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I use to be on this site all the time. Got sick of reading the same exact questions and basically copying and pasting my answers because no one cared to read questions asked before them. So I left and haven't really been on here.
Ps. I'm not perfect and my advice isn't always right. & sometimes I choose to make it sound like you will get hurt more than you actually will to prevent people from doing stupid things. Like if I get drunk what can happen? Well i might just say you can die.....stretching the truth but I think its better than having people go out and get drunk. Plus you can die but you would have to have alcohol poisoning.

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i have naturally curly hair, and i want to straiten it. i have a revlon flat iron and it works ok, but it makes my hair look dry, and burned...i use silk therapy, but it still looks dry. do you know any straitner under 50 dollars that will straiten my hair, but not burn it? thank you so much!

Under $50 you won't get anything good. The least is a $100 which sucks because mine does the same thing. But to be honest I don't think even the 100 will do that for you. My friends have those and I have tried them I still feel they dry your hair. I saw an infomercial for one and that seemed like a great one but yea. Sorry I wish I could have helped more.

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i always try many different shampoos conditoners and liquid bodywashes and none of them seem to feel or smell good. does anybody know any of those three things that smell and feel sexy?

i rate high if you dont give me soap bars and 2 in 1 shampoo and conditioners!

For body wash I love "sweet pea" from bath and body works.

For shampoo -herbal essences is great
Not sure for a conditioner

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on myspace there is a user (imalayoutchick) sumthing like that and she makes layouts...does anyone know the exact link to her page?thanks!

http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=7039108&Mytoken=20050101104128

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I am so tired of people writing "liek dis" Spell correctly so that you can actually get some advice! I don't even know how those questions even appear on the site if it's not even understandable...Does anyone agree with me or am I just illiterate?

It can get annoying maybe there should be a spell check option before you submit something.

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Does anyone know where I could get some myspace layouts?Don't say they don't have any because I know for a fact they do, but I already checked out those sites.Your help is appreciated!

here are a few
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=7039108&Mytoken=20050101104128
http://www.pimpwebpage.com/
http://www.strikefile.com/myspace/index.htm

have fun

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Okay i really like this guy Nate.He's a stoner and not exactly my type. He's wild and is all into sex and drugs and basically uses girls for action. I love him to death though even though i know he's totally wrong for me. but there is something i about him that i just love. Actually he gets mad at me and doesn't like telling me things because when he does i act like his mom and tell him how everything he thinks is bad. And drugs are bad and doing oral sex is bad.I was always brought up to think that way and because he does it i feel like maybe it's okay. I would never do weed or anything like that i have more sense.

But recently he told me he likes this girl who lives in Virgina who is 18.And wants to drive up to see him and thinks he's hot. Him and I both live in RI. I'm scared of losing him because i've known him for so many years and i still have feelings for him. Even if he is an asshole there is something that always hold me back and i just want to be with him. He knows i like him, i don't think he cares. Otherwise he would of done something, maybe.

I'm so jealous of this new girl i feel like she is taking him anyway from me.. what should i do? Is he too wrong for me and i should give up? I try liking other people but i always go back to liking him. he's hard to let go, i think it's because i don't think he's really as bad as he is and he was my first boyfriend.

Ok I know who this is. Hard to not know. I've known you for ever and a day. Anyway, it’s not wrong that you were brought up that way. I was brought up the same way hence our moms best friends and all. Well what he does isn't right and you shouldn't think its ok just because he does it. About the whole acting like a mother thing that’s what I use to always do until I realized that by doing that they keep more secrets from you and you become more distant. Just keep your opinions to your self. It's his life, it's his mistakes to make and you have to let him make them. Some people have to reach rock bottom until they realize what it all does to them. Now this Nate has been someone I have heard about forever. So you like him a great deal why I have no clue but that’s not my decision and you have to decide what this will do to your life in the way of what type of person he is and what kind of choices you will make while with him. This new girl is a real jock though. Don't even waist a min thinking about it. Save your energy for track and math h.w. Why is she a jock? ok first of she lives in Virginia I really don't think an 18 year old girl would come to NY to be with a 14/15 year old guy. It's all a big joke. 1. he’s messing with you, or 2. she’s messing with him. If by god knows what means she does come it won't be long until she is gone. You on the other hand have always been there for this kid and seems like you always will be so in the end; if you don't act like his mom he will come to you and fill you in on the details. I can't tell you who's right or wrong for you but you my dear deserve a lot more I will tell you that much. I would suggest moving on and finding someone who is worth wasting the time over but the final decision lies in your hands. About the whole going back to him thing, well I've been there done that. Until I did go out with him and after it was over I saw what a big asshole and jerk and everything else he was. When you like or love someone you don't see clearly. You see beyond the imperfections, you see and imperfect person perfectly. How to stop that? Well you somehow have to show your own self what he really is and how much better you can and should get. I hope this helped even a little. If anything just ask me. You have my Aim and my #. I know we only each other once every couple of years but I'm always there for you.
*Much love*

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im 13 and ive never had my period but ive ad the white stuff that comes before it for like 2 years. is this normal? and how long after the white stuff does your period come? thanks a lot.

yea it is normal. It's diffrent for everyone so I wouldn't be able to tell you in how long your period would start. I don't think it's a yeast infection, but if you want to find out more just go to the Gyno.

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I heard that when a girl masterbates, she sticks things up her vagina. Like what? I dont really understand that.

Fingering, dildos, vibraters....what ever makes you feel good.

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Hi Does anyone know any sites that have LiveJournal layouts? thanks for all your help.

http://www.livejournal.com/userinfo.bml?user=_truely_layouts
http://www.livejournal.com/userinfo.bml?user=0_layouts_4_pie

Those are two communites. There are a lot though just do a search on livejournal. I can make one but I'm to lazy to even change mine. If you can't get anything to work for you I'll help you make one.

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I'm 15/f and a freshman in highschool. Lately I've been having problems with my phys. ed. teacher. I'm not going to be around the bush about this, but he's an asshole. (excuse my language). He's always such a jerk to me about every little thing. A friend of mine had a shirt on that she changed into for PE that had a picture of George Bush Sr. and George Bush on it and it sayd Dumb and Dumber under their pictures. He had a fit about it and I was supporting her saying that she can have an opinion about whatever the heck she wants to. He basically said she's not allowed to have an opinion about it until she's 18. Then he proceeded to say how he can run his class the way he wants to and if I have a problem with it to take it up with the principal. Not only is he a jerk, but alot of the time he seems like one of those really creepy pedophile type people. He's always staring at me when we do stretches and stands behind me when we're doing toe- touches. We had to do jumping jacks this weird way and I'm not coordinated enough to do it so he asked me to stay after class about it. We were doing lay ups when we played basketball and I suck at any sport that involves a ball and he asked me to stay after class to work on it when there were about 5 other people that sucked 10 times worse than me but didn't ask them to stay after. What exactly should I do about this? I mean, he hasn't made "a move" on me so I can't really say much about that but what should I do? Sorry this was long!

Go to guidence and change your teacher. Tell them that you feel weird around him and what the problem is and they have to change you. If they don't and anything ever happenes well you can sue. About the shirt it's her first amendment to have freedom of speech and press. Therfor it's wrong but yet schools are like that. If enough people sue them for not being able to express them selves maybe something will change.

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hi, i'm new to this subject, how often do you recommend changing a tampon? and is it okay for ppl who just got their 'aunt flow' visit for the first time recently to wear them? thanks

About every four hours. You can get TSS from not changing it often enough. To often is bad as well though. Make sure you use the right size depending on your flow. It is ok to start usuing them but try usuing pads so you know what type of flow you usually have or on what day what type of flow.

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Ok i know this will sound stupid but i dont know maybe it means nothing but when someone types

It's a heart. in some fonts "e>" that's a heart to. Along with some others.

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Ok on AIM I just downloaded Applesauce and everything was working great until I hit the button that says Update Aim. Then a window pop up saying that it couldn't find my buddylist window? I don't get it!

I don't get it either, but mine does the same thing. It updates it anyway though. The away messages usually just change but for the font that window pops up, yet still changes it. ::shrugs::

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my step-dad made me download mozilla firefox because it is supposed to be better than microsoft internet explorer.. so my question is.. is it really better? and i also am having a problem seeing my mail on optium online

It's not the best with html, but I love it anyway. No pop ups and it works great. IE was just driving me crazy. I started using it a couple of days ago my cousin recommended it to me and I don't regret it and Love him for it. If you really want just download IE as well so you have both.

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Ok...I've never met this kid in person but I talk to him online all the time. He's lets call him J's friend, and lets call him B. Well J told me that B likes me...I want to know if it's possible to like someone that you never met in person? I think I like him.

I believe so. If you can talk to him about most things. You would have to meet him though and talk to him and hang out with him in person. He can just be acting fake on line. I know exactly how you feel though. Good luck.

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were can you find really cute bedsets for a teenage girl? ((bedsets as in comforters?)) please help!

department stores. ex. Kohles, JC Penny, Boscoves, even Walmart.

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is it true that you cant use tampons until you had your period for a year?

no

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i'm afraid that if i start using tampons it will give me that disease thing and plus the thought of tampons just grosses me out but my pads always leak and i feel so uncomfortable with them. ew i dont know what to do.

The reason for getting TSS is if you leave it in to long, or when you use a bigger size then need be. As long as you know what kind of flow you have and put in the correct size, plus take them out after 4 hours or so, you will be fine.

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is it normal for your breasts to hurt during your period?

yep

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Hey.. does anyone know if it is possible to transfer pix from my phone to my computer? It's a Samsung SCH-a670. Also.. how much would that cost (if it is possible)?

Thanks a bunch.. I rate 5's

As far as I know you would just have to buy the usb cord. That goes into your computer and your phone. Then you can transfer anything from your computer onto your phone and vis virsa.

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