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well i like this guy a lot but he has a gf n he says he likes me too well at least thats what he tels mee but i dono if hes lien n stuff soo is that one of the player type of sayings or... what is it ?????
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You really do need to learn how to spell out all of the word, not how it sounds. Why would you even want a guy that has a gf and says he likes another girl? (even if that girl happens to be you) ya, to put it bluntly> hes a player!! If a guy cant make a commitment to 1 girl at time, move on hun, hes not worth it! Hes gonna do that same to you!
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i had a question. besides the risk of stds and pregnancy why are adults so against teen sex? like parents make a huge deal out of it and i dont see why if you use male/ female condoms and are on birth control. i mean there is always still of risk of those things but they arent the end of the world. (link)
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well theres always a chance of pregnancy. parents are just looking out for their kids best interest. sex is a big deal to parents. someday when your a parent of a teenager, youll understand!
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I`m on my period. I was just in the shower and I saw all the blood coming out. Now I feel really dizzy, my neck hurts badly, and I feel like I`m going to pass out. I have a major cramp and I also feel like I`m going to throw up. We don't have any Midol and I`m home alone so my mom can`t get me any. What should I Do? (link)
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First of all, dont use midol! Use ibuprofen instead. take at least 3 when the cramps have already started. Itll take at least 20-30 mins for it to start working. If you can tell way ahead of time that youre getting cramps, take the ibuprofen right away!! Your cramps wont stand a chance! A very warm heating pad on your lower abdomen does help alot too!
I used to be the queen of cramps!
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i want to ask this guy to like this spooky woods thing.. but im kinda scared.. (feeling like an idiot if he rejects me) we are friends, and i was thinking of like, on aim, i should be like "haha, your so cool we should hang out sometime." like that? then asking him tommarow :/ but idk. can you help me? (link)
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Ok first of all, you said you were friends. Friends as far as what> some1 you just "talk" to? Friends usually hang out! If you already hung out, it wouldnt be that big of deal to get him to go with you. Do you just wanna go with him or a bunch of other people? If your going with other people, then just tell him that so and so's all going and if he wanted to come that would be so much fun. If you just wanted it to be you and him, then ask him if hes heard about this spooky woods thing, that is sounds scary, and ask him if he was thinking about going, then just go from there. The words will come! He can only say no, its not like youre asking him out!!
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Ok.. i'm going out with a guy and he smokes ..
i'm 14 and he is 15. do you think thats bad?
i rate high for good answers. (link)
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It is when you dont. I mean, its like kissing a chimney. YUCK! Thats your preference tho, if you can get past the taste and smell. No 1 can tell you its right or its wrong. Its your decision!
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Okay my boyfriend of 4 months and i just broke up. I really liked him because it seemed as though we went together longer than that because we were so close for so long but neways, it seems like everysinve we broke up every week he has said something about me and it has gotten back to me. The only problem is I dont' give a u know what about him nemore so I guess he wants me to know that he is still there. Well neways he told my best friend that he was gonna get one of his girlfriends to fight me *(note: i am not afaid of neone and he knew that if i got really mad i will beat his ***)* so i told my mommy and she called and cursed him out. I mean I don't cry I dont really worry about it so if i keep ignoring him do you all think that that will continue to hurt him instead of me fighing and arguing back with him, if i stoop to his level it's like he one right? Someone please help me what should i do? I have like so many other boys that want to go with me but i just can't jump into a relationship, so if i do go with someone do u think that will make him mad? Please help (link)
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You must not have liked him as much as you think you did, if you dont give "a you know what about" him anymore. Is there a reason why you couldnt be friends with him after the breakup? By the way it sounds, im guessing that youre the 1 that broke up with him. Thats why hes not over you and you are of him. Hes hurt and angry because you dont care. Why do you want to continue hurting him? It really sounds like you need to have a little heart to heart talk with him, but BE NICE! When you say you dont cry, your giving us the impression that your insensitive, especially to his feelings. Every1 deals with breakups differently and at different paces. Dont stoop to his level, but try to see things from his point.
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theres a boy whos 3½ years older than me and we both like eachother a lot and we want to go out and stuff. hes scared tho because we are against
the law and idk what to say to make him feel better. any suggestions? (link)
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At this stage (if youre 15 and hes 18) it does matter. If there is sex involved in your relationship, then he could get it for statutory rape. By that i mean, your parents would file charges because hes an adult!! Age should be taken into consideration, because it sounds like youre pretty young yet. Not alot of parents would feel too comfortable with their 15 yr old daughter dating an adult! He should have every reason to be scared!
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Me and my boyfriend have been in a serious relationship for 5 years. At the beginning i was a virgin and not sexually active until a year after we went out. We would make love all the time. Since December 2005, he had went away on vacation for 2 weeks and ever since he came back it seems as though we never make love, and when we do it's different. He often gets frustrated and i don't feel as loved. I had tried talking to him on several occassions, but there doesn't seem to be any improvements. I asked him if he was still attracted to me, but he said that he is, so can anyone help me, if so i would love to hear your suggestions, thanks! (link)
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Do you think he cheated on you with another girl while on vacation for those 2 weeks? That could explain alot! I would confront him if i were you.
Dont accuse him, just simply ask. Tell him you feel and sense somethings just not the same anymore like they used to be. I hope hes open and honest with you.
Good Luck!!
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Ive never really thought about this, but now I have to question it. I am 29 and have 2 kids. both were planned pregnancies. I guess my question is kind of gross, but I couldn't find out any where else. I was just wondering, what are the odds of getting pregnant if the man ( my husband) ejaculated before actual vaginal intercourse? I know before ejactulation you can get pregnant, but i'm not so sure about afterwards. It would be helpful to find out, I've missed my monthly, but took two home tests, and both were negative, but still no period...? (link)
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Its possible. Maybe try taking another pregnancy test again at a later time.
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Well heres my problem theres this one guy lets call him Joe. Well i've known Joe since like the 7th grade (im in 10th grade now) and i've always had a huge crush on him! it sux. well i think he knows and he's always like hinting at me that he likes me too. But, i dont want to get attached or become his girlfriend (he's asked me before) because he's got a rep of breaking girls hearts. But, i cant get him outta my head and i wanna get over him. but its so hard! what can i do to get over him? or should i go out with him and see what happens? but i dont want to get my heart broken i've been through it a lot. someone plz help (link)
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Hun> dont go there. If youve been through alot, then hopefully its made you smarter, and stronger. Youre probably only gonna be another notch in his belt. If you confront him about being a heartbreaker, hes gonna lie to your face. Go with your instinct! I think you already know the answer to your own question!!
Good Luck!!
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hey im a freshman in highskool and ive just been asked out by a freshman and he like almost in all my classes! when he asked me out, i though i shouldnt b a heartless bi*ch so i just said yes. i mean hes cute but like a lil brother cute. i feel like an ass**le. i will not say no now n tomm. i go bak 2 skool wat will i say wats next i dunt like him! oH MY GODDD ive made a big mistake n i need help PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me! thnxx (link)
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You have to be straight up with him.
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I'm going out with someone but there's this other guy that liked me since october then in july out of nowhere said he didnt like me anymore and it really hurt me and i never really got over him and now he says he likes me still a little bit but he likes a girl that has been my friend since i was 2 but shes all over every guy including him and it hurts for me to see them together and sometimes makes me cry even though im with someone else but i also love him too wat do i do?!PLEASE help! (link)
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sorry hun> but you cant love 2 guys at the same time. Your making it sound like you want both guys. You already have a bf. This other guy has just told you that he likes you "alittle". Thats nothing! You need to concentrate on your relationship with your bf, not some1 that liked you in the past! If your having feelings for 2 guys, you need to seriously rethink your situation. If you break up with your bf for some1 that says he likes you alittle, your gonna end up with no1!!
Good Luck!
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Hello. . .19/f here with a problem...
I met this guy about 2 months ago. We've already had sex, and we act like a couple to an extent. . spending a lot of time with each other, kissing/cuddling/ect, talking on the phone for hours... He has told me that he cares for me and loves me.
He's afraid to be in a relationship, though, because his last (very serious) girlfriend cheated on him with his brother and is now pregnant with his brother's baby. He doesn't trust anyone. He has admitted to me, though, that he holds back some of his feelings for me.
Some days, he's very sweet to me and wants to be around and is very affectionate. Other days, he's kind of cold and shuts me out a little bit. Either way, he wants to hang out; it's just the way he acts around me that varies.
He has bi-polar disorder. I'm begining to think that maybe this disorder, although medicated, is making him act this way.
So these are my questions.
1. Does anyone have manic depression/bi-polar disorder? If you do, can you tell me how this disorder effects your social skills?
2. I want to be in a relationship with him, but I don't know how to help him take that extra step to trust me. He says "I love you, but i'm not in love with you. I don't think I could be in love with anyone." How can I help him stop holding back?
I'll rate you highly if you at least try to help.
Thanks. (link)
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I went through the same thing. We both had heartache in our lives. To some extent he could be saying all that as an exuse to not make a commitment. (i know some1 who is bi-polar, and that hasnt stopped her from being in a relationship) I really liked this guy, and he told me he didnt want a gf right now, but i hear that he does stuff with other girls. Well i dont know about you, but i dont want to be used like that. Do me a favor> Stop the sex for awhile, and see if he still hangs around, but DONT let him know why. If he asks or brings it up, act like you didnt hear. You can kiss and show affection, but thats it. Its a test to see if he really wants you, or if its just the sex hes interested in! If he really wanted to, he could let go of whatevers holding him back. I mean hes not holding back on the sex, just the commitment that goes along with it! Think about it! There is a big difference between "LOVE" and being "IN LOVE"!! Dont give yourself to a guy who doesnt want to be committed to you. Sounds like he just wants to be friends with benefits!!
Good Luck!!
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((sorry if this is long!!!))
okay he's the background of whats happening ::
i was talkin to the guy i liked online and he asked who i liked. i said i didn't know and asked who he liked he said he didnt know. so im like well you have to like someone -a little-, and he still said no and asked who i liked since i had to liek someone a little too. and i said it'd be kinda pointless. and he asked why n all that stuff. i told him it was obviuos and he's like why do you like me a little? and i said yeahh and he's like well i kinda like you too. and i was happy and stuff.
soo that was like maybe a month and a half ago and i've heard all kinds of rumors. like he just wnats to sleep with me and that stuff. so i confronted him and everytime i talk to him (which is pretty oftne latley b/c im getting pissed) he's always like dont believe anything i really like you a lot, but he wont ask me out and he "doesn't know why". he says he'll call and stuff but he wont tlak to me at school and he hardly ever calls when he says he will. like seriously if he didnt tell me he liked me i'd have NOOO idea!!!
i mean you think he'd be giving me the hint to let it go and stuff by not calling but when i ask him if he just wants me to forget i ever said i liked him and just stay friends and things would be a lot better. but he says every time no please dont i really like you .. well how am i suppose to react to him ignoreing me .. i told him if to be HONEST with me and tell me to give up or not and he like is really clear that i shouldn't. but i dont know. i used to get the butterflys and all that stuff when i saw him, like i'd get nervous. but no im just plain mad, mad beats pissed! (link)
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well hes just proving to you what people have told you. That he only wants to "sleep" with you.
Seriously> dont waste your time, over some1 that doesnt give you the time of day. Ask different people that know this guy and find out exactly what type of guy he really is. He can keep telling you that he "really" likes you, but thats not what hes really means! Guys that actually like a girl, will go out of his way to talk to her, flirt with her, and even call her! Especially if he tells her he would!! Move on! Your heart will be saved in the long run!!
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Well my boyfriend of 6 months recently went off to college and things are fine we are working that part out and are for the most part, ok with the distance. But he is always telling me about these "hott chicks" he saw or talked to. He also was telling me of how his roomates ex lets him take naked pictures of her and I replied with a "Well thank you for telling me that, I needed to know (sarcasm)" and he also told me that she was going to come over and strip for them. Then told me that he was joking. I just dont know what to do, or how to approach him about it. I really want this to work but it might put a strain on our relationship if he continues it and GAH its pissing me off!!
Thank you! I will rate high for good answers:D (link)
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Very immature guy! It doesnt sound like youre relationship is gonna last if he keeps that up. Hes obviously not thinking about your feelings whatsoever! Hes just letting you know whats available to him, and is bragging to you about it. I guess you could say a few little remarks of your own right back at him and see what kind of response you get. Talk about this hott guy you saw and how hott his body was etc. Hell, whats good for the goose is good for the gander!
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ok so.. im 15/F, and the other night my boyfriend hinted (very openly) that we should have sex. and well im ok with it, but im a virgin and hes not. and well i dont know what to do, and i mean what if there are other people around (yeah most likely we'd be at a party with his friend, and his friends girlfriend who have sex like everywhere). and yeah well i dont exactly know what im asking, so im sorry for that but anything.. i mean anything would help. (link)
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Well you cant expect to ask for advice on sex, and then tell us "no lectures".
Sex isnt something that is suppose to be so casual. Its shared between 2 mature people that are in love, and doesnt "happen" at a party. Do you feel left out because you are still a virgin?
You should be proud! Youre gonna give up your virginity,(something you can NEVER take back) and this guys gonna leave you down the road. You dont sound like you have alot upstairs if you have no clue on what to do!! Hes not a virgin! He probably likes to be the first for his girls, is that why HES the 1 that suggested to have sex? Whats the matter, is he not happy with how your relationship is right now? You will regret it someday!!! Because i guarantee you and him will not last. Make a guy respect you, save yourself for when you know the time is right. You are very young, and if your gonna give it up to the first guy that comes along, your in trouble girl. Your in for alot of heartache, because thats what comes along with having sex. Girls take it more seriously than guys do at this age. Hes gonna use you and move on to another girl wholl be just like you> naive!! teenage guys talk with their dicks and not with their hearts.
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i know this is asked a LOT but..
i like this guy. by these few things, does he like me do you think?
-he whispers "(my name) is such a slut!" so i can hear it then im like yur cool nd he smiles
-he was lying down nd i layed on him nd he was like just talking to me nd smelling my hair nd putting his finger near my face..lol it was cute thou
-he wanted to c if i could bite him so hes like walking his hands down my face nd feeling my lips
-he was on the computer nd my other friend was on a computer rite next to him, i was in the middle reading both ;). well he IMs "(my name) is a whore" nd stuff like like nd im laughing or wutever
-he was playing football with everyone nd he goes "come on (my name) tackle me!" (so i did hahaha, i was the only one that could, was he being easy on me..?)
-i sat next to him on the couch nd he goes "eww i dont want to sit next to (my name)" nd i just ignore it while he puts a pillow between us. then he goes "im just kidding u kno that right?"
-my friend who he was IMing next to me, she said "i think he likes you!"
do u think..?
ps-ill rate 5's for EVERYTHING thats not smart a**! cause this was long! (link)
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i guess, but he has a sick sense of humor though.
Even if the guy is joking, its at your expense! If i were you, i wouldnt jump everytime the guy wants you to!! Your giving him the impression your kinda easy, and that anything he asks you to do, youll do! Make him respect you, by playing just alittle harder to get. Just be careful what hes asking of you, because he could be leading up to more, knowing youre doing everything he asks of you already. So just proceed with caution!! You gotta watch out for those "players".
Good Luck!!
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my best friend is a guy. he has been going out with a girl in our group of friends (who i can't stand) for about a month. whenever she isn't around, he is goofy and talkative and fun. but when she is there..it's like i'm invisible. he'll answer whatever i say to him with a short answer..but he'll never say anything to me besides that. after a meeting for our dance (we are both on the committee..along with his gf) i tripped him as he was going out the door. usually he would grin and say something clever..but he just kept walking and didn't say a word. i was talking to my friend about it and i decided i would just go along with it while we were waiting for our rides and see what he does. so we just stood there and talked..like right next to him. i didn't say a word to him. once she left, he came over to talk to me. i didn't want to be mean, so i would answer him..and eventually i was talking. i want to talk to him about it..but i don't want to make it seem like i'm jealous..even though i pretty much am. i just don't see why i have to be completely invisible. what should i do? (link)
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Well, its obvious he really likes his gf, and he probably feels that if he talks to other girls while shes around, she might get mad. Alot of guys are like that. Shes proud that hes giving all his attention to her. If i were you, when ever theres a time shes not around him, and he starts talking to you, i would simply say, "hey, if im not good enough to talk to while youre gf is around, then you shouldnt be talking to me when shes not"!! He has to realize that it is ok to talk to other girls in front of his gf, and if its not, then his friendship isnt worth your time!! Basically its his loss!
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A guy who i REALLY like left me a message on IM saying HEY HOLLA HOLLA HOLLA! (link)
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It means to talk to him!!
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Okay. Me an this gurl have been friends since the 6th grade, and now were freshman. We told each other everything we were like each others other half. Everytime you seen me you seen her. Well last November we went to the mall and to eat an bowling. Well while were there I met this guy that I have been with now for a year next month. An every since about January Mine an the gurls friendship has just broke. We would always get into it. And everytime something happened we blamed each other for it. Well everytime me an her got into it i told drew (my boyfriend) we he started disliking her because she always hurt me. As me an her drifted apart me an Drew got closer an closer. We became *bestfriends* I tell him everything an he tells me everything. Now he doesn't even like when I talk to her because he says shes a bad influence on me. Shes always trying to bring up our old friendship an how she misses it. And of course, I miss it just as much. But Shes not my bestfriend anymore .. Drew is. He knows stuff about me that no one knows. An I kno stuff about him that no one knows. We just so close. And she always brings up how he took me away from her an stuff. And I dunno what to do I wanna be friends with her but I don't think we'll ever be as close as we were. (like vacations together an stuff) And Drew doesn't want me hanging out with her, like going to her house an places. An sometimes when I do he gets like extreamly mad. So I dunno what to do? Ahhhh. Help! (link)
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You need gfs in your life, not just your bf. Who are you gonna have stand up in your wedding someday if you ditch all your friends? Your bf needs to understand that its ok to rely on each other, but you both also need to have your own friends!! How is this girl a bad influence on you? Does she do drugs or drink? Does she tell you to break up with your bf? Sorry, but shes just upset that your devoting ALL your time to your bf, and your not giving her any, which isnt right!! Dont let your bf tell you that you CANT hang out with your friend!
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