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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
*~respect yourself~*

advice

You probley know what this is going to be about {cause of the title and catagoery}, and your exactly rite in what you are thinking. Heres what happened: i've been dating this guy forever
{3 years in April} and he called me up and invited to his 'fort' {i know it sounds super doofy but he and his friends built in the cloest of thier guest house and watch moivies and stuff} but anyway, i went over and he told me he was moving, i was like 'whoa'. and we cryed and hugged and kissed. he was was movin to Japan because hes a navy kid. thats like to far to go to from kansas even if you flew. so we had this big thing as to what to do and he was moving in a week. we sat there for a few hours thinking and he asked me what i thought. i said we should make this a memborable nite. {ha ha im such a slut!!} he smiled and we were like yeah we should, and we did {all of those clueless blondes out there: we had sex}. i layed there in his arms all nite and half of another day untill i relized what time it was. Our parents were out looking for us of course. we got up and got dressed and ran to meet them. they thought we ran away because we mad, so they didnt suspect a thing. me and him were all giggle and stuff so my brothers and sisters supected something but kept there mouth shut. A few days later he said he didnt regret it but felt bad about how it happened and he asked me to marry him. { keeep in mind i was a virgin, as was he, and we are 17 and 18} i said yes and me and his siblings and my siblings planned a roadtrip for a day or two before they left. we got married and it was great. when we got home he left. {sparing a few detailes}. this was a half a year ago {or so} and i dont know if should tell my parents or not. and i miss him so bad. weve talked but we have to be careful what we say. i want to go to college with him and get an apartment together, but how do we do this without my parents knowing? i havent dated or anything and they still dont get it. but theres one more thing: i'm pregnate (sp). i just dont know what to do....

oooooh... you SO have to tell your parents your pregnant but if you seriously cant tell them you have to go live with your man. just say that you are in love and you wanna live with him. if they try stop you tell them everything

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okay i liked this kid named hector a long time ago and know im goign out with this named hugo but know hector wants to do shit with me but i dont know what i should do cuz i like hugo alot weve been dating for more than 3 months and hugo had fought with hector for me well what should i do????????

dont do anything with hector. cheating is THE worst possible thing someone can do as far as i'm concered. if you want hector you have to dump hugo.

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For me, high school relationships are about gaining experience and finding what you want in a relationship. But, what happens when you find exactly what you want your first try? And, do we ever really get over anything?

well, i guess it is possible to find 'the one' straight away. but i don think it happens often. i would hate to have found the one when i was young coz then you miss out on all the fun of meeting new guys!!! and some things you dont get over...
time heals all wounds but always leaves a scar.
remember that.

~ange

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i just need opinions about things, me and my bf have been together for over a year, and i was at his house looking for paper and i found a letter from another girl. in the past we did have problems and he liked another girl but we were still together. i never knew he had this but since i found it and read it, it kinda made me mad that he kept it over 6 months since the problems. so i took it home and tore it up. i know for a fact he wont know its gone, but if he were to confront me about it, was it a good reason that i took it from him? or should i tell him before anything were to happen? thanx.

you shouldn't have torn it up. that was the evidence!!! lol. you should just confront him. he might get mad but you have a right to be mad too.

i dont know why he would keep it. either as a reminder never to do it again, or it was misplaced, or he cherishes it. you need to find out. confront him.

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my boyfriend hugged me for the first time... and it was awesome!!! the only problem was that we were both hesitant... we just stood there looking at each other... bye the way... we're both VERY shy... he says he is gonna hug me again... but he is going to surprise me... how can i make it so im not hesitant?? thanks !

youve done it once, you can do it again. there is nothing wrong with hugging so just dont worry about it. justhug him back. it aint too hard!

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ok im 13 and i wanna no should i care what people think? theres a guy i really like and he asked me out but he's like a 7! i need answers!

YOU SHOULD NEVER LET OTHER PEOPLE RUN YOUR LIFE!!! it's YOUR life. if someone has a problem with your relationship they can get fucked. it's your choice. dont let anyone tell you otherwise.

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this may sound very goody goody but.. i am so sick of everyone doing drugs and drinking.. not that im completely innocent i mean ive done it before but it seems like right now every single person is into that and half of them are doing it to forget about problems.. now i did learn about drugs and i did learn that weed can actually make depression worse and i also know that after youve done weed for a while your wanting to try a new drug so what do i do.. i hate it that my friends do drugs and drink and dont tell me to forget about them and get new friends because i love my friends.. and also.. everyone in my school does it.. whether you want to believe that or not is up to you.. but really.. the ones that dont are like .. messiahs or something.. please help
*stonecoldmystery*

I know how you feel. i hate drugs and i dont understand why people do them. you have to voice your concerns to your friends. tell them that you love them and dont want them getting hurt.

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Im afraid of getting braces cause my friend got them and they hurt for 3 days (I get really scared pretty easily). Im gettin them soon. Do they hurt wen u get them on? What happens if you lose a tooth while they're in? What happens if a tooth growns in while you hav them in? Please help......im scared.

D/W they do hurt but its way worth it at the end!!! and they wouldn't give you braces if they thought your teeth were gonna fall out!

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what are some cute names that like Gurlfriend's callthere boyfreinds... lik example like him calling her babe or something, what are some different names tht are cute to Call eachother!

i call my b/f bubs... he likes it! and when i'm teasing him i go 'awwww shnookems...' that makes him laugh.

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i saw the advice you gave btw, but how do you use a bra strap as a headband? lol im sorry im verry slow and i dont understand how that would work. thanx! xox Ari

its easy. get one of the adjustable bra straps and youknow how you hook it onto the actual bra? well theres a hook both sides. you just hook them together and tada! you got a head band!!!

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(Sorry, i wasnt sure what category to put this under!)

I'm afraid to have feelings for people and I dont know why. If I find a guy I like...and then he starts liking me, I start backing out, and its always like this. There was ONE guy that I liked a lot and he liked me a lot but then we only became friends and we were really close, you could say he hurt me because now we hate each other and hes the closest ive gotten to anybody at all...so could anyone help me with my problem? Do you know whats wrong with me??? Please help :( Im getting extremley upset.

it's not that you cant love, its that you are afraid of being hurt again. but remember this little motto...

if you dont get hurt you wont get happy.

basically you need to put yourself out there and take the risk of getting hurt. coz if you never put yourself out there you will never find the one. so risk it and good luck.

~ange

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my ex and his gf just broke up he is heart broken and i love the kid to death so feel horrible i have always just wanted to just randomly walk up to him at school and kiss him or tell him i love him but he had a gf so i respected that. they arent dating anymore so what should i do.

i reckon you should walk up to him and kiss him. its the best way to do it and it always gets results!!!

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wats the quickest way to get over a guy that you were with...wen you see him every day, and he still talks to u. But wat makes it worse is he has a new chic that hangs alll over him now...ya i dont no how to get him off my mind..wat du i do??

get yourself a guy and hang all over him in front of your ex. its the best way to move on and give him what he deserves!!!

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So there is this guy that i like and that he tells me he likes me but yet he never talks to me and he is always with other girls and the other girls say that he says he likes them!! i really like this guy so what should i do? How can i find out who he really likes?

ask him. but to me he sounds like a bit of a playa. dont get yourself hurt now!

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first off I am a thirteen year old female. ok so my crush asked me out a few weeks ago, and i was happy. (hes my first bf) We had been going out for 2 days when he gave me a note that went something like this: I really really really like you. I have since the first day I met you. I think that you are as hot as fire. Owww it burns!!! Love, Josh. Is there anyone out there who would be semi creeped out by that??? I mean its kind of flattering but really weird. Anyway he sprayed the note with his adidas musk cologne (again sweet buy scary) when I opened the note in spanish class the cologne gave 6 girls including myself an allergic reaction. We ended up with rashes all over our bodies. I'm not mad at him for it i just thought it was a little extreme. He folows me around everywhere too. I can't do ANYTHING by myself. Which was nice at first but is getting kind of old. Also he dates alot of older girls and they are giving me really dirty looks, like they're trying to kill me but they haven't figgured out how yet. When we had been going out for 5 days he asked me to the movies. HELLO were only 13 he doesn't have a car. And my parrents don't know that we're dating so they probably wouldn't be too keen on driving us. I like him and all, but I think that he is taking things way too fast, and I'm not ready yet. Should I break up with him? If yes what are some good break up lines that I can use without hurting him too much? Thanks soooo much!

man i so know how u feel!!!i had that same problem. this kid was real sweet until he was like stalking me!!! i can tell you how NOT to do it. "sorry but i'm not interested anymore, your freaking me out." thats what i said and he spread horrible rumours about me. so just try sayin that your not really ready for a relationship. good luck!

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Hey guyz, I'm on the swim team, and I think I'm pretty good. I do great at practice, but then at swim meets I get so scared and I shake the whole way there. I LOVE swimming and it's my favorite sport and hobby. But how do I overcome my fear.

Signed,

Scared Swimmer

when is it that you get scared? at competitions when your on the block? or when??? drop some more info in my inbox

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i have alot of arm hair!!!! i hate it and its dark dark brown there is just no way to hide it especially in the summer and when it isnt summer i dont ususally like to wear long sleeves well anyways my hair on my arms tends to be messy and if i lotion it it looks wayyyy to perfect does anyone know a way to keep it looking sharp without lotioning it??????

this may sound weird but yeah. my friend actually has the same problem, she gets scissors and trims the hair on her arm. ive also heard of people dying their arm hairs but thats just weird!

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the color headband i use the most is white...i kno you can wash it but im to lazy does any one know a good type of headband that wont get dirty??? doesnt have to be headband just has to be a thing thats works like one

believe it or not, *shh* adjustable bra straps!! *shh* they actually work! get a black one so its not noticable and clip it at the back. doesn't get that dirty either... i've never used it coz i have short hair but a friend of mine does and you cant even tell what it is!

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ok well what if theres a guy you like but hes a grade younger than you like your in 9th grade and hes in 8th grade....does it make a big difference? i mean i want to tell him i like him but we are like best friends...its really hard

oh one year is nothing!!!!go for it girl!!!

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i don't have a question but i read your advice to the girl who didn't know who she was and i think you did an excellent job and gave great advice!
xO LiSA*

oh thanks! :) it's good to know my advice is appreciated. :)

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