Okay my boyfriend of 4 months and i just broke up. I really liked him because it seemed as though we went together longer than that because we were so close for so long but neways, it seems like everysinve we broke up every week he has said something about me and it has gotten back to me. The only problem is I dont' give a u know what about him nemore so I guess he wants me to know that he is still there. Well neways he told my best friend that he was gonna get one of his girlfriends to fight me *(note: i am not afaid of neone and he knew that if i got really mad i will beat his ***)* so i told my mommy and she called and cursed him out. I mean I don't cry I dont really worry about it so if i keep ignoring him do you all think that that will continue to hurt him instead of me fighing and arguing back with him, if i stoop to his level it's like he one right? Someone please help me what should i do? I have like so many other boys that want to go with me but i just can't jump into a relationship, so if i do go with someone do u think that will make him mad? Please help
gina answered Saturday October 15 2005, 3:27 pm: I think you should definately not stoop to his level. Be more mature, in order to get over him ignore him and find a new love interest! Let him see what he lost! [ gina's advice column | Ask gina A Question ]
angelfire2708 answered Friday October 14 2005, 10:59 pm: You must not have liked him as much as you think you did, if you dont give "a you know what about" him anymore. Is there a reason why you couldnt be friends with him after the breakup? By the way it sounds, im guessing that youre the 1 that broke up with him. Thats why hes not over you and you are of him. Hes hurt and angry because you dont care. Why do you want to continue hurting him? It really sounds like you need to have a little heart to heart talk with him, but BE NICE! When you say you dont cry, your giving us the impression that your insensitive, especially to his feelings. Every1 deals with breakups differently and at different paces. Dont stoop to his level, but try to see things from his point. [ angelfire2708's advice column | Ask angelfire2708 A Question ]
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