure if its for a first dance.. but cute for later on!!)
Hope you have a fab time!! :) x
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I stopped dressing up for places but now I want to but I dont know how to put anything together now. I'm tired of wearing a sweater and sweatpants. I need help. I dont know what colors would look good on me. I'm light tanned. I have dark brown/black hair. I'm short and not really chubby. Any suggestions of colors/clothes (certain color shirt/jeans/skirt) ? Pictures of outfits would help. I can't ask my friends because they aren't interested in fashion. (link)
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heyy... I think that cute little denim skirts look good on everyone!! and with a pair of little pumps and a cute top.. like vest or t-shirt. in maybe baigey brown as your a little bit tanned with dark hair, or black, white, pink would also look cute. Bolero's are great for dressing up a look to in black or white as they are vey cute. You could also wear all of that with jeans too!!
Good luck :) x
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My friend and I are having a Spring Break Party this year. It is sort of formal. It's at my parents restaurant and the food is free. I am having a DJ. The time is from 7-11 pm. I need some suggestions.
>Drinks. what should be the drinks (ages 12-16)
>Food.
>Music.
>ACTIVITIES!!
Etc.
Anything else will be appreciated.
Thank you in advance. I'll rate 5's. (link)
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heyy... You could kinda have a theme sort of thing for it.. like black and white or pink and blue.. where everyone has to wear those colours and all the decorations and food, ect could be themed to the colours.
Drinks- You could add like food dye to the punch to turn it to the colour of the theme, if you could find little umbrellas that colour it would be quite cute!
Food- just like nibbles.. crisps, sweets, chocolate.. maybe slightly more like sandwhiches, mini sausages.. depends on what type of party you want it to be!
Music- anything you and your friends like.. so theres kind of a mix of different types, including like dancy ones.. (cha cha slide, macerena, ect)
Activities- You could try to think up like party games.. such as everyone has to dance in pairs *slow music!!* and then after 30 secs the dj could sound a noise and everyone must switch! this is fun for about ten minutes or so!!! You could also just try doing dancey songs that people know the moves to to get them going and then just regular music and people should keep dancing!!
Hope this helps a little bit!! have a fab time!! :D x
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okay well this might seem weird to some people..but i like my little brothers (younger by 2 years) best friend. his best friend is hot, sweet, smart, GORGEOUS...all that..but i think it might be a little weird. i mean were friends and all but the thing is i dont think anything would happen since we're a different age! first of all : do you think it is weird? 8th & 6th grade. And second of all: what are some things i can do to drop hints??
THANKS!! (link)
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heyy.. well it may be slightly weird since he's your little brothers best friend and their like the same age! You could try asking him about his girl friends at school and then like hugging him and hanging out with him.. then maybe he will notice. :) x
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I want to become a nicer person and stop judging people and gossiping about them behind their backs. I constantly find myself doing these things even after I promised my self that I wouldn't. I've lost friends because of me being like this, and I want to be someone others can trust and be someone they can call a good friend. Do you guys have any tips on how to become that type of person? (link)
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Heyy... Well maybe you could try thinking how the people who would have confinded in you might have felt after you gossiped about them.. and then maybe think well how would i feel and then just before you go to gossip think of how it would feel so then you would probably stop yourself. In time i'm sure everything will be sorted out! Good Luck :)x
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ok well theres this boy i like alot and well he likes this other girl but last year he told me i am hot so than i started to like him but now he told the other girl he likes her and she doesnt like him but about every 2 month he says it hoping it will change but she not going to change her mind every time he says i like you to her i get so mad/sad cause in those 2 month i try to get him to like me my question is should i get over him or keep trying and if its keep trying what should i do. (link)
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heyy... well i think maybe if its upseting you this much and he still likes this girl, then maybe you could try to get over him because by the sound of it he sounds like he likes this other girl quite alot and so maybe it just wasn't meant to be with you two? or maybe you could tell him how you feel about him if you think he hints he likes you to... i hope everything works out ok :) x
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i broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months a few months ago...lately ive been hanging out with him alot and ive reely started liking him agian but every time he ends up liking one of my best friends...i wana know if i should tell him and risk him liking one of my best friends agan or just keep it my secret?
hope you can help me mucho love (link)
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well... does he show any intrest that he might really like you again... cus if he does then you could like gently hint that theres this guy you like and see how he reacts or you could ask him about his lovelife and see what he says, but you never know unless you try.. your decision though!! :D... Good luck x
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I'm 13 and my mom is getting on my case about EVERYTHING!!! Now adays...i just wish she would leave me alone. I mean she's always watching over my back when I'm on the internet, asking who I'm talking to when I'm on IM or on the Phone...and to top it off. When the guy I like comes around she just stares and I feel uncomfortable. My question is, how do I keep my mom out of MY buisness?
-Beyond Joking (link)
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heyy... i know it seems really annoying but the only reason your mum is doing this is because shes's worried about you. I'm guessing that by the way your saying you want her out of your buisness you probably don't talk to her about many private things so maybe she feels that the only way to keep her eye on you and check your ok is to do this. Maybe if you try saying to your mum that you don't really like the way she's behaving and try and make sure she knows that if you have any major problems you would try to talk to her about it. that way she would feel so proud you need her she'll probably back down a little bit about her overprotective-ness... Good luck x
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i have liked my friend since the summer, and i didnt tell anybody. recently i was about to tell him when he started getting with my friend. they got in a big fight because she got with somebody else and he called her a whore and they hated eachother. then i told people that i liked him. now all of a sudden they want to get with eachother again and it makes me want to jump off a cliff and die. what should i do? (link)
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heyy.. ok well.. it sounds like maybe it was a total coincedence they got together at the same time you told people you liked him, they probably werent trying to upset you or anything and im sure they feel really bad your so upset about it. Now.. maybe you could try and just smile when they're together instead of getting upset and then in time you'll get over him and find someone else you like... good luck :)hope this helped a little bit. x
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My best (girl) friends keep bugging me to ask out this guy who is my friend also. I really like him and all but I don't want to lose my friendship with him...but if I don't ask him my friends said that they would ask him out for me. How am I supposed to tell my friends to back off without seeming harsh?
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heyy... You could just say that you dont really fel its the right time for the two of you to be together right now and that you'd apreciate it if they kinda stopped bringing him up. if they get upset about this then you could try saying your sorry and that you didnt mean to hurt their feelings its just you really dont want to go out with him right now but you apreciate their help anyway.
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