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i'm scared of bein' alone,...pretty much anywhere. i always think someone's followin me or i'll get kiddnapped and raped or something,...and i dont know what triggered it. i just felt scared one day and its been like that ever since,...i dont know what to do about it...
when you weree a child, you were probably very badly frightened while alone. Most fears people have come from an experience they had as a small child. There isnt much you can do about it, except maybe face your fear or see a therapist for advice on how to deal with it. hope i helped! NeLLiE x0x
hi im running the mile tommorrow in school, and i was wondering how I could get a better time. i'm a 13/m, around 5'2", 99lbs. last year i got like 7min 16sec, but i would really like to get under 7minutes this year. any tips on how to get a better time? (when to sprint, when to job.. etc?)
Thanks in Advance.
All fives.
ok, well for maybe half the mile jog. then when your ready, switch into a sprint for a little bit. stop when theres about 3/10 of a mile left. then go back to a jog and even a walk if you need to. that should do it. hope i helped! nellie x0x
okay so im 15/f and i like this guy alot. i think i might actually love him too. hes 14/m, a few months younger than me. but my one friend things im nuts! i mean her perfect dream guy is taller and older than her. While i seemed to always like younger guys.. (not too young though) But i mean shes just like "well are you sure you like him? i mean its okay if you though he was cute but liking him?" and i think its just so frustraighting! and i know i shouldnt care what she thinks about him but i mean... it would be nice to just have her be like more supportive about it. what do you say?? and i'm so sorry this is so long.. ill rate
well, you shluldnt care what she thinks. but sometimes people can be like that. yes it would be nice for her to support you, but things dont always work out the way you want them. now, you sound like a nice enough girl. id say if you like him then ask him out. age doesnt matter these days, and neither do freinds's opinions. hope i helped! nellie x0x
Ok so I was going out with this really nice,sweet,HOT boy. So our longest relationship was 1 week, but I still told him i loved him and he told me he loved me.But this other girl liked him and said something to him and he broke up with me. Icryed my slef to sleep for 2 weeks in a row and now I cant stop thinking about him,hes in my dreams at my school EVERYWHERE!!!! But today in skills he pushed me over and what i think flerted with me. He wont look at me only if i laugh and im not looking at him.All i wanna know is if it is over???
ok, first of all 1 week is not a relationship. he didnt really love you...you mightve loved him but he probably didnt love you. if he loved you he wouldntve left you. So yes, i think its over but you could try getting back together with him. let me know what happens! NeLLiE x0x
13/m
I would like to dress up like something different this year. I have been...
A pirate
A hobo
a devil
an m&m
A clown
dracula
Grim reaper
Any1 got some Ideas that arent listed?
scream, you know the long white face with black eyes and mouth, and a black cape. its a pretty easy costume if you dont want to get to detailed, but you could also add things like a hoe, i think thats what theyre called....
okay, 2 questions...
1. I straiten my hair , and i wanna look good and everything, but it seems like my hair is thinning day by day, what should i do??
2. Okay all the girls in my school wear Abercombie..and if i don't wear it i feel like a dork.....so if i were to go shopping there, how much would a whole outfit cost....jw...
PLEASE HELP!
your hair isnt thinning, its just heat damaged. try using anti heat styling products.
abercrombie is VERY expensive. a pair of jeans can cost up to $100! i suggest shopping at stores like g&g rave, foxy lady, wet seal, epic, forever 21, gap , and american eagle. some of the styles are a little bit different,but you dont want to look the same as everyone else! hope i helped!
nellie x0x
Sorry if it's long I'll rate 5's to serious answers.
My dad has been going over his brothers. Lately and he has been taking pills and stuff while he is their. I didn't find out this out until today. My other uncle says they really messed him up when he was younger and doesn't want to see it happen again. Well today he told me he was leaving because my mom and him were arguing he said he'd be back in a few days but I don't want him to leave at all. This really upsets me because I love my dad with all my heart. And my mom says their taking a break which usually means divorce and I don't want them to separate because I love them equally. My dad says this is because my mom drinks (not heavily) and stuff. I think I am a cause for this to because last week my mom and I were arguing and the cops came (for disorderly conduct or something) and as soon as my dad came home she told him. I'm really confused because I love both of my parents. Last night when they were arguing I cried myself to sleep and thought of suicide. This is the first time I thought of this in a few years. I don't think I would really do it thought. What should I do for my family and myself?
well your parents have to realize that if they break up how it will affect you, but sometimes you have to just let life go on. If they break up, yes you will be upset at first, but after some time you will realize that they are much happier without being togehter all the time. they will still love you the same, just not eachother. unfortunately these things do happen but we just have to forget about it and move on. hope everything works out. nellie
Okay so theres this really creepy older guy that is living common low with another woman and is always hitting on me. He honks at me when he drives by in his car (which is almost every day)and has called me cutie when he was on his bike.
This one time he came into my work ( I was receptionist) and started asking me how old I was, where I lived, and then told me I looked really good and he wanted to phone me. I told the staff and they were going to phone the cops, but he never came in again so they never called them.
He is a total sleaze, I talked to one of his kids once and they said that he's fathered nine sons by nine different woman.
Other people have told me he his really mean to his wife. He has spent time in jail and was banned from the place I worked for harassing other people.
At first I just laughed off his behavior but It is really beginning to bother me. I don't want to tell him to stop honking at me and stuff because I don't want to piss him off but also don't want him to think I like him.
What should I do?
ok, you really should report him for harrassment or get a restraining order or something because, not to scare you or anything, but something like this happened to my uncle, he kept getting harrases by this guy he had to fire at work and the guy ultimatley ended up murdering him...so yea its best to take care of this now before it gets any worse. hope i helped! nellie
my friends boyfriend recently got stabbed by his ex-girlfriend. my friend thinks it is all her fault because he got stabbed because of something she told him to tell his ex. and then his ex went locco on him. does is sound like her fault?
will rate...
smartass answers not welcome
PS-wat can i do to comfort her?
omg im so sorry...well, when a person is grieving, they often dont want to talk about it. It's not her fault, she just made a mistake. Of course, this mistake caused her bf to get stabbed, but thats her ex's fault. He needs to learn how to control himself. Now, if your friend still has some feelings for her ex, then dont say what im about to say to her, but if she doesnt then tell her that hes just an animal, and a loser. if he cant handle his ex going out with someone else then thats his problem, but violence is DEFINITLY not the answer.
hope i helped!
I need a good, INEXPENSIVE (Below $40) Ceramic Hair straightener. Have any advice on where/what to get?
well i got a really good ceramic straightener from essentials for 45, is that ok? they have other ones for under 40 tho. uther than that, i recommend walmart. hope i helped!
Nellie
Today we had to watch an "educational movie" in English and it was about drinking and driving. Well, the cop made a guy take the breathing test thing and on the machine it said, "please blow". My friend and I found that amusing so I decided to write "please blow" on his leg and draw an arrow pointing up (immature yeah, what high school kid isn't?). My teacher then came over and asked us what we were doing. I told him nothing and that I was just writing on my friends leg. He read what was written and wrote both of us up as a level 2 offence. That gives us a Saturday detention. We thought it was so unfair because I mean seriously, how does that deserve a Saturday D-hall? Should we try to fight back with our AP and tell him what we think or should we just take the punishment and go?
you should just take the punishment because 1, if you tell your ap, he will agree with your teacher, and 2, what you did, whether it was intentional or not, was sexually offensive. Your teacher is only doing this to teach you a lesson. He doesnt want you to make these mistakes in life, and besides, do you really think a teacher would want to spend a saturday supervising detention? No, so try to understand that. Hope i helped!
I'm 13/f in the 8th grade.
Why do boys always beat each other up? Every morning, there's always at least two boys beating each other up in the hallway or by the lockers. For example, this morning this guy stole another guy's backpack and tied a piece of twine to it, letting it swing over the balcony. The kid who owned the backpack got really angry, and the one who stole the backpack jumped on top of him and tried to throttle him. Why does this happen? Is it hormones, or are the boys in our school just really violent?
its really hormones. During the teenage years, boys are becoming men, so they feel that they need to prove theyre strong, not only to other people, but to themselves. They feel insecure and it helps them feel better about themselves. Basically, its just a phase that all boys go through. hope i helped!
does anyone know how i can burn the songs i download on limewire?
you mean like put them on cd? go to the library screen and click explore on the bottom. It will bring you to another screen, with all your songs. highlight the songs you want and click copy all items to audio cd underneath music tasks. It will bring you to windows media player or w/e media player you have and then it will burn them regularly. hope i helped!
my sister is such a fucking bitch, shesthe same age as me and she always finds a way to critisize me. about everything. literally. after it haappened. it makes me want to strangle her to death. i picture myself tying her to a chair and beating the shit outta her. i cant live with her anymore. she calls me fat, ugly, gay(im not), she makes fun of me because i have ADD(which i dont) and because i got a D on my report card ONCE! in my 1st year of jr. high. i cant stand her, i can hardley live with her anymore. help. 13 f
i would tell your parents, and if it continues, i say slap her across the face and tell her to shut her mouth or else. it might not work, but itll defintily shut her up for a while. hope ihelped!
okay.. so me and my boyfriend went out for almost 3 years.. we broke up on september 23rd.. and like ive been upset ever since then.. like i just wanted to take a break .. and he got all mad.. and we broke up..., and he had 2 GIRLFRIENDS since then.. and we broke up on a friday and he went out with one girl the next.. i was so upset.. like maybe he didnt love me.. seems like it right? well he was my everything.. and i cant get him off my mind.. he was so sweet but now hes a total jerk.. i mean he use to cry over me how cute is that.. can you please give me some advice i need some real bad.. i know i didnt exactly have a question but can you tell me how i should take care of this and stop being so upset..!! THANKS SO MUCH!!!
well, i know it seems hard, but you just have to learn that hes not the person you thought he was. He seemed so nice while you were going out with him, becase you liked him a lot, maybe even loved him. but now that he has left, your noticing he has flaws and your right. I mean, sure its ok to cry, but eventually your gonna have to forget about it and let life go on. hope i helped!
ok well i'm a 16 yr old gurl and i just recently started going out with a friend of mine like 3weeks ago on thursday and i ador him......my first question is, is it weird that i might love him already? like i feel so confortable with him....and the other question is......i want to have sex with him...but is it to soon? like he knows i'm a virgin and he doesnt care to wait but i want to.
plz help i'll rate high
well, if you guys were already good friends, then no there is nothing weird with the fact you might love him after 3 weeks of dating. If he wants to have sex, and your both ready, then go for it! As long as your absolutley sure your ready. Dont do anything you dont want to because you feel pressred. hope i helped!
My cousin/best friend is basically giving up on life. I had her join an after school activity with me but then she quit. Then she said shes just gonna stop working well in school and not worry about anything anymore. This is basically because of her peers and family. People think shes a pothead, and i siad "well maybe because you put on your myspace you smoke pot when you really dont" and her sister tells her shes a screw up and doesnt deserve to be on this planet. What can I do to help my cousin out and turn her back to normal and if not better?
umm your cousin should see a pshychiatrist(sp) A proffesional would probably do much better than a random person. My advice to you is dont use anyone else's advice because it might just make things worse. But thats just me. And she really should get rid of the part of her myspace that says she smokes pot. She actally did some of this to herself by puttingg that there. And sisters will be sisters, teres not much you can do about her but you can try to make her be nicer. hope i helped!
Is it wrong that I'm happy over the fact my ex-girlfriend just got cheated on by her most recent boyfriend?
well if she cheated on you then hell no you have a right to be happy that shes gettng a taste of her own medicine.
Alright, I'm making a new xanga layout and I want to decide which quote I should make it of. I'll give some backround on me- I've never had a bf so if any of these quotes are too "you break my heartish" tell me NO! And I dont want to sound to pathetic and emo(tional) because thats not me! But something not HAPPY! Here's the ones I have to choose from:
Why can't anyone love a breath taker, a smile faker?
Do you ever wake up to realize your life is meaningless? Does it give you strength or lead you to your grave at a young age?
It seems that when I ran away from my past all my dignity, my faith, my pride got left back.
I think it’s time that I realize self pity’s meaningless.
Now I realize I‘d give anything I have to walk a day in those old shoes
Wondering what my first smoke would be like, my first f***, my next f*** up. Or the next band that would change my life.
From confidence to self doubt in 60 seconds.
Trying to win approval from people that I don’t know.
Not admitting I’m fake.
ALRIGHT! Thanks for all the help...I know this was probably a pain to read!
i like the self pity one and confidence to self doubt. Whats your xanga? maybe ill use your layout. leave a comment on mine someitme, mine is XoXoNeLLiEoXoX
You know how most girls like dating guys that are older than them. Some girls at my school like dating younger guys. And I was just wondering how many years apart do you think is 'too old' or 'too young' to date?
-13/f if your wondering
-Sorry I didn't know what to put this under.
well a year younger is fine, but its ok to go higher 2 or 3 years. A lot of girls your age (and mine, im 13 also) like dating guys in highschool because theyre more mature. But, with maturity comes commitment. A lot of highschool guys want sex, so you have to be ready for that. hope i heled!