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Not a virgin.
15/f
Okay, well my friend was talking to this guy that's been "eyein'" me lately. He asked if I was a virgin & she told him the truth, which is I'm not. He said he wasn't interested anymore.
Do guys automatically not like you after you've lost your virginity? Maybe because I'm not "pure/new" any more? Idk.
I just lost it recently. My reasons are selfish... I was lonely & felt completely unwanted. I've lost everybody this past year & I just don't know how to deal with my b.s. Am I going to lose everyone just because I lost my virginity? I know it sounds stupid, but any answer helps.
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Trust me guys dont automatically dislike you. Theyre guys.
Just be you, it's nobodys business but yours.
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High school is not life, guys in high school are not indicative of what guys are like. And yes, the guy in question is an immature idiot. Guys who are into the "pure" thing are pretty much always inexperienced and insecure. It's easy to wow a girl who's never had sex. It's more intimidating when a girl might know enough about what's going on to know exactly how bad a guy is.
Either that or he's religious, which just means he's a different type of stupid, inexperienced, and insecure.
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that's a stupid reason to leave. don't bother with people like that. so many more guys will accept you for you not your virginity, especially when you're older, really don't worry about it.
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To each their own. Honestly, if he didn't want you for that reason, he's not worth it. You should be loved for who you are, not because of your virginity.
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