Me and my boyfriend have been in a serious relationship for 5 years. At the beginning i was a virgin and not sexually active until a year after we went out. We would make love all the time. Since December 2005, he had went away on vacation for 2 weeks and ever since he came back it seems as though we never make love, and when we do it's different. He often gets frustrated and i don't feel as loved. I had tried talking to him on several occassions, but there doesn't seem to be any improvements. I asked him if he was still attracted to me, but he said that he is, so can anyone help me, if so i would love to hear your suggestions, thanks!
Zoe_11 answered Saturday October 15 2005, 5:31 am: I would basically just tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him you feel he has been different in some way since he has gotten back from vacation, you dont have to say you think he cheated on you (which i think is a good possibility)but there has to be a reason as to why he is so diff. It could simply be stress...but the only way to know for sure is to just put your feelings on the table, let him know how you feel. Hope things work out. [ Zoe_11's advice column | Ask Zoe_11 A Question ]
angelfire2708 answered Friday October 14 2005, 3:25 pm: Do you think he cheated on you with another girl while on vacation for those 2 weeks? That could explain alot! I would confront him if i were you.
Dont accuse him, just simply ask. Tell him you feel and sense somethings just not the same anymore like they used to be. I hope hes open and honest with you.
Good Luck!! [ angelfire2708's advice column | Ask angelfire2708 A Question ]
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