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Wow...it cant get more embarassing than this
wow....so this is going to sound strange, I'm sure but you did say you were up for all types of questions, right? Good. Okay so when Im having sex with my boyfriend, sometimes, his....um his penis gets so enlarged that its too big for my...you know...my hole and then sex hurts. When I tell him it hurts and that he should stop he does it harder and gets more turned on and like...um...like...grabs on to my boobs and hurts me more. It's notlike he's being abusive...hes just...horny. What do I do?
-Bruised Beaver-
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Boyfriend or not make it bloody clear to him that if something hurts he's to stop no matter what. If he doesn't push him off, get up and tell him to go home. I'm serious. He should learn some respect.
In a lot of cases involving sex if one person says no, get off, it hurts, stop etc. they have to stop. It can and often is considered assault no matter who they are if they don't.
Let him know that no matter how turned on he is that when he hears STOP that's it. Even if you have to shove me off of you he'll get it.
Although, I'm a male I'm not sure why his penis would get that swollen so that it cannot enter your vagina. I can recommend that you do something else sexually until it can be inserted without that level of pain.
The other thing is that he could relieve the problem himself through masturbation and let his erection die. Then, when his penis isn't swollen so much resume sexual activity with you.
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Bruised Beaver,
Don't be embarassed. This happens to alot of women. Sometimes, two people genetically ust aren't made to be together. You need to sit your boyfriend down outside of when your having sex and explain to him that when he pushes harder while his penis is enlarged it is painful for you. If he is really a good boyfriend, he will understand.
Also, there are certain drugs that men can take so that they still get erections but their penises don't puff out in that way that it hurts you. If you still want to engage in sexual intercourse and your boyfriend is willing to take these drugs, consult your doctor. Good Luck!
Maggie
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