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boyfriend?


Question Posted Friday October 14 2005, 10:58 pm

okay, so i REALLY like this guy.. and he says he likes me.. and we are liked "together" but not going out.. like we are basically dating.. but we have a commitment like we cant date other people. and he comes to my house every friday and he like kisses me and holds my hand and stuff.. but he will hardly ever hug me at school.. is he just playing a gam?

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milliethu answered Sunday October 16 2005, 6:21 pm:
ok, so you really are 'going out', witch is dating without seeing other people. do people know you 2 'like eachother'? if so, i wouldnt be to worried. maby hes just not into the hole p.d.a. stuf (publicly displayed affection)but if noone knows about the 'thing' you 2 have than i would ask him if he wants to make it offical and see how he reacts. hope i helped

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crazychics1 answered Sunday October 16 2005, 1:15 am:
Well I don't think he is playing a game I just think that he is scared to let his friends see that he isn't completely with you.He might think they will think you rejected him. If you really like him and feel like he likes you, you should make it official and start really being together.Hope I helped!

Brandi && Alix

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GoAskMaggie answered Saturday October 15 2005, 11:17 pm:
No, I don't think he is. I used to have a friend who had a boyfriend who flat out refused to show affection in public. Alot of the time, this is due to the boyfriend's fears of what people will say about him (not about him and you as a couple but about him specifically) Sometimes, guys just don't like to show affection in public at all so dont be concerned

Maggie

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celeratethetimescomeon answered Saturday October 15 2005, 7:09 pm:
No.. I don't think so I just think he's embarassed to be hugging his girlfriend (no offence- sorry)


*Hope I Helped*
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xHC0Barbi3x answered Saturday October 15 2005, 6:05 pm:
♥ Hey, babe.
I think he really likes you. BUT. Hes a little inmature. He might be a little emberassed in front of his friends. & its not because of you, its just him. I would talk to him about it.

♥ GOOD LUCK !!

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mob-boss answered Saturday October 15 2005, 4:34 pm:
some boys dont like to hug their gfs in front of thier friends

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Mckick answered Saturday October 15 2005, 12:51 pm:
I don't think that your b/f now matter how you look at it. He's not playing you. Your boyfriend is probably one of those guys that doesn't like to show his affection in public. Be happy that he made a commitment not to date other people that is a good thing. Hope that things go good for you.

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sbloemeke answered Saturday October 15 2005, 12:17 pm:
Not really. Togetherness is the state between dating and friends. I've been in it. It means that he does not need the same commitment to you yet. It is fine if he doesn't hug you at school. It just shows that he's not ready to show an outwards relationship yet. He will eventually.
He is not trying to trick you with this. He does like you, or he'd never come over. It's just his own personal insecurties that are getting him.

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soccer_crazii answered Saturday October 15 2005, 10:26 am:
i dont know, he may be too shy to make a move, so maybe ask him yourself. if he says no he might be playin a game and using you. If he says no, do what he said not to do: DATE OTHER GUYS.

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Zoe_11 answered Saturday October 15 2005, 5:14 am:
I would just explain to him exactly what you said, let him know you are confused about what you guys are. And let him know how you feel about how he acts around you at school. I dont Necessarily think he is playing with you. He could just be shy about those things in public. I def. thought would talk to him about your feelings, it all could just be a misunderstanding.

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Imdacrazy1 answered Saturday October 15 2005, 1:55 am:
i would ask him cause u need to know cause if he is you need to move on wit ur life and not have to wunder if he is or not so i hope i helped :)

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RubbaDucky answered Saturday October 15 2005, 12:02 am:
hes not playin a game he just usin you

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