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Q: ok i go out with this guy and i really like him and all but the school year is almost over and were not going to the same school next year and we are hardly ever going to see each other. what do i do??
Just talk to him! get to know him even better, even if your not goin to the same school next year, find other ways to hangout with him. you can go to the movies, to the mall, or any thing else you want to do to have fun! hope we helped!

ALIX && BRANDI

Q: am i a hoe!!
it is hard to say b//c ii dont even know who you are! send me an E~mail with ur name and ii mite be able to help u out! cheerchic2182@aol.com




Brandi && Alix!

Q: well i like/liked this boy and i think he kinda likes me too but recently i found out one of his best girl friends likes him too. i know i don't have a chance but what should i do?
you should talk to your friend maybe she doesnt like him just talk to her about it!

Hope we can help

Brandi *&* Alix

Q: wwazzzuupp..this is gabe ..(13/m)theres this cutie named alix..she dosent like me ..but i like her...i dont know what to do ..so my question is ..should i take it to the next level by talkin to her? lol
well idk what you should do lol and thanks for calling me a cutie!!!

~Alix*

Q: ok...i have this friend (my ex.)and i broke up with him 4 the stupidest reason ever!my dad didnt like him and he said he wont talk 2 me till i break up with him,and i could not have that.. so the next day i told him what happened and we were over!10 min.later i find out he has a newgirl and i was so upset cuz the nxt time i saw him i wanted 2 get back wit him1i still like him and all and his gurl found out and she is mi friend1and shes MAD at me now!!What do i do???? 12/f
Have you tried talking to your dad? Try to find out why he doesnt't like this guy and try to work things out. As for the guy, it's ok to still like him. Let him know that you still like him and are really sorry. And also talk to your friend and tell her what happened, if she was truely your friend she would understand. I think that family is WAY more important than a boyfriend and you should really try to stay tight with your dad! Hope I helped!!

Brandi && Alix

Q: Does anyone know any cheer websites that i can go to?? I need it fast!!! Please and Thank You.
14/f
I am a cheerleader and I know exactly how to help you out! Here are some of the top websites I go to!

1) www.eccats.com (this is the cheer school I go to!)
2) www.whatisprox.com

These are the top two that really help me!Hope i helped!

Brandi && Alix

Q: ok, my names danielle and im 13/f. theres this boy i like in a prep course i go to, his names daniel (lol). someone in his class read my xanga and read an entry that said i liked him, and she told him. he wasnt sure which danielle it was so he asked me for my last naem and i told him and then he smirked and left. today at the prep course, he was walking with me on teh way to class and told me that he knew i liked him. he didnt act weird or anything, but when we went through a tight dorrway, he tried to squeeze through with me and i think he tried reaching for my hand. now my question is, does it seem like he likes me? i rate. smartasses will be reported and given a bad rating. thanks. nellie x0x
If he told you that he knew you liked him he must have some sort of feeling for you. If he didn't like you i don't think he would hurt you like that. If he reached for your hand he might have been trying to let you know that he did like you but didn't know how to actually say it. Hope everything works out!

Brandi && Alix

Q: I'm an Aethiest. I strongly believe that there is no god. I respect other people's religions, and I don't try to convert people or anything. Now, I've been in scouting for years. Lots of years. From a Tiger Cub Scout in 1st grade to a First Class scout now (I'm kind of slow with scouting). Anyway, the requirement for every class that says to live the Scout Oath and Scout Law in your every day life is now being enforced. My parents made me describe each part of the Law and Oath in great depth. When we reached Brave and Clean, I was starting to slip up. And then we reached Reverent.

Boy Scouts expects everyone to believe in some sort of god, and be straight. Gays and Aethiests have been kicked out in the past. And since Boy Scouts is a private thing, government can't interfere. People have tried to sue and lost the case. Now, I want to keep scouting. I love being a Boy Scout. Plus, it'll look good on my job application forms when I'm old enough that it won't be against child labor laws. =P So my options are:

a) Quit scouting (I don't want to. Really.)

b) Believe in a god (I'm not going to change my beliefs because of this. It's not in human nature.

c) Lie about my religion (Also against the Scout Oath. Not good.)

So obviously, I'm screwed. What should I do? It's putting so much pressure on me...
Try talking to your scout leader. Let them know what you are thinking about. Tell them how much you enjoy scouting but really don't believe in changing your religion for such a cause. Just see what happens, maybe they will understand! Good Luck with everything!

Brandi && Alix

Q: my bestfriend that's a girl just broke up with her boyfriend today i really like her and have liked her for two years i don't want to be her rebounder but i still want to go out(m13)
Drop hints that you like her when you hang out. After she gets over her breakup ask her out. Even if she was the one that broke up with him it can still be difficult. Hope we helped!

Brandi && Alix

Q: I have never had a b/f. I am going to be a freshman next year and I am going to a tough highschool where everyone has at least m/o with 10 ppl. I like this one guy but he is a year younger than me and i don't know if he likes me. PLus he is my partner for a long term project. What should I do.

13/F
Try talking to his friends and find out what he likes. Start hanging out with him more outside of school and ask his friends if he says anything about you or about liking you. If they say know keep hanging out with him and get to know him...you never know what might happen! Let us know how it goes!

Brandi && Alix

Q: i think im pushing people away but i dont know why. ive only liked a couple of guys in my lifetime (im 17/f) and what happens is i really really like them, but then when they start to like me back, i begin to find them repulsive. for no reason at all. i dont understand. nothing about them changes at all, i just decide that i hate them. why do i do this??
Maybe you do this because you are scared of possibly being rejected or eventually being broken up with. Try to open up and allow youself to continue thinking of them in the same way. Good Luck!

Brandi && Alix

Q: When I get made at my mom because of something she said to me or something she wont let me do I get really really upset and basically start talking back to her and saying things I shouldn't then storm upstairs. After a few minutes of being unbelievably mad, I realize that I over reacted and go back down stairs and ask her if she needs help or something. It happens all the time. And because I do it alot, my mom now thinks I have mood swings. But, I don't, I just always feel sorry about the way I talked to her. I know it's something I need to change and I'm working on it because I know I shouldn't treat her that way. But, while I’m working on it, how can I convince her that I do not have mood swings?
Just tell her one day that you need to talk to her. Sit down with her and explain how you feel after you get in fights. Let her know that you are trying really hard to stop fighting with her and see what she says and ho she feels about the situation. Hope we helped!

Brandi && Alix

Q: There's this girl in my class her name is brandi !! and i love 'er to death and now she has this advice colum and she told me how she didnt have ne one ask her ne thing so i was like well maybe ill try to help the one giving advice !!lol
I am sure she will really appreciate that! It seems like you are a great friend and she is very lucky to have met you!

Brandi && Alix

Q: okay, so i REALLY like this guy.. and he says he likes me.. and we are liked "together" but not going out.. like we are basically dating.. but we have a commitment like we cant date other people. and he comes to my house every friday and he like kisses me and holds my hand and stuff.. but he will hardly ever hug me at school.. is he just playing a gam?
Well I don't think he is playing a game I just think that he is scared to let his friends see that he isn't completely with you.He might think they will think you rejected him. If you really like him and feel like he likes you, you should make it official and start really being together.Hope I helped!

Brandi && Alix

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