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really confused ...


Question Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 3:32 pm

((sorry if this is long!!!))
okay he's the background of whats happening ::
i was talkin to the guy i liked online and he asked who i liked. i said i didn't know and asked who he liked he said he didnt know. so im like well you have to like someone -a little-, and he still said no and asked who i liked since i had to liek someone a little too. and i said it'd be kinda pointless. and he asked why n all that stuff. i told him it was obviuos and he's like why do you like me a little? and i said yeahh and he's like well i kinda like you too. and i was happy and stuff.

soo that was like maybe a month and a half ago and i've heard all kinds of rumors. like he just wnats to sleep with me and that stuff. so i confronted him and everytime i talk to him (which is pretty oftne latley b/c im getting pissed) he's always like dont believe anything i really like you a lot, but he wont ask me out and he "doesn't know why". he says he'll call and stuff but he wont tlak to me at school and he hardly ever calls when he says he will. like seriously if he didnt tell me he liked me i'd have NOOO idea!!!


i mean you think he'd be giving me the hint to let it go and stuff by not calling but when i ask him if he just wants me to forget i ever said i liked him and just stay friends and things would be a lot better. but he says every time no please dont i really like you .. well how am i suppose to react to him ignoreing me .. i told him if to be HONEST with me and tell me to give up or not and he like is really clear that i shouldn't. but i dont know. i used to get the butterflys and all that stuff when i saw him, like i'd get nervous. but no im just plain mad, mad beats pissed!


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gina answered Saturday October 15 2005, 2:47 pm:
Honestly girl, drop him like a bad habit! Look, (1) he ignores you at school, (2)he's not being honest with you in other words he's playing games, (3) he doesn't call when he says he will, (4) there's rumours (for some reason) that he wants to sleep with you. If i were you i would get over him, because you're going to get hurt, guys like him are immature and nothing but trouble! It sounds to me that he wants only one thing! Ask him why he doesn't call and why he ignores you at school. If he doesn't have a good enough reason (which there isn't) let him go! I know it's easier said then done, but you don't want to get hurt!

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angelfire2708 answered Thursday October 13 2005, 6:13 pm:
well hes just proving to you what people have told you. That he only wants to "sleep" with you.
Seriously> dont waste your time, over some1 that doesnt give you the time of day. Ask different people that know this guy and find out exactly what type of guy he really is. He can keep telling you that he "really" likes you, but thats not what hes really means! Guys that actually like a girl, will go out of his way to talk to her, flirt with her, and even call her! Especially if he tells her he would!! Move on! Your heart will be saved in the long run!!

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ShYbl0nD3 answered Thursday October 13 2005, 4:32 pm:
well guys are confusing. but to be honest it might be true that he just wants to use you. alot of guys do that because they cant conrol them selves. and maybe hes not calling or asking you out because he doesnt want to hurt you that way and he knows that if he would that it would turn out all wrong.

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