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well I have this big problem that I flirt whenever, because I was just talking with this person that I don't "like-like" he's just okay, well anyway I realized after that I was sorta flirting and I realized I do it a ton, with out trying, and I am sending those people the wrong message, can someone help me with my problem, is it normal, I am way confused, thanks
That's normal because that's just who you are. I wouldn't consider it a huge problem, just as long as you don't convince the world you like them. :)
my boyfriend is wants to have sex, and, im cosidering it. im 15, am i old enuff? i know about being safe and all, and i dont need to be lecture about how its not right cause the bible says its rong, im not religiouse. i just dont know if im old enuff to be having sex.
To ask the question "Am I old enough to have sex?" is obviously a sign that you probably aren't maturely ready. There is no set age on when it's okay & not okay to have sex. It all depends on the person & their circumstances. Your age should be the last worry on your mind. Also, by trying to get reassurance from random people online is another sign you aren't ready. When you are "old" enough (mentally) you will know when the time is right & you won't need to get a second opinion. Don't throw something away that easily just because you think it sounds like a good idea. Wait till you know it is.
Well, I had cancer when I was little. I was 3 and dignoised with Luekiema ((i know i spelled that wrong..) and the type I had was ALL. Very cureable. Well, Lately, I have been throwing up in my mouth, and bruising without hitting myself on anything. It's been happening for maybe 2 weeks? But what is confussing me is the doctor's said I had a 99.9% chance it won't come back. But I'm always at risk to get another kind. WHat I am expeiencing now sounds like the cancer I had. But well, I'm not sure if it's even cancer at all. Can you guys help me, is it cancer? Do I need to see a doctor?
People on the internet cannot diagnose you with cancer. If you are showing any signs whatsoever, you should go to the doctor. It's better to find out for sure than sit here & worry (no matter how high the percentage they gave you.)
is it true that eating past 7pm can cause you to gain weight?
Technically, the hour of the day/night doesn't matter. You aren't supposed to eat a couple hours before you go to bed because during that time your heart rate & metabolism slow down. If you eat small & healthy foods, it won't affect your weight that much. The only time you should be worried is when you're eating junk food (or large portions) late.. night after night.
for high school, we're aloud to carry around a backpack during the day. do you reccomend this (because our classes could be in seperate buildings & i don't know where my locker will be related to my classes)? also, where are some places you can get backpacks that are cute and not to big? or, what are your recommendations for types/styles of backpacks? thanks
Just carry around all your stuff if you don't have too many books or binders. But if you have too many, just plan to switch them out half way through your day. & for backpacks, I'd stick with something basic like Jansport. You shouldn't need something too much bigger than that.
My best friend of 9 years is trying to hook up with my ex-boyfriend, who is my best friend, WHO i had sex with. She acts like theres nothing wrong with it, but it bothers me. When i tell her, she just calls me drama and starts cussing me out. Do I have a reason to be upset? I feel awful!
Yes, you do have a right to be upset. And your friend should probably be more considerate of your feelings toward the situation. Afterall, she is your best friend & guys should never come between your friendship. Even if you're not going out with him anymore, she should respect the fact that it makes you feel uncomfortable for her to go after him. In my opinion, I don't think you should go after any friend's ex unless the friend is completely fine with it. You can both agree to have a calm conversation without any cussing just to get both of your feelings out. If she's not willing to do that, then maybe you should reevaluate your friendship.
In the morning, when I wake up, my stomach is nice and flat. But after I drink something, or even take two bites of food, it pooches out really big. No matter what I eat or drink, its always puffs out, and if like I`m wearing a cute tank top, after I drink water or something it becomes totally unflattering. What should I do?
It's completely normal. No matter how skinny you are, everyone bloats especially after eating or drinking anything, especially water. (It's just your body's way of retaining water.) It's nothing to be worried about, but if you feel like you are too bloated, go to the store or Walgreens & get medicine.
How do you kiss? How do you know if your a good kisser? No slopy wet ones and dont say if you can tie something with your toung or unwrape anything with your tounge.Also i wanna kiss my boyfriend how would i make a move what would be a cute way also it has to be sitting down because hes taller than me thanx
It's like asking someone how they walk. There's no right or wrong way to do it & there's definitely no way of explaining how to do it either. It's something that happens on its on without even thinking about it & eventually your technique becomes better the more practice you get. You shouldn't be so worried about being a good kisser if you're in a good relationship. He shouldn't care about how well you are at first. (& if he does, you shouln't be going out with him.) Don't think about position, height, or movement. When the setting & moment is right enough for you, just lean in & you'll be surprised that in that moment...you would never have time to think about how kiss. It all happens naturally, baby. Good luck & have fun! :)
my friend wears a bikini, shes not the skinnest girl in teh world but isn't like obese or anything. she is kind of over weight. so when we get out of the pool, she runs to the ladder, and runs to her towel and throws on her shirt. my question is, if she is SO self conscience, why doesn't she just wear a one piece or a tankini?
Probably because she doesn't like a one piece. I am self conscious in a bathing suit, but I'd never wear one of those. Plus, maybe she want's to get a tan. No big deal.
i have cingular & my plan is about 600 mins a month. we do have rollover but it seems to be getting low & i talk on the phone a lot. is there any way of buying extra minutes without breaking your plan?? a card er juss buying minutes??
thanks!!
I have Cingular as well. & just like with just about any other phone service, you have to upgrade your plan in order to get motr minutes. Or be willing to pay the extra for additional minutes.
I'm really upset about my life right now. I feel like I'm not good enough with my friends. Basically my situation is that my 13 year old sister is out having sex and I asked one of my friends about it and she lied to me and said she knows she didn't do it when she did. I found this out because when I told her it was true my other friend said that they knew that for a long time and it was old news. If my friends younger sister were having sex I know I'd tell her! Why aren't I good enough for the truth? Can anyone tell me what's going on? Thanks.
Maybe your friend's didn't think it was their business telling you about your sister's sex life. I'm not sure how they knew about it in the first place, but it IS your sister's life no matter how old she is. I don't think there is any need to be offended or upset with anyone about something like that. What your sister does is her own business.
If you don't eat anything (except maybe a few grapes or something) but only drink like, sodas, would you gain weight or lose weight?
I've always wondered this, and I asked my health teacher, and he didn't know. I know its not health, lol, I'm not planning no doing it, I've just always been curious.
I've been there, done that. You'll lose weight at first, but eventually your metabolism will slow down so much that you will start gaining everything you eat -- no matter how small or large the meal is. Soda obviously isn't very healthy for you in the first place. You'll gain weight from the sugar just by drinking that alone. If you drink soda regulary, cutting it out of your diet completely (& replacing it with water), you are guaranteed to lose 5-10+ lbs within a couple weeks.
Does it hurt more when you finger yourself, or someone fingers you? Or is it the same? And does it hurt like A LOT or do you barley feel it, or does it feel good the first time? I need to know.
The pain depends on how many fingers, the guy's technique, & how rough he is. The frst time it t feel a little uncomfortable, but after that it should feel good.
I really wanna look good in my clothes and wear designer stuff but it's expensive and I was wondering where I could get clothes that look like designer. but i don't wanna be called a loser for wearing knock-offs and stuff. please help me find some good shops.
You don't need designer clothes to look good. Infact, all those Hollister & Abercrombie labels make people look tacky & show that they have no sense of individuality or creativity. Go the mall, go to a few stores you like, & put something together no one else has. Head for clearance & be creative. :)
So, I'm into the whole bohemian and antique-y type style. I just need some stores that have these styles and at decent enough prices. Anyone have any ideas?
Forever 21, Windsor, thrift stores. Basically anywhere at the mall, most of the "trendy" stores will have that style.
ok i am going to be a freshman and im not even going to try and hide it. i am very freaked out. my older sister says its no biggie but seriously i am a very sesitive person and i cant really handle getting teased or picked on without turning red or becoming insecure about whatever whoever happened to tease me about. and i am going to get lost (we dont get our scheds until the first day).
so does anyone have any advice about what to do on the first day or what NOT to do on the first day? advice with bullies, teachers, or red facedness will be greatly appreciated and rated.
Hey, everyone has to experience the first day of freshman year. & it's normal for movies, stereotypes, & other people's portrayal of high school to frighten you. I was in your position 4 years ago & I must say I felt the same way. The truth is, no one really picks on you & stuffs you in lockers. People might give you a hard time, but it's rare unless you bring it on yourself. To be honest with you, when you walk the halls.. it's hard to tell who's a freshman & who's a senior. So no one is going to single you out for no reason. Just know that there are a lot of other freshman experiencing the same thing as you. Teachers don't expect you to find your classes on the first day or the few days that follow. & if you get lost, ask someone in the hall who looks nice enough to help. In most cases, anyone you ask will be willing to help; they aren't as bad as you think. They were in your position at once.
You will be fine, trust me. People told me the same thing when I was starting freshman year & I didn't believe them. But after the first day, I laughed at how I stressed over something so simple. Yes, the first day will be a little nervewrecking, but don't let it frighten you that much. At the end of the day, you'll realize you got worked up over nothing. & the next four years will go by so fast. Enjoy high school while it lasts. & good luck! :)
later this week i would really like to go take my driving permit and i was wondering what kind of questions will be on the test? i live in massachusetts and i've looked at many websites so could i get some questions please. when u do get a driving permit does it mean u can practice driving with a parents?
Your state should have a book with all the rules on their driving site. My permit test was fairly simple & I probably could have passed without taking the driving course. But it all depends on your state. Honestly, as long as you've read over the common stuff & you know what you're doing, you should be fine.
The permit, in most states, allows you to drive as long as there is a parent (or other adult over the age of 21) with a valid license.
right well i had sex with my boyfriend today for the first time and i took the pill that morning but i haven't taken the pill in 6 months and then i just took it this morning will the pill still be affecttive??? also the pills are like 6/7 months old and i was wondering if they can go off date or something so they didn't work? i haven't told my boyfriend my worries and i wont until i definately need to if im pregnant or something reply fast please to put my mind at rest love me xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
If today was the first day you took the pill in 6 months, I wouldn't rely on it to work. It usually takes about a week or two (taken consistantly each day) to ensure it's full effectiveness. I was actually told to wait a month to be on the safe side. & I don't think the pills expire that quickly. If you didn't use a condom, you might want to get the morning after pill to be on the safe side. When it comes to those kinds of situations, I wouldn't take the risk. Next time, use the pill & the condom, that way if one fails.. you have the other method of protection to back it up.
I just got my tongue pierced. I have these 2 white veins under my tongue. They lead to the tip of it. The one is like hurting and it feels like something is being pulled or something. Its very uncomfy. it feels like if i stretch it or something it will snap and wont be as tight? Its weird. I dunno if this is normal and its just a nerve or what?
Someone please explain? Is it normal? help?
I've had my tongue pierced before, so hopefully my advice is more helpful. Before the piercer pierces you're tongue, he/she should look out for veins. If they ever hit a vein, I believe you & the piercer would know right away. So as far as the veins go, you should be fine. The first few days are a hassle. It's going to swell, it's going to hurt, you won't be able to eat easily, it'll be hard to talk, & it'll feel like it's really tight. But after those days go by, you'll get used to it. Within the next week or two, it'll be so normal, you'll be able to move it around & you'll forget you have it. To help the swelling, suck on some popsicles & take Ibuprofen.
me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for the past 2 years.I recently found out he cheated on me 3 times with some girls from Johnston.Now he asked me if we were dating about 2 days ago and i stupidly said "Yea,I guesss".Today he came to my house and told me that he has a new girlfriend. I said "i thought me and you were together" and he said "O well shes hotter".5 minutes later he tried kissing me.What should I do about all of this???Now im stuck the single one!
PLEASE HELP ME FAST!:(
Don't even put up with that. He doesn't know what he wants & just goes back to you because he knows you'll never stand up to him. Show him you're better than that & avoid him all together. No one deserves someone who treats their girlfriend like that.
& being single can be fun if you let it be. Don't ever think you need to depend on a guy to make you a happy person. You're better off finding someone who respects you & doesn't use you because you are there.