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Okay i really like this guy Nate.He's a stoner and not exactly my type. He's wild and is all into sex and drugs and basically uses girls for action. I love him to death though even though i know he's totally wrong for me. but there is something i about him that i just love. Actually he gets mad at me and doesn't like telling me things because when he does i act like his mom and tell him how everything he thinks is bad. And drugs are bad and doing oral sex is bad.I was always brought up to think that way and because he does it i feel like maybe it's okay. I would never do weed or anything like that i have more sense.
But recently he told me he likes this girl who lives in Virgina who is 18.And wants to drive up to see him and thinks he's hot. Him and I both live in RI. I'm scared of losing him because i've known him for so many years and i still have feelings for him. Even if he is an asshole there is something that always hold me back and i just want to be with him. He knows i like him, i don't think he cares. Otherwise he would of done something, maybe.
I'm so jealous of this new girl i feel like she is taking him anyway from me.. what should i do? Is he too wrong for me and i should give up? I try liking other people but i always go back to liking him. he's hard to let go, i think it's because i don't think he's really as bad as he is and he was my first boyfriend.
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Ok I know who this is. Hard to not know. I've known you for ever and a day. Anyway, it’s not wrong that you were brought up that way. I was brought up the same way hence our moms best friends and all. Well what he does isn't right and you shouldn't think its ok just because he does it. About the whole acting like a mother thing that’s what I use to always do until I realized that by doing that they keep more secrets from you and you become more distant. Just keep your opinions to your self. It's his life, it's his mistakes to make and you have to let him make them. Some people have to reach rock bottom until they realize what it all does to them. Now this Nate has been someone I have heard about forever. So you like him a great deal why I have no clue but that’s not my decision and you have to decide what this will do to your life in the way of what type of person he is and what kind of choices you will make while with him. This new girl is a real jock though. Don't even waist a min thinking about it. Save your energy for track and math h.w. Why is she a jock? ok first of she lives in Virginia I really don't think an 18 year old girl would come to NY to be with a 14/15 year old guy. It's all a big joke. 1. he’s messing with you, or 2. she’s messing with him. If by god knows what means she does come it won't be long until she is gone. You on the other hand have always been there for this kid and seems like you always will be so in the end; if you don't act like his mom he will come to you and fill you in on the details. I can't tell you who's right or wrong for you but you my dear deserve a lot more I will tell you that much. I would suggest moving on and finding someone who is worth wasting the time over but the final decision lies in your hands. About the whole going back to him thing, well I've been there done that. Until I did go out with him and after it was over I saw what a big asshole and jerk and everything else he was. When you like or love someone you don't see clearly. You see beyond the imperfections, you see and imperfect person perfectly. How to stop that? Well you somehow have to show your own self what he really is and how much better you can and should get. I hope this helped even a little. If anything just ask me. You have my Aim and my #. I know we only each other once every couple of years but I'm always there for you.
*Much love*
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