there is never an easy way to tell a person that they aren't your friend. if you dont like her then tell her up front, that what i think. or you could get someone to tell her. whatever way you decide to do it, tell her soon, because the longer she thinks she's your friend, the more she'll get hurt... ya know? [ missing-identity-seeker's advice column | Ask missing-identity-seeker A Question ]
KATAxTHExADViCEgURL answered Sunday July 3 2005, 10:19 pm: whoa, there`s a girl in my school who`s just like that towards me.. listen, i think that you should just say it straight forward, if you don`t like her, how could she possibly be you friend, you shouldn`t have to put up with that.. just break it to her, "you know i`m not your friend right.." -- lol, i dont know, just find a way to tell her easily, that u guys aren`t friends, period.
Lilandrews13 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 5:34 pm: well dont be two faced to her. tell her that you dont really like her. yes you might hurt her feelings but why would she wanna be friends with someone that doesnt like her. she'll find other friends. just tell her that ur not as great of friends as she thinks...let her know!
x3CaRmEnx3 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 1:44 am: aw ive been in a situation before and wasnt the easiest to break to someone. just try to tell her how you feel about your friendship and that what she thinks isnt really what it is. =)* carmen [ x3CaRmEnx3's advice column | Ask x3CaRmEnx3 A Question ]
ALEXandADRIANA answered Sunday July 3 2005, 1:16 am: First, you could give her the hint that you do not want her around by ignoring her. It sounds rude, but she should get the hint. If she does not then that is pretty strange because who wants to be around someone that is ignoring them? Definitely start off by ignoring her hardcore. Do not laugh at anything she says, do not look at her, write her notes, talk to her, or anything like that. Maybe she will find someone else to cling onto. If this does not work then just make comments like "I'm trying to do my work" ...or "I have to tell my friend something, do you mind?" Say the "do you mind?" part with an edge of sarcasm. If she still does not leave you alone then be straight forward with her. [ ALEXandADRIANA's advice column | Ask ALEXandADRIANA A Question ]
crazyoutyamind answered Sunday July 3 2005, 1:15 am: if the girl starts ti talk to you tell her that you dont know how she got to think it but you are not her friend and you are sorry if she thought that well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox [ crazyoutyamind's advice column | Ask crazyoutyamind A Question ]
DearMizegan answered Sunday July 3 2005, 12:15 am: Been there, done that! =) If you don't like the girl enough to be her friend, then you shouldn't let her think that you are her friend. It's not fair to either of you. Just tell her straight up what you think. I know it is hard to tell someone something like that, but hey it is worth it in the long run.
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