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can anyone help
i broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months a few months ago...lately ive been hanging out with him alot and ive reely started liking him agian but every time he ends up liking one of my best friends...i wana know if i should tell him and risk him liking one of my best friends agan or just keep it my secret?
hope you can help me mucho love <3
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Well, welcome to the life of Megan and Erika. Good news is, you will come out alive, with an achy heart though. First thing is, BE YOURSELF! don't be someone you're not just for him. everything gets all screwed up if everything is something totally differnet than who you are. If he doesn't like you for who you are, then its not meant to be. Second of all, if this girl is really your best friend, then you should definitely talk to her about it. She should understand where you are coming from if she is your best friend (at least thats what we did). Thirdly, evaluate how much you really like him and how far you are willing to go for him. Sometimes risking it all is worth the fall, but other times not. Either he will catch you at the bottom, or he will watch you splat on the ground. And when it comes to telling him, there are two things you can do. Megan, didn't get him, but also didn't tell him. Erika, told him, and ended up getting him and only lasted for two months. But not all guys are like the one we liked. Some like the hard to get girls. So its up to you and what you know about him. Just remember, don't get too clingy, most guys don't like it (take it from the experienced ones) Good Luck sweetie!
P.s. Guys like it when you play hard to get. Its a challenge and most like it.
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well... does he show any intrest that he might really like you again... cus if he does then you could like gently hint that theres this guy you like and see how he reacts or you could ask him about his lovelife and see what he says, but you never know unless you try.. your decision though!! :D... Good luck x
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first, i would see if he will tell you wether or not he feels the same. if he gives you a distinct impression that he does, in fact, have feelings for you then you should let him know but do it in a cute way so he will be attracted even more =P
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