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i have a friend that've liked me for soo long and i like him too but i never got with him because i always knew that i couldnt he lives in another state and long distance of course never works out..the past two boyfriends ive had he totally hated and btw i have a boyfriend right now...well so because he lives in a diff. state i dont wanna get with him but now hes giving up on all hope and i know for sure that when he stops he'll stop talking to me and we're gonna drift apart and i really dont want that to happen...ive tried to give him some signals that i dont like him but then other times i just cant help it because as ive said hes soo sweet and hes always there for me and he never seems to get it how else can i help him get over me but still keep in touch?! (link)
tell him that you would go out with him but he lives to far you just dont wanna get into a deep relationship (sp?) becauz you would wanna see him every day and stuff like that tell him that you would like to just friends Well i hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox


like mt faimly is being so horrible to me and like my sister she doesnt like me and my other sister thinks im a hore but im really not and when i walk in the room and they dont know i hear them say stuff like i hate that hoe and she is so self centerd and i want to know what i can do to like make them not hate me becasuse im happy about some things and sad about the other and its makeing me do crazy things for instants Cut.
please help me
~thank*~you*
~*cAsSiE~* (link)
you need to walk up to your sisters and tell them that you dont know how they came to think that you are not a hore! you would never do that to your body you need to ask them why they think that and that the things they say about you are making you do crazy things in other words just talk to them about it Well i hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox good luck!


im really insecure..and i always think my bf will cheat on me becoz of my past relationships.. also me n him r always arguing and its gettin me down because we aint as close to each other as we used to be and he doesnt show affection to me much anymore.. i have only been with him 11 months.. what can i do to stop us arguing and to get closer to each other again? (link)
i know youve been hurt in the past but not all guys are the same you just need to trust your boyfriend i know thats hard to belive that theres actully some guys out there that care but its there are some ne ways if you trust your boyfriend that will end some of the arguing Well i hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox


hello ive got an interview for nursing on friday and im really scared about it can any one give me any tips on what there going to ask me and what are things i should do to impress them thank you (link)
ok
1.dress approrately
2.make sure that you dont have long polished nails
3.hair well groomed
4.learn a little about the place you are going to work at
5.be calm and be yourself
6Some quistions they might ask you
1.why do you wanna be a nurse and why do you wanna work with us?
2.tell us something about your self
3.is this your first job
4. how do you handle stress because nursing is a stress full job

If you have done any extra community work thats a big plus
Well i hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox


i was best friends with these 2 girls for 4 years. A couple of weeks ago i decided we shouldnt be best friends anymore. I was always the one being left out and i was jsut fed up of feeling that way so i told them that i just wanted to be friends, Now im regretting that i said that and do want to be their best friend again but i feel like if i do i will just feel the same as i used to be and be treated like JUST A FRIEND. please help me, what do you think i should do? sorry its long
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talk to your friends that you want to still be there best friend but you would like to be included in more of the things they do tell them like when they do more stuff together you feel left out well hope i helped and if you have ne other questions just drop em in my inbox


Ok I really like this one guy. And he knows that I like him too. But the problem is I don't think he'd ever go out with me! My friend has asked him out (for me without me knowing) like as a joke before and he said no anyways. What can I do to get him to like me as more than a friend?



P.s. I think I'm going to see him tomorrow and I'm 13/F. (link)
when your around him flirt with him alot and awalys drop him comments like you look fine in that hat and also ask him beauty quistions about your self like do i look good in this shirt? then after he answers so many beauty questions hell realize that if he really likes you or not well hope i helped and if you have ne other questions just drop em in my inbox
go get him!


im 15, my hair like medium thick and it curls at the end sometimes if i dont straigten it out which i rarely do..yet still curls a bit..its a lil past my shoulder and its layered so the top is a little past my ears and its orignally dark brown, but its more of a golden brown on top bc of the sun and for the next school year i want something difference for my hair,i like the length and color from the sun...but on the other hand i think its time for a change..my mom said if i want i can mayb get highlights dependin on the color i want something i can still put up in a pony tail and ect..any ideas? o btw i have bangs...like the ones 5 years old have..yeah thx for any suggestions and ideas (link)
you could get your hair tapperd its where your hair is short in the front and its gradaully gets longer then it looks pretty when you style it like flip it out or flip it in same as curl it out or in well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox


okay theres this guy who asked me out about 8 mnths ago and i said no ever since den ive been avin mixed feelings about him.i jus liked him as a freind and did till like 3 mnths ago and i jus realized how much i rely like him i rely need help because i dont know what to do HELP i rely rely rely like himand am afraid that if i dont say something about it he may not like know how i feel and ask someone else out plssss help i rate high (link)
got to the guy and say ( i know you asked me out a while ago but now i do realize i like you and that i would like to go out with you if you still like me ) well i hoped i helped and if you have anymore questions just drop em in my inbox


i was in my friends pool all day today and after a while, it hurt when i wiped my eyes so i stayed in for like a half hour longer and went home. now my whole face is red and hurts really bad. how can i treat this right now and without having to go to the store because i have no one to drive me there (link)
get a wet cold rag and run it all over your face it may not make the sunburn go away but it might help with the pain well hope i helped and if you have anymore questions just drop em in my inbox


im depressed. i have ALL the signs of teen depression [ i looked them up ]

i dont feel myself lately. i dont like me. i cant sleep. i cry for no reason. im really mean to people around me. this year my grades went from A's and B's...to all F's.

ugh...any ideas on how to tell my mom? i want to tell her i need to see a theripist but im scared of how to bring it up and stuff.. (link)
all you have to do i go to your mom and tell her that you dont know why but latley yu've been felling down you dont know why say( mom do you think i need to get a theripist ) if you ask it that way it wont sound like you want one well i hope i helped and if you have ne more questons just drop em in my inbox good luck


I need help breaking up with my boyfriend. I still like him and everything its just that its summer and i dont think im gonna see him that much. What should i say to him? I still wanna be friends cause he is really nice.
Thanks Alot

If it helps we have been going out for about 2 1/2 months. And the reason is becuz i wont see him much. (link)
ok tell your boyfriend that (you are sorry but you have to break up with him its not that you dont still like him but its because you dont want think you will be seeing him as much and yull go out it wont work out cuaz of that you dont wanna date him any longer becauz you dont want to be that sad when you break up with him and that you would still love to be his friend) well i hope i helped and if you have ne more questions drop em in my inbox


ive ever had a boyfriend. and im 16. whats wrong with me?? im not completly ugly, but im not like super pretty.. i think i may be prude. how do i get over that and have some fun??
THANKS SO MUCH!!!! (link)
if you just sit at your house all day then your not going to get a boyfriend try going to some parties and just realx talk to some new people even some guys just strike up a converstion like by asking a quistion and again just be more realxed well i hope i helped and if you have ne more questions drop em in my inbox


ok, well, i have a boyfiend. im gonna dump him next time i get to talk to him. i just dont like him anymore. now that im gonna be single, theres two different guys who like me and i could go with either. i dont know what to do! i like them both! anyone have tips on how to decide? (link)
ok you say two guys like you but you dont know who to go with maybe you could go with the one who likes you more ( in other words wich one would do more things for you ) and pick the one that you can trust more dont pick one if he has a background of playing people if you still not sure go out with both of them at differnt times to see wich one you like more well i hope i helped and if you have ne more questions drop em in my inbox


sorry this is so long but i am really confused and i would love for any advise from anyone!

ok here is goes. me adn my ex boyfriend (josh) we out all last summer and he cheated on me so we broke up and havent talked since. well the other day i was on the phone with his best friend (anton) and josh was over there so me adn josh talked and we are cool now. well i like anton but anton is a huge player. he has cheated on almost every girl he has went out with. he is also not a virgin .. me i havent even tounge kissed a guy before. well anton told me that he is actually ready to get into a serious relationship with a girl. i really wanna be that girl, but im so scared for anyone to know that i likw him. im scared he is gonna cheat on me or hurt me just like josh. me adn anton dont talk alot adn we dont know each other really good. i really like him and i dont know what to do. i even dream about him at night. can anyone please give me some advise on what to do?? thanks if you do!! (link)
one day when you see anton be like ( r you serious that your ready to get into a meaing relationsip cuz like you never do ) if he says no well than i guess you dont date him but if he says yes im serious be like ( well that girl could be me ) well i hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions drop em in my inbox good luck with that!


My X-botfriend dumped me about a few months after he asked me out. I had liked him for a whole two years, and was really excited when he did. After he dumped me I was devistated, and we decided to stay friends. I saw him at a get together with all of our friends and some of the new ones. I don't know if it is just him, but he acted like we were still together. He huged me alot, and lied on my stumache, tickled me, and chased me. My friends acted afended, and kind of stand-offish when we acted like that. My friend says that he told her that he doesn't like me anymore, but to me, he acted like he still does. So here is my quwstion: How do I find out if he still likes me or not, so that I can move on in life?
P.S.
(I already tried asking, and my friends tried asking also!)
Can you help me? (link)
walk up to him and say ( the day at the party you acted like you still liked me is that true ) well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions drop em in my inbox good luck


I've had my period for two years now. It's verrrrry irregular. It will skip months and come anytime during the month. I've gone 3 months with out my period. I never know when it's going to show up. I've heard that sometimes if you're skinny that might have something to do with it. I'm like 5'6 and i weigh 105 pounds. Do you think it has anything to do with it? What do you think i should do? Thanks. (link)
your peorid skipping may mean your anemic (sp?)that means that you dont eat healthy so your body cant make (skipping period )or replace your blood and it also cant make your blood come out at normal timming (comming in differnt times of the months)
well i hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions drop em in my inbox


first off im a guy. 14 and a half. well i was out in the pool cuz i went to get the drink i had on the side. i guess i put my nipples up to the side and it kinda hurt...i went to reach up for it with my arms putting my chest against the ground...

well i felt their to see if anything was wrong and i had lumps right under the colored part of my nipples on both sides!

whats the deal here? im a guy and i know its rare to have breast cancer and its usually only occuring in men to!

help please (link)
my mom had brestcancer and how she found out was she had lumps but the did not hurt but yes i think you should go to the doctor i mean its better safe than sorry you know well i hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions drop em off in my inbox


I'm sure you guys are really sick of period questions. Heaven knows there's a lot of them.

Anyway, I've had my period for about 6 years now, so not much has been new to me. Okay, so today is the day I should be getting it (seeing as how I keep a calendar)... and I noticed some blood, but then it kind of ebbed off. I'm not sure if it's completely stopped, but what's up with that? I've been exercising lately, something I never do, so could that be why it's weird today?

Yeah... no idea what's up. (link)
it may be that your are not eating right try taking some viteamans (sp) thats what i do cause if your not eating right than your body really replace or make the blood thats supposed to come out well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox


This girl at my school thinks she is one of my friends,but she not.How do I tell her to get away?
Please help me asap.
Shannon (link)
if the girl starts ti talk to you tell her that you dont know how she got to think it but you are not her friend and you are sorry if she thought that well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox


I am on a championship team for school but now we are playin summer basketball and this team isn't workin together and when i try to tell them they dont listen.What should I do? (link)
ok this might be kinda gay but it might work

1. give a basket ball to each player
2. write there name on it and number it 1 and 2
3. pass the balls around so each person has a new ball
4. what ever number it has on it make two people be partners
5. play two on two as a torament and have a little prize so the players will wanna work together to win well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox




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