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Ive never really told anyone this but here goes... I am 13/f and I like hollister, abercrombie, etc., I have alot of friends, I have a boyfriend, all the usual. Anyways I dont know how to explain this but I feel like a boy. I wear girl clothes, and I like boys and stuff(im not lesbian) but inside I just feel like a boy. I think its really weird. I used to wear guy clothes and stuff but that was when I was younger. Do you guys think this is weird or what? Is there like anything I can do to fix this annoying problem? Or at least I hope im not bi...
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You're probably not bi, it doesn;t seem to me that you're attracted to other girls at all so i really don't think that's the case. you're probably just a little bit of a tom boy, and you'll most likely grow out of it as you get older.
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Well since you said that you used to wear guy clothes, and now you're wearing hollister and abercrombie, you're probably not used to the fact that you're more "girly" now. you're just a tomboy at heart dressed in preppy clothes =] i'm sure after a while this feeling will go away. and it definitely has nothing to do with being bi/lesbian.
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no no it's nothing sexual or bi or anything. Nothing wrongs happening. Just means your a tomboy. You like to do things diffrently then the stereotypical girly girl thing, which i wish a lot of girls did instead of pretending to be fo damn helpless and stingy lil punks. Anyway, its great how what your feeling, why not express it. Just be yourself you have a full lifetime before reality destroys you. hell wear baggy pants, do guy stuff, your boyfriend will probably converse with you more cuase he like a women who understands what he feels and wants to do. Hope this helps
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You probably just miss dressing like a guy. There's nothing wrong with dressing like a guy, or being bisexual or homosexual. I'm bi, and I dress like a girl, although sometimes I dress like a guy. But from what you said, you don't sound bi or gay. If you're not thinking about girls as "Man, she's hot. I'd bang." then you're not bi nor are you gay. I don't think it's weird. I was a tomboy as a kid, and I still have that side to me depending on how I feel. Some days I feel like being comfortable so I dress guyish. And there's nothing wrong with it. Don't let it bug you.
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Don't worry about it! I used to be the world's biggest tomboy: I didn't even own a barbie till I was 8! I spent my childhood playing with toy trucks and lego, and it was HELL trying to get me into a dress. Now, I've retained my somewhat tomboyish ways of thinking, but I'm a very girly person :) Some guys actually appreciate being able to understand their point of view, so you're a lucky person!
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ok if your not lookin at girls an thinking "oooh baby", your not gay or bi. chances are you are not an actual boy, born into a girl's body.(it happens)
i can understand why itd make you feel weird, but the thing is i think it's pretty normal for you to feel this way sometimes. i mean look at it like this, yes women have come a long way since the 1800's but... there's still alot to be desired. women are still paid less in many cases then men at the same job, parent's give thier sons more freedom then thier daughter's. it's also been proven by many girls who walk the street at night dressed as boys that they are safer then if theyd gone out as girl's. so it's really not that unusual for a girl to want to be a guy, and if you do guy thing's like climb trees, run with the boys, or where jeans and tee's instead of skirts and tank tops you might start to feel like one of the guy's, and if you still feel like a guy inside, even tho your dressing girly, you might just be missing, being one of the guys. if you enjoyed being a tom boy, and now your kinda forcing yourself to dress and act girly, it's just not who you are. alot of women feel like they should have been boys its mostly the strong independent types that would take on the world, just as strongly as a man....if only the world would let them.
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Unless your attracted to girls then you aren't bi or gay. You are most likely just a tomboy. Just be yourself, I mean there is nothing you can do to really to fix it. It is not weird at all, relax and do not worry about it so much cause it is no big deal. Just do what makes you feel comfortable.
-Jake
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....From that I am really not getting the vibe that you are bi.
Just because a girl wears "boy's" clothes, does not automatically mean they are gay...
You are worrying toooo much about this...it is not weird at all and, there really is not a way to "fix" it. Just be how you want to be, don't be what other people want you too...but that is how society is, so you probably won't even listen to that.
But I hope I helped.
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