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should I break up with him???
first off I am a thirteen year old female. ok so my crush asked me out a few weeks ago, and i was happy. (hes my first bf) We had been going out for 2 days when he gave me a note that went something like this: I really really really like you. I have since the first day I met you. I think that you are as hot as fire. Owww it burns!!! Love, Josh. Is there anyone out there who would be semi creeped out by that??? I mean its kind of flattering but really weird. Anyway he sprayed the note with his adidas musk cologne (again sweet buy scary) when I opened the note in spanish class the cologne gave 6 girls including myself an allergic reaction. We ended up with rashes all over our bodies. I'm not mad at him for it i just thought it was a little extreme. He folows me around everywhere too. I can't do ANYTHING by myself. Which was nice at first but is getting kind of old. Also he dates alot of older girls and they are giving me really dirty looks, like they're trying to kill me but they haven't figgured out how yet. When we had been going out for 5 days he asked me to the movies. HELLO were only 13 he doesn't have a car. And my parrents don't know that we're dating so they probably wouldn't be too keen on driving us. I like him and all, but I think that he is taking things way too fast, and I'm not ready yet. Should I break up with him? If yes what are some good break up lines that I can use without hurting him too much? Thanks soooo much!
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just tell him what u think. if he really likes you, he'll tone down a bit. as for the movies, he probobly would't get around to it ne way. just go 4 ice cream. and as for a break up line, say this: "if you want to date girls older than you, than i must not matter that much. it's me or them."
and if he says that he'd rather be with them, it wouldn't matter that much, you've only been going out 2 days!
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you must not be ready if he is your first then you really dont know much guys are like that he wants to get to no you and i think your over reacting on the movie deal bc movies are fun and its not like he asked you to have sex or any thing so no you are not aloud to dump him give it a try longer but you can tell him to back off a lil on the stalking part
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man i so know how u feel!!!i had that same problem. this kid was real sweet until he was like stalking me!!! i can tell you how NOT to do it. "sorry but i'm not interested anymore, your freaking me out." thats what i said and he spread horrible rumours about me. so just try sayin that your not really ready for a relationship. good luck!
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Well you guys are going out right? You should be able to confront him abour these things. Tell him about your privacy and the girls. He is a bit creepy 13 and dating older girls? The knote? Well if you want to brake up with him do so, but maybe over the phone and give him your reasons.
♥ Michelle
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