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I'm a med student, so health related questions I can usually answer pretty well. I also like to think I'm somewhat decent at giving advice. I can also give you an honest opinion."I love waking up in the morning not knowing what's gonna happen or, who I'm gonna meet, or where I'm gonna wind up. I figure life's a gift and I don't intend on wasting it. You don't know what hand you're gonna get dealt next."
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. She's a nice girl but I don't have those feelings of love for her. I've been trying to wait it out, thinking that I'd start to feel the magic sometime, but it ain't happening. She's really into me and I'm just not into her. She's nice and all but that's about it. How can I dump my girlfriend without hurting her? I know I need to let my girlfriend down easy but how?
If she's really into you then there's no way you'll be able to do it without hurting her. Don't drag it on- get right to the point, and just be completely honest with her. Obviously she probably isn't going to take it that well at first but eventually she'll be happy that you were honest.
I'm a photographer and I was just wondering if anyone knew of any abandoned houses, buildings, places, etc. in or close to Rhode Island?
I've already taken pictures at the Ladd School.
Thank you! :)
I don't really know of any abandoned places but I do know the cliffwalk in Newport is really pretty and would be a good place to take pictures.
Ok so i am 13 female and i am having trouble getting a bf i mean i am pretty or so i have been told i am really curvy and pretty shy when it comes to guys I want to open and be able to feel comfortable around guys again,but not be a slut!Any advice i want to loosen up!
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At 13 most guys don't want long-term relationships, they want sex. Therefore if they know a girl is easy, they're gonna try and get with her and maybe be her "boyfriend," if that's what it takes. Don't lower your standards of many 13 year old girls. When guys mature they will respect you more. And for the part about loosening up, just be confident in your own skin and guys will see that. Everything will go from there.
my bf put his penis in me when we were fooling around. it felt real good and so i wasn't thinking to tell him not to do it. he didn't cum inside me but my period is late. i took a pregnancy test and it says +. i got scared and my friend bought 2 more tests and they both say positive too. do you think they're right? this was only the 2nd time he put it in me (the first time was only the head) and both times he didn't cum in me. how can you get pregnant like that? i havent told him yet because hes gonna freak out. im 13 1/2 and hes just 13 in this passed august.
i'm almost positive you're pregnant. learn more about sex before you start doing it.
I'm 14/f and this guy at is school is 17/m and really wanted to have sex with me and I kept telling him no no no. We were at a party and he said he'd give me $50 to let him put it in me. I don't know what I was thinking but it didn't really sound like a bad deal because I'm not a virgin anyways so it's not that big of a deal. I let him do it with me until he cummed and then just took the money and didn't say anything else about it. Well he stopped bugging me at school and so my bff was wondering why. I finally just said he gave me $50 and I let him do it with me. She was like OMG and shocked and said that's what whores do. Sooo am I a whore or a slut or something? The weird thing is I actually liked him doing it with me and so if taking the money does make me a whore maybe I should just like give him the money back or something since I did like it too? Would that fix things?
since you wanted it too i would give the money back. taking the money does make you somewhat of a prostitute. i'd give the money back and explain to him that you wanted it too or he's probably gonna tell his friends that if they want an easy hook-up to call you.
Okay my best friend just told me shes bi..And im a girl to.I dont know what to do, should I still be her friend or should I like not be..Im kinda creeped out cause I dont want her to like hit on me or nething.What should I do? Im only 14 to what should I do
don't just drop her as a friend, she confided in you and seems to trust you if she told you that. if she knows you're straight she won't hit on you.
13/f
i have dark brown eyes...i hate them...people always tell me that they love the way my eyes look..but ive ALWAYS wanted green eyes...i am a total sucker for those ;D ok..so the question is...do guys like a brown eyed girls? and do i look okay with my eyes and hair?...p.s i have long dark brown hair with like...light brown highlights i guess..and swooped bangs...o and how come -in my opinoin- guys NEVER fall for the brunette with the brown eyes??....hehe sorry theres so many questions
that's not true. i'm a girl but i've always had a thing for brown hair/brown eyed guys. it works in reverse too. no ones the same.
my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do????
well first off don't make out with your boyfriends best friends? that makes you look like a slut. break up with your boyfriend because obviously you don't like him.
My boyfriend wants to see my vag and I told him OK and planned to take a few pics of it. I kinda told my bff who was like I shouldn't do that cos somebody can hack his phone && get my nude shots later. How safe do u think it is to take pictures of my vagina && send them to his cell phone?
unless you want the world to see then absolutely not. naked pictures almost always get around no matter how much your boyfriend "loves" you. if he wants it that bad then he can wait until he sees you in person. please don't be another one of those stupid girls.
How long do concusions last?
it all depends on the severity of it. symptoms can last up to a year.
I met this guy through a friend because he thought it would benefit me. So him and I we will say JB is his name began studying Dailey. He was the guy who went out on the weekends and I stayed home and watch movies. But when we met we clicked we talked non stop and always laughed. He always said things like I’ve never enjoyed studying this much or laugh this much but it wasn’t a distraction we both got better. I had concert tickets and I knew he wanted to go so I asked him but he was waiting a friend to go who didn’t so I asked him again and was like are you to cool or what. So he was like alright so we we to the concert together and enjoyed our time. We then started doing other outdoor activities. We seen each other everyday to study and even started eating together for lunch Dailey. He went on vacation and I started to realize I had feelings for him. I knew he was the kind of guy who could have any female so I didn’t think I measure up. He wrote me when he was gone little things and I wrote him. I told him about this guys that worked with him trying to ask me on dates. When he came back he called me and some female was yelling in the background and he hung up he called back 10 mins later to apologize for her rudeness and started venting to me about his girl issues and that he had to confess that when he ready my email about other guys talking to me he was angry. So then we had lunch one day and another girl was there and my heart went to my stomach thank goodness there were 2 other people there wit me. I didn’t eat and left. He would tell me about his females and I would listen. One day ou friend was leaving so we went out he came we hung then he left to meet up with his random girl for the week well I text him later with your horrible so he called and said he was coming well I met him outside but when we got back inside the female choice of his was there I was hurt and just left from them to meet with everyone else. I ended up getting drunk throwing his shirt at him and leaving he chased me up the stairs asking me what was wrong and I told him nothing he then told me that I was lying and that I always tell him everything but tonight was different I just walked away. the next day he called and was asking why everyone was looking at him mean and that he felt out of place. I then felt bad and explained my feelings for him. He was like ok but that he didn’t want things awkward but that he wasn’t looking for a relationship. We had dinner that night and I fought to not act weird it was weird the first week. But then he started noticing things about me my hair eyes etc and then started calling me to eat breakfast, lunch and dinner with him. We now are together everyday. We started having movie night at his place instead of going out and when he does go out I go with him. Well, one night we went out and got so drunk we ended up having sex and that was not normal for me as I have only been with one person. It happen again the next night. Now it happens drunk and sober. We wake up and go bout our days. He loves to talk about it and now doesn’t go out with females he doesn’t talk to them like normal he gets mad if I leave in the morning before waking him or eating without him. His friends all know me and think that he is a dog but that he has been hurt by his ex and that he is scared to give his heart again. He friends always tell me that he says he cant keep a girl and doesn’t know how to but that I am with him 24/7 and that basically we are together but he is to stubborn to label it. They all tell me how much he talks about me and how is always saying he cares. He is moving and told me to see if I could get a job out where he is going and well I did and I move there 2 months after him. I am scared and don’t know if I should proceed with the friendship how it is or just let it go before I get hurt. He was talking to me one night he got really deep about his ex from 2 yrs ago that hurt him and how because of her he cant love or trust a female. But the thing is he is always open and honest with me and we have actually both learned to trust each other. I ask him if he still loves her and he just said if it wasn’t for her he wouldn’t be where he is now and that she was the reason as to where he is now. I was sad because if it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t be where I am. he has helped me overcome and get out of my shelter and not worry about everyone and everything. I love being with him. Sex isn’t what keeps us together that doesn’t happen Dailey. We sleep in the same bed and lately he ask me why do I even go home and he always wants me to stay over weather I sleep on the couch or on the bed. He likes showing me new things and is always there if I am sick he gets me meds cooks for me. He gets drunk and goes out telling everyone I am his girl his right hand his ride or die girl. He has told me he loves me a few times and that I am his girl while being drunk in front of his friends. I tell him the next day and he goes ok so you’re my girl and smiles. One night he even woke me up telling me not to play him he may have been sleep talking I don’t really know because I was sleeping myself. One night we stayed up talking he kissed my forehead a few times and told me he cared about me so much. He does all these things but then he says that he was scared the day I told him about my feelings because no one has ever expressed there feelings and it was to strong for him. Thanks for the time to express.
it sounds like he really likes you. it just seems that he doesn't want to label it like you said because of his ex and when he thinks "girlfriend" he thinks of how badly he was hurt. i completely understand where he's coming from. at first it sounded like he liked you alot, but then hung out with that other girl because he felt like he was getting too close to you and that things would wind up the way they did with his ex. i say keep doing what you're doing now, show him that you can be trusted and soon enough he'll realize that not everyone is out to hurt him.
so im a senior and i have no idea what i want to study in college. I want something where there isnt alot of school but when i do get a job its pretty decent and i make a decent amount of money. any ideas? thanks
usually the more schooling, the more money, except for a few cases. no one can really answer this question but yourself. go to your guidance counselor/career center and ask to take a college major test, it might give you a better idea of where you're headed.
so 19/f last semester i had a class with this really cute guy and i kind of stalked him. well he gave me his business card and i texted him and it turns out he has a girlfriend. well anyways i didn't really talk to him that much, but on facebook i apologized to him and then i deleted him from my friends because he didn't say anything so i just thought maybe he didn't care. well anyways the other day i was jamming out in my car and well lol i saw him and he saw me and looked away and smiled. and i was like hmm weird. but i didn't understand why though because i thought he hated me? and also how come he didn't say anything back to me when i apologized to him? oh and i told my friend who was also in that class with us what happened and i was like i just want to move away and change my name and he looked at me weird so idk. can someone please help me?
that's really weird. maybe he was just smiling because you were "jamming out"? haha.
I am a 12 year old turning 13 in like a couple months and I have not started puberty. I have a couple wisps of pubic hair, but my breats havent developed and I am the flattest girl in 7th grade. Will you tell me if this is okay or if it is in need of medical help?
you're fine. the age range for girls is 9-16. if nothing changes by 16 then i would see a doctor.
15/f
Okay, well my friend was talking to this guy that's been "eyein'" me lately. He asked if I was a virgin & she told him the truth, which is I'm not. He said he wasn't interested anymore.
Do guys automatically not like you after you've lost your virginity? Maybe because I'm not "pure/new" any more? Idk.
I just lost it recently. My reasons are selfish... I was lonely & felt completely unwanted. I've lost everybody this past year & I just don't know how to deal with my b.s. Am I going to lose everyone just because I lost my virginity? I know it sounds stupid, but any answer helps.
that's a stupid reason to leave. don't bother with people like that. so many more guys will accept you for you not your virginity, especially when you're older, really don't worry about it.
So theres this guy I really like. He has a girlfriend though, but i cant just give up on him. We're friends but not really good ones. I like him a lot and he doesnt like me back. What should I do? What should I do to get him to like me? And by the way, he already knows I like him.
the best thing is to leave it alone. he already knows you like him so if he wanted you he would have done something. just let it be or you'll just end up making a fool of yourself.
im 18 and i always wanted to sleep naked but every time i do i get an erection right when i get into bed naked... how can i stop this?
my sheets turn me on too lolol. just kidding. but anyways..just take care of yourself before bed. i'm pretty sure erections during sleep clothed or naked are normal though.
14/f
Please don't answer/read if you are going to be rude or preach to me because I don't care to what you have to say if you're just going to bitch. I'll do what I want thank you.
Okay so..
I recently started smoking pot over the summer. I like it so whatever. It's not like I'm an idiot though I get mostly A's and a few B's here and there so don't say it makes you dumb.. Well, this isn't the problem. I guess word got around school that I smoke weed, it's not that big of deal, but it happened after I smoked weed with a group of guys at my friends house. It's almost like they are giving me shit for it. It's like all they have to say is "Pot head" and I don't understand because hey! they smoke weed too. Why do they do this? I usually shrug it off but now it's just like STFU! They don't say it in a completely rude way but not really in a friendly way either. Why are the biggest stoners in the school calling me a pot head so much? Like anyone that I have ever smoked weed with call me a pot head. Da fuq. I don't get it. This includes my brother's friends and those guys (about six of them).
Honestly, I'm not that close to them like we talk but it's not like we are really good friends. I do wish we where close friends though because I find myself to have a lot more in common with them than with my current friends.
you can't lose brain cells from mary jj. that is false. and you can't get "addicted" either unless you make it your life basically. its not like niccotine. andd get this, you're not a pothead just cause you smoke. you're a pothead if you're a pothead. just ignore these people and don't let them get to you.
Ok, I posted a blog about a week ago, asking about my boyfriend Michael (now ex). I was having mixed emotions, so according to the advice, I broke up with him last sunday. He said he still wanted to talk to me like old times, and hang out, even. This whole week has been easy, yet hard. I told him on Thursday, I'd think about if I wanted to be with him, or if I just wanted to stay done. Friday night we went to a haunted house, he held my hand, and I started to want him back the whole night we spent together. Instead of jumping quick into the decision, I took my time. Saturday when I got off work, I picked him up, and he came to my house. We wresled like old times, and I had an urge to kiss him, so I did. I still ain't sure if I want to be with him or not. Every time I thank about taking him back, I get this iicky feeling inside telling me no, but when Im not around him, talking to him, or I thank about not being with him as a girlfriend/boyfriend, i start to feel a little heartbroken. Today, I came home from work, and called him; and he was saying he got someone to get my ex thomas killed (in my last post, he was the reason of why I was having mixed emotions). And I got pissed, and I plain out told him, I didn't want to be with him anymore, and my mind was made up. I am pretty sure I said it out of anger, but Im not too sure. Than he started crying, I mean like histerically. I felt terrible. My eyes began to water, and he said that he was so inlove with me, and I broke his heart, and he didn't know where to go from here, and I was feeling terrible. I just don't know what to do.
I want him back, but than again I don't. Im afraid my mixed emotions will come back if I do, than we will have to start ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLL over againn! Helpp! Pleasee! :(
it honestly sounds like you're just lonely and miss having someone there to talk to. i've been in the same situation. if you get an icky feeling inside of you telling you no when you're with him then that's not a good sign. you only miss him when he's gone because you're lonely. go surrond yourself in friends and try to have a good time and you'll know you wanna be with someone when you're with them.
What does it mean if you keep dreaming of a person?
you have them on your mind.