Question Posted Wednesday October 20 2010, 11:03 pm
I'm 14/f and this guy at is school is 17/m and really wanted to have sex with me and I kept telling him no no no. We were at a party and he said he'd give me $50 to let him put it in me. I don't know what I was thinking but it didn't really sound like a bad deal because I'm not a virgin anyways so it's not that big of a deal. I let him do it with me until he cummed and then just took the money and didn't say anything else about it. Well he stopped bugging me at school and so my bff was wondering why. I finally just said he gave me $50 and I let him do it with me. She was like OMG and shocked and said that's what whores do. Sooo am I a whore or a slut or something? The weird thing is I actually liked him doing it with me and so if taking the money does make me a whore maybe I should just like give him the money back or something since I did like it too? Would that fix things?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? DearAbby92 answered Thursday October 21 2010, 10:06 pm: Technically what you did is considered prostitution, which is illegal. Taking money for sex will not give you a good reputation, so I suggest you give the money back and never do that again. Sex should be reserved for someone you really like and trust, not just for the hell of it. You don't know what kind of diseases that guy could have or who else he has had sex with. And you are VERY young to be having sex; fourteen is not mature enough at all for this. Please be careful, it doesn't seem this way now but who you have sex with can really affect your body and your emotions.
coconutcatastrophe answered Wednesday October 20 2010, 11:13 pm: since you wanted it too i would give the money back. taking the money does make you somewhat of a prostitute. i'd give the money back and explain to him that you wanted it too or he's probably gonna tell his friends that if they want an easy hook-up to call you. [ coconutcatastrophe's advice column | Ask coconutcatastrophe A Question ]
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