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All of a sudden this morning, my nokia 3205 cellphone screen went BLUE (eventually went black) and I can't see ANYTHING. I can still make and recieve calls, but the menu and display are gone. How can I fix this.

hey that same thing happend to my friend and her phone... except hers was from verizon. she couldnt fix it at all she went into the store to see what happend to it and i dont know what was wrong with it maybe she does, but all in all she needs a new phone and depending on your plan you might get a free new phone or something depending on what happend

xo erica

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ok see i got an xanga and i really want to people to beable to listen to music when their browsing my site. but i dont no what to do at all.i need to find a place to get the music and i need to no where to put it.i really really need help.if its possible you can leave you answer here.or email me at SooCloseBut2Far@yahoo.com
or instant message me at Denajah5 (aim)
thanx in advance

go here: http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=music_galore and then click on the song you want and copy the code for it (or if you want theres a bunch of other xanga music sights) then go into your xanga, go to look and feel, scroll down until you see music and then paste the link you had from the song into the box below music, and there you go.. sry if that was confusing hope i helped

xo erica

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I am 13 and my parents still treat me like a baby! They won't let me get hair highlights! How do I convince them to let me get highlights??
I rate very high!

you could ask them if you could try out temporary highlights just to see how they look and if you like them, and if you dont then they come out in a couple of washes... you can get this kinda stuff at walmart or something like that if you need any help just askk

xo erica

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hey my name is ashley and i need some cool teen web sites that have 2 deal w/ quotes like flirty, love, breakups, etc... i already know of 2 www.wittyprofiles.com and www.firehotquotes.com if u know any other pages like that please let me know... thx

heyy some good quote sights are on xanga, just go to www.xanga.com and then under blogrings type in 'qoutes' and you will get a lot of sights specifying in any kind of quote... hope that made sence if you need any more help just ask!!

xo erica

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I have a light light light brown almost dirty blonde shade of hair. It comes to about an inch past my shoulders. I have bangs. Just like straight across my face. I want to do something cute to spice it up and make me look pretty. I will rate really high PLEASE this is like a fashion emergency!

well for your bangs you could get them so theyre side bangs and drift off to the side a little bit instead of straight up and down for a new look. if your hair is curly you could try straightening it, or if its straight you could use a scrunching gel to get it curly (you can find stuff at walgreens for this it works good :-) and maybe get a hair cut, depending on your face shape you could ask your hairstylist for what you think would look good and she could help with that. also some highlights might look cute hope i helped!

xo erica

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i recently kissed one of my best mates ex boyfriends. they had only broke up about 2 weeks earlier and the reason they broke up was because he cheated on her. she was so upset when she found out he cheated, i was one of her shoulders to cry on. then a week later, whilst talking 2 her ex boy friend, he starts asking me if i would ever be with him. I must admit i did have feelings for him but i understood that i really shouldnt pursue it if i wanted 2 stay friends with my friend. he was emailing me and telling me that he thort he had feelings for me.. i wasnt really sure wat to do, i didnt want 2 lie and tell him that i had no feelings 4 him but at the same time i was constantly thinknig of my friend. then at a party that wknd i had a few drinks and me and this boy got rather close. he told me that if we hooked up we would keep it a secret and no one would ever know, at the time i thort that it would work and i wasnt thinknig clearly. i kissed him 4 about 2 minutes before realising that i would have 2 pay for my actions. we agreed 2 not tell anyone but naturally we both couldnt keep it 2 ourselves. My friend then confronted me and asked me about it, i didnt want 2 lie seeing i new taht would be worse in the long run. i told her the truth but didnt really get a chance 2 tell her all the details and appologise in fully. From that day on she has been avoiding me, we did have a brief talk about it and she said she didnt hate me she was jsut really really hurt, but deep down i no that i have ruined our friendship and taht it is my fault. i really want 2 talk it threw with her and get things back 2 normal but i understand that she needs time and may not ever want 2 forgive me. i really want 2 make up and i regret doing it so much, even tho i have very strong feelings for the boy. it was really stupid of me now thinking back, sacrificing such a good friend for a boy who cheats on his girlfriends and plays girls. i dont know how i could have been so stupid. please help me what do i do 2 not hurt her anymore and not hurt him?

that sounds so familliar in a situation ive been in before... and i was the girl where the guy liked my best friend and she made out with him while we were 'togehter with out the title' and told me 3 months later. i was so upset with her so i can see where ur friend is coming from, shes scared that you will hurt her again because she thought she could count on you but you went to the guy. well thats how i felt with my friend. just give her some time, tell her the complete truth on what happend and dont talk to that guy any more even if you have feelings for him. it will just make her think you would still do that again. well its just a idea so good luck

xo erica

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ok, my pubic hair is growing like outside my bikini line and it's really gross... what do i do to get rid of it besides waxing...??? please help me because it's really embaressing.

the easiest way is just to shave it because im sure you already have a razor and dont need to get anything else and shaving cream or soap and you dont have to shave all of it if you dont want you can just shave in the places that are showing..good luck!


xo erica

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ive been looking everywhere for that nair shaving stuff does anyone know where to get it?

anything like they said down there, walgreens walmart, try looking in the razors and shaving cream section and around there because thats where it should be at

xo erica

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hi there, me again, the guy i slept with, we have spoken but nothing about what had happened, this was like, last week sometime, and his sister has invited me to a party, where i know he will be ther, do i go or not? tell me as it is tonight
thank xx


**hey its me, im not sure if this is the right way to talk back with you lol ..you said you wanted my email or something, i dont know if i want to give it on here but if you want you can give me urs or if u have a aim sn i will im you k

i think you should go to the party because you could end up talking to him then maybe brining up what happend so you can get an idea of what he feels, but if he ignores you the whole time then screw him and go flirt with all the other guys there!

xo erica


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do u think my ex-boyfriend would get jealuse if I hag out with a guy that likes me and flrits with me in frount of him?

well if he still liked you and cared about you i bet he would get jealous but hed take out his jealousy on doing the same to you, if you still cared about him then that would suck soo i would sujest if you still have feelings for him keep it on a down low because you dont want to get hurt

xo erica

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okay this is really hard to explain but i'll try...my best friend ryan (shes a girl) moved and she went out with this guy hunter...hunter imed me one day (after him and my friend broke up) and we talked and stuff and he was so sweet and i thought i liked him but i had a boyfriend and i told him i did so ya...my boyfriend was like a really good friend 2 but i didnt think it was fair to date him when i really liked hunter you know so i broke up with him and on aim i was talking to hunter that same day.and i said guess what and he goes what and i was like i broke up with andrew and he goes you kno whats coming next...will you go out with me! i really wanted to say yes but i wanted to ask my friend first to make sure she was like over him and i said hunter asked me out...do you care if i say yes and she ignored me and started cussing hunter out and then so hunter imed me and said...maybe we should wait,i still like you,and im not taking it back i love you,you just broke up with your boyfriend though,so lets wait. and all that was fine with me....well two days later my friend ryan came and stayed at my house for like a week and then 1st night she was there,hunter and me were texting and he called me and we talked for lk 4 hours (it was the first time we has talked on the phone) anyways and then the next day me and ryan went with my uncle to look at his new house and hunter texted me and i said im out of texts so i cant talk now and so i said he could text ryans phone...so he did and he was like can you hand tayler the phone for a sec...so she did and i gave it back to her (i was like in the car talking to my uncle and i didnt want to like be texting him) and then she handed it to me again and it said "will you go out with me" and again i handed her the phone and just thought i will talk to him about it later...then he texted ryans phone again and said " i really like you...but i guess you dont like me" so then i felt horrible so i texted him back and said "no no i do like you its just i dont want you to hurt me" and he said "i would never hurt you,i love you too much" so then i said "are you sure this is what you want" and he said "i wouldnt want it anyother way" so i said yes...and he was a good boyfriend for like a week and then we would be like talking online and he would say i gtg baby i will call you tonight...then he wouldnt call and then we would fight and all this stuff...and it happened like 3 times...then he texted me and was like "baby im sorry i've been a bitch and im such a dumass for treating you like this and im lucky that you stuck around this long please forgive me...things will change i will be the boyfriend you deserve which is better that what i have been" and then he was better (we still hadnt met in person.but we did see lots of pictures) then he broke up with me said he wanted to be friends and then we would talk ever day texting...but he wouldnt talk to me on the phone and he would always ask me for pictures then the fourth of july he texted me and said "we dont need to be friends" i was like okay whatever..after this im not giving you anymore chances and he goes i dont care your ugly and and i go your not excactly the hottest guy i have dated eitehr and he goes oh ya thats why u wanted me soo bad and i was like it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but its fine cause im over it and he didnt text me back for like three days and when he did he re-wrote what i had written him the "it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but thats okay im over it" and then he wrote oh thats nice you played me..and he was like look im sorry ok can we jsut start over i understand if you dont want to be friends i jsut feel guitly sayin all that shit to you and im sorry and then we talked and i was like well i dont know if i can be friends with you...you hurt me and he said and you hurt me and im sorry and i was like well i only said it cause you were being rude and acted like you hated me and even though i liked you i wasnt gonna be like oh baby im sorry i love you...and he was like i jsut said it cause i had nothing to say and said he had to go and asked me to get on aim the next morning so i did and we worked everything out and then we talked on the phone every so often and then this whole thing happened where he said sorry i cant call you and i sent a message to christina (a girl thats friends with me and hunter) and it said if he calls you three way me and i accidently sent it to hunter and he was like yeah he got really mad at was like you thought i would to you blah blah blah and said i hate you get out of my life then the next morning he texted me and said sorry i was jsut upset cause i thought you lied to me and i for some reason forgave him and we talked and we "friends" and then he said i like you and i was like ok..and he would say i love you and i want to meet in person and all this"well he said that one night and the next morning he said i dont like you anymore theres no other girl theres jsut no girl at all...and then we just talked as "friends" and then he was on the phone with christina and asked her to three way me so she did but i didnt really talk directly to him cause he was only on the phone for like 5 minutes cause then he had to go and i stayed on the phone and chrisitna said hunter told me to tell you he likes someone..but he wont say who and i was like okay so later that night hunter texted me and i asked him who he liked and he was like i dont want to tell anyone and i was like okay well if you get ready to tell someone you can trust me and he was like ok and he said i like justins girlfriend,ariel (justins his best friend)and then he said i gotta go i will be back on later (he has been texting me from his sn) then his friend justin was like hey and i go hi and he was like whats wrong and i said stuff with hunter and he goes like what? and i said its jsut hard liking someone that doesnt like you back and justin said do you know who he likes and i said no and he goes if you do please tell me i wont tell him i sware and i said im sorry but im not gonna do that to him and he said this is hunter on justins sn i jsut wanted to see if i could trust you and i can so thanks and i dont like ariel i like you and it turns out him and justin were together the whole time and i was like ok no big deal i couldnt be mad cause he liked me again and then i didnt talk to him for 3 days and he texted me and said i dont like you i like someone else sorry and i got on aim and i was like who do you like and he said well i like you but u live really far away but if you move here i would love to go out with you (we live like 20 minutes away,and my parents are looking at houses out there) and so i was like so theres no other girl and he goes no there is her names courtnei and i like her alot and i was like oh and then i found out he has asked her out and she liked him and he liked her the only thing keeping them from going out was that she had a boyfriend when i started typing this i just wanted to see what you thought but unfortunately since its so long since the beginning of this i jsut found out in his friends away message that him and courtnei are going out and i dont know what to do i mean i want to just tell him off and be like im sicking of you treating me liked this and i could careless if we ever speak again and stand up to him but that would screw everything up with us for good and a big part of me still wants him..i dont know why cause i have had guys that treat me 10x better and since we broke up two guys have asked me out but i have said no for him...i was waiting for him and then he jsut moves on like im nothing and i feel like just...i dont know im just really upset and dont know what to do everyone tells me oh my gosh taylor just move on but i cant its i dont know theres something about him that i cant let go of...what that is i dont know cause i mean hes hott but not that hott hes nice sometimes and i just i dont know should i tell him that i like him that i love him that i want him that i hate him or as hard as it may be jsut not talk to him and see if he comes back to me or even notices im not there for him...or if he cares anyways please please help me... *** broken hearted
laycee

from what it looks like, he still cares about you, but hes just using you to fall back on when he doenst have anything at the moment. im in the same situation right now and i know its hard to let go of them but believe me there are so many other people out there who will treat you wayy better than that, and personally its gay that hes always running back to you when he says he hates you... it shows how immature he is. so its going to take time, and you should look for other people than end up with a broken heart. just think yeah its going to be hard but in the end its going to be worth it. ohh and btw i hope your friend was over him when you said yes, because friends are around way longer than guys and will be the ones who dont stab you in the heart unlike guys so just remember that... and hope i helped

xo erica

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AHHH I start high school tomorrow and I haven't been to public school since fourth grade. i'm really nervous :-/. 1stly, because i don't know ANYONE, and i'm afraid i'm not gonna make any friends. 2ndly, i'm gonna be terrible with finding classes, and with all the different teachers! so... HELP? thanks! i'll rate ya 5's:-)

hey... 1st of all you will meet SOO many new people and im almost positive you will find a group of friends who share the same interests as you... of course everyone on the 1st couple days are going to be strugling with finding classes, and pretty soon youll learn all the ropes and get to having a kick ass freshman year.. just be careful for the older girls they can be bitchy to 'stupid freshman' and all the seniors go for the freshman so choose wisely and be careful with your heart! well good luck to you and have a awesome year

xo erica

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im 14 and im a virgin. and im dating a 17 year old guy who fucked almost every grl he met. he says he changed every since "something happend". he says he really likes me and hes not gonna presure me to do anything. but i dotn know ... i really like him but i dont knoe if he likes me back. or if hes just using me. its not that im scared to lose my virginaty. im just a lil worried about losing it to him becouse i dont know if hes gonna still feel the same towards me or if hes just gonna throw me aside.... :-/

well my friend was in the same situation dating a older guy and she had sex with him and he stayed with her after that but soon he broke her heart. you should wait and if he cares about you like he says he does then he'll also wait. wait until your completely ready and not nervous to have sex. hope i helped


xoxo erica

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