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I dont understand why guys dont like me. I am not really that ugly. i am smart. i am involved in a lot of after school activities. i also do a couple sports. i am nice to everyone. he acts like he likes me (some things he says). but then he doesnt act like he likes me. y doenst anyone like me?
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Confidence is key. I use to be really shy and quiet also in high school and i only had one boyfriend the whole time i was in high school. When i went to college i completly changed and became really outspoken. In college i noticed more guys hitting on me...and when talking to many of my guy friends they have always told me confidence was key. Guys love a girl who is confident in herself. Guys dont Necessarily like a girl who has low self esteem. It sounds like you might have some low self esteem. Start thinking positive. If a guy you like doesn't notice you instead of worrying about whats wrong with you, think of it as his loss. He is the one missing out on getting to know a great person. Try to come across more positive when around ppl and hopefully you will begin to notice a difference. Good luck and i hope i helped.
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you dont know for all u know he could think u are hot but he just i guess dont want his frends to know i have had sum1 to do that to me 2
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I can totally relate to your dilemma. I think that because you are so nice to everyone, that guys don't think of you as a challenge. Guys in Highschool are still really immature and tend to go for the girls that are known as bitches.
Also, because you are nice the guys probably feel more comfortable around you and think of you as more of a friend than a girl that they would want to date.
I never had any dates all through highschool. I was attractive but was the nice girl that everyone wanted to copy off her notes. The guys respected me so never thought of wanting to get in my pants.
But trust me, things will change once your out of highschool.
Oh, by the way, the guys do like you but because of peer pressure they usually only go for the easy gurls.
hope this helped
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