Member Since: October 14, 2005
Answers: 3
Last Update: October 15, 2005
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I dont understand why guys dont like me. I am not really that ugly. i am smart. i am involved in a lot of after school activities. i also do a couple sports. i am nice to everyone. he acts like he likes me (some things he says). but then he doesnt act like he likes me. y doenst anyone like me? (link)
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Confidence is key. I use to be really shy and quiet also in high school and i only had one boyfriend the whole time i was in high school. When i went to college i completly changed and became really outspoken. In college i noticed more guys hitting on me...and when talking to many of my guy friends they have always told me confidence was key. Guys love a girl who is confident in herself. Guys dont Necessarily like a girl who has low self esteem. It sounds like you might have some low self esteem. Start thinking positive. If a guy you like doesn't notice you instead of worrying about whats wrong with you, think of it as his loss. He is the one missing out on getting to know a great person. Try to come across more positive when around ppl and hopefully you will begin to notice a difference. Good luck and i hope i helped.
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Me and my boyfriend have been in a serious relationship for 5 years. At the beginning i was a virgin and not sexually active until a year after we went out. We would make love all the time. Since December 2005, he had went away on vacation for 2 weeks and ever since he came back it seems as though we never make love, and when we do it's different. He often gets frustrated and i don't feel as loved. I had tried talking to him on several occassions, but there doesn't seem to be any improvements. I asked him if he was still attracted to me, but he said that he is, so can anyone help me, if so i would love to hear your suggestions, thanks! (link)
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I would basically just tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him you feel he has been different in some way since he has gotten back from vacation, you dont have to say you think he cheated on you (which i think is a good possibility)but there has to be a reason as to why he is so diff. It could simply be stress...but the only way to know for sure is to just put your feelings on the table, let him know how you feel. Hope things work out.
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okay, so i REALLY like this guy.. and he says he likes me.. and we are liked "together" but not going out.. like we are basically dating.. but we have a commitment like we cant date other people. and he comes to my house every friday and he like kisses me and holds my hand and stuff.. but he will hardly ever hug me at school.. is he just playing a gam? (link)
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I would just explain to him exactly what you said, let him know you are confused about what you guys are. And let him know how you feel about how he acts around you at school. I dont Necessarily think he is playing with you. He could just be shy about those things in public. I def. thought would talk to him about your feelings, it all could just be a misunderstanding.
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